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Ok.. I'm 18/f and my b/f of 2 and a half years moved to Georgia 5 weeks ago. He said he was doing it to ''grow up'' and to make sure his feelings for me were real. Well, he tells me he still loves me and wants to be with me, but when I try to get him to come back home..he won't. Do you think it's cause he is testing me, or because he wants me to leave him alone? Thanks!!
He is asserting his independence. Sometimes you have to know if you can take care of yourself before you commit yourself entirely to someone else. If you let him go, he will eventually come back if he misses and loves you.
It sounds like he is a good guy. I think he is just trying to prepare himself for the future. He told you what his goal was. Just trust him a little bit. It isn't easy, but you will get busy and not miss him as much. This doesn't mean either one of you won't get back together. Just hold tight, and do something to forward your growing up process.
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Omg you are soo right!! I mean he has told me that he wants to make sure he can take care of himself before he tries to take care of someone else.. but he just acts so confused. But thanks a lot for answering!!
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