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I'm pregnant but I don't know if the guy I'm with is the father. I cheated on him with my ex, along the sametime as I got pregnant. What do I do? Do I tell him that he might not be the father?... he's gunna freak!!!! and how do I tell my mother I'm pregnant.. and I don't know who my baby's daddy is?

OK - firstly, don't panic :) Everything will be OK, you've just gotta think calmly about this. If you don't want to tell your current boyfriend that the baby may not be his, don't yet. Either try and work out who's it is or get an DNA test (your's and the ex's DNA, if he consents).
Do you have to tell your mother you're pregnant? Like, do you want to or do you have to because you live with her or whatever? If you don't have to, then wait until you're ready. If you live with her, she'll obviously notice lol, then you don't have to tell her that you don't know who the father is. Telling her you're pregnant is big enough news!
Lastly, I'd just like to say how brave you are and how strong you must be to be keeping this baby! Most people at 18 would have an abortion and have no second thoughts over it. I think you'll make a brilliant mum, so no worries there :)
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx

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(Rating: 5) Thank you very much. I wouldn't want to get an adortion because that's killing a baby. Then giving up the baby for adoption would be a huge no for me, because I was adopted. And I would like for the kid to know who his/her parents are. So, I'm going to keep it for sure. I might be rough, but I know I'll be alright. I told my boyfriend and even though he was mad at first, he said he'll still be there. And I know he'll be there even if he isn't the father because he's a great guy.. and we've been together since we were 14. So, I know everythings going to work out. But thanks so much for the advice.. and thanks for saying I'd be a brilliant mom. Your so sweet =)
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