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17f...hey im really really really close with my mom...shes been dating this one guy for like 3 years..they were SUCCCH an unstable couple though like they argued and broke up like every week...my mom even called the police on him once because the fight was so big..he has so much money though its crazy...parts of me thinks thats one of the reasons why my mom is with him..but neway i HATE this guy and my mom knows it..theyve called eachother sooo many names when they fight..it was such a dramatic relationship..im like a fucked up kid from it now because ive witnessed all of it..wheneever they would "break up" he would ALWAYS call my mom begging for her back and saying how sorri he is and blahblah..then they would get back together..theyve gone thru counciling, all of it..the thing is they "broke up" like a month and a half ago and he hasnt called her like once..my mom is SO DEPRESSED off it now..be4 when they would break up she would be like i dont want that asshole, blahblahblahblah..now since shes being rejected i guess she is soo sad..ive tried talking to her and telling her the obvious: its not a healthy relationship, u 2 agrue too much, etcetcetc...but she doesnt get it..i dunno how to help her..they ARENT right for eachother and i DONT want them to get back together..any tips on how i could help her move on?

They say love is blind for a reason. I wouldn't worry about them getting back together for the moment. The point is that they aren't together right now. Spend some time hanging out with your mom and do some "girl friend" things together. It will get you closer to her and you can tell her a little about what you have been feeling about her relationship. If these fights continue, I would try finding a different guardian to live with because its not safe for you to live in that kind of environment.

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(Rating: 5) thanks alot ur advice did help alot..=]


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