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It's another crazy year in my world of entropy. I am engaged now and very excited. It will be a little while before we can get married due to money constraints, but it will happen.
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ok me and my best friend have been friends for like a year. she transferred to our skool 2months into the school year during our freshman year. well when she first moved here she still dated her this guy from her old town which is only like 20miles away...maybe less. well they broke up and no its been like 9months since they broke up and lately she has been sayin that i should go out with him. from what she has told me about him he sounds like the kind of guy i would date and i think we could be good together but she is my best friend and i dont kno whether i should date him or not. i mean there is the best friend rule..no dating ur best friends ex...idk i have brought it up to her and how im afraid if i date him it will hurt out friendship but she insists that it would be fine bc she wasnt in love with him and she thinks he and i would be good for eachother and stuff. i just dont kno wut to do....plz i need sum serious advice on this one... ~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo~!~

Call him on the phone and talk to him. She has given you her blessing. She obviously cares enough about you both to make sure that you are happy.
I actually sort of did this once. My friend started dating my fiancee with my blessing (well I didn't offer him up, they both asked me). I said that it was ok. They actually got married. I don't hang out much with them since I moved away from home, but they have 2 kids. So as long as she truly doesn't mind, it could be wonderful.

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(Rating: 4) thanks for the advice hit me up if ya need anything hun~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo~!~


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