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I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we really love eachother. We've talked about the whole sex thing and agreed that we'd wait until we were together for a longer period of time. My boyfriend said that he's ready whenever I'm ready but he doesn't want to pressure me into anything that I don't want to do. The thing is, I really AM ready. I know that he is the one that I want to lose my virginity to him and he wants to lose his virginity to me. Every time I see him, I get tempted to do more and more with him but I have to stop myself. It's not that I'm scared it's just that I feel that we haven't been together long enough to be doing anything like that. I trust him and I know he won't hurt me. I don't want to become tempted and do that. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can avoid myself from being tempted? I can't have sex with him, it's not the right time for us yet. Thanks so much if you can help! If anyone is in or has been in my situation, tell me how you handled it or how you are handling it.
I am sort of in your situation. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, and it is only the second time I have had a boyfriend without sex in the picture. He let me know up front that it wasn't going to happen unless we get married. Which is good and bad. That doesn't mean we don't kiss and cuddle, however.
Having a relationship without worrying about sex and its consequences has been wonderful. I had no idea I could deal with it this long. I was extremely concerned, but hey the guy has these wonderful hands...So after a few months it gets easier and easier. I am not saying we aren't tempted and we do confess to each other how bad we would like to throw one another down, that happens. And actually its kinda fun. So hold on and hope for the best.
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Thank you thank you thank you!!! Best advice I got for my question! Thank you so much!
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