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hi...sorry if this is long.
well ages ago i met a guy and fell instantly in love with him. he liked me 2 but i didnt have the courage to tell me and now hes moved on. were like best friends now; we bonded alot when i was living back at home in america. i never got on with my mom and he understood that an kinda helped me through it.
my mom hated me a lot and blamed me for her and my dads divorce. we argued too much and she was always tellin me she wishes i was dead. this guy, lets call him adrian, helped me thru it and always made me feel lots better.
i moved to england to be with him (as a friend) and now my mom is ill and wants me to go back to america to look after her. i realy resent her and dont think i could look after her properly. im also scared that if i go, 'adrian' will meet someone while im away and fall in love...and i will never have a chance to tell him how i feel.
what should i do?
btw i had planned on tellin him how i feel just as i left on the plane...but that would be mean although it would give him time to think bout everythin. what do you think?
rose, 18
I think waiting until you leave on a plane is mean and unfeeling. I think you should tell him how you feel right now, and what is going on between you and your mom. You will need some support even if it is from far away. He could possibly want to come with you to help.
Your mom might actually have had a change of heart. If she truly needs you, then you should go.
If only to know that you did the right thing by her even though she didn't treat you with the same respect. Surely she wouldn't ask unless she really meant it. If there is anyone else in your family that can check on her before you leave, I would do so. Then you won't have been blackmailed into a needless trip.
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Thanks loads, they were some great ideas! XxXxX
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