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Ok everyone, I am a 16/f. I just found out Saturday that a friend of mine that I have known since middle school died. Then Sunday I found out my boyfriend is cheating on me and he is now denying it. Let alone Wednesday being the anniversary of my grampas death.
And I don't know what to do. Its so hard to hold on. I need some advice on what to do.
And on top ok everything my cousin who says shes my bestfriend is trashing my life. What do I do??
Please someone help me!

OK,
You need to talk to some people and get this out of your system - 'a problem shared is a problem halved' and all that. Even if you're only talking to a diary (try www.opendiary.com if you're scared of people in your house finding a paper diary), it's better than nothing. Check out my profile and IM me on any of those addresses if you ever want to talk :)
Going to this friends funeral may help a little, so you can properly say goodbye. About your Grandpa...well, there's nothing you can really do other than talk to your relatives about him and have a good laugh about the good times you shared. You could talk to him in your head about your other problems - I know it's not real but sometimes it helps me :) You could also visit his grave/where his ashes were scattered if it's not too hard for you.
And your cousin...tell her, quite simply, to f**k off. Don't let her make your life any worse!! Tell her how and why she is annoying you, and maybe she'll stop. If not, tell a parent, or cut this cousin out of your life as much as is possible - i.e. be busy when she rings you up, don't reply to her IMs or block her, avoid her as much as you can. You don't need any extra stress from her!
They say bad things come in threes, so hopefully this is the last of your bad luck!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx

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