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I have a friend...let's call her "Megan". Megan and I are pretty cool. We hang out at school, between classes and after school on occasions. I have no problem going places with her, spending the night at her place...stuff like that. We're pretty good friends. She just has this really annoying habit of always trying to ruin someone else's good time.
Like, in an argument, when she's wrong and you're right, she'll scramble for any possible reason to say you're still wrong. Or if something good happens to you, she'll always say something to make you feel terrible about it. I hope that makes sense. It bothers me a lot and I've tried telling her it's annoying, but she still does it.
I don't want to stop being friends with her. She's cool most of the time. This is just starting to get to me. Why can't she let anyone else have a little sunshine sometimes? :( (Indeed)
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Don't allow her to make you feel terrible about something good. Make her see that you don't even care if she tries hard to make you feel bad about something good. Just feel good about it and display that to her openly. Sort of like 'Haha, you tried to make me feel bad about a good thing, but you didn't because I am a better person than you.' But dont actually say that, just show it.
Eventually, shes going to realise that what shes saying barely has any effect at all on you and that her opinion on the matter doesnt change anything for you. Maybe she'll catch the hint or give up on doing it.
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