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Hey! My name is Ashlea. I've been a member on here for a few years. I'm 24 years old and have a little baby boy. I'm pretty outgoing and I love to joke around. I have a very strong sense of humor and I love making people laugh. I don't care too much about what other people think about me because in the end, you're all you got. Nothing else matters but your true opinion of yourself. I think everyone is beautiful in their own ways. I never look down on anyone nor do I judge people for their decisions or lifestyles. I love to listen to music. That's probably the only reason I like driving, otherwise, It'd be boring as hell. I love spending time with my son. He is by far the best thing that's ever happened to me. He is my best friend and when I'm with him, nothing else matters. The whole world could pass me by, and as long as I have him, it doesn't matter one bit. He's the only one who can truly make me smile. I am truly happy because of him. I love spending money when I have it, and sometimes, that can be a bad habit. I love to write poems, and am told I am very good at it, but only when I'm upset or bothered by something. Lately, though, I have not written any. I also enjoy writing. I seem to have a way with words and I love how a paper sounds after I write it. It makes me sound more intelligent.(lol) I also like to watch movies, mostly comedy and drama...I hate action movies and boy-ish movies. Horror movies give me nightmares(yes, even at this age.) ...I like to go on the computer alot and I love meeting new people, so feel free to get in touch with me!
I hate people who think they are better than you, and people who are snobby or stuck-up. Having that attitude will never get you anywhere in life, and I look at it as a sign of immaturity. I like to be around people that within the first 5 minutes of talking to them you know that you will already feel comfortable with them because they are that down to earth. I can't stand people who criticize other people and their lives. Understand that you, as well, have things about your life that you do not like...so you wouldn't like it very much if people talked about you in a bad way, would you? We're all human, we all make mistakes and run into bad situations. Things happen that we can't control. These are all parts of life though and can be handled with the help of others, which is why negative criticism is not needed.
I believe that what you can't control, you have to let go. Too often we hang onto things when we have no control or power over its outcome, so in the end, life will take its course and we have to just go with it.
I guess some people would say I can be selfish at times, although I choose not to believe that(lol), and if things don't go my way, i WILL be upset. But, I also learn to get over it and move on. I love giving advice. Everyone I know say that's the one thing they love about me the most...I never judge anyone on any of their problems and I truly do enjoy helping people with their problems in any way I can. I will go to any extent I have to in order to help someone else. I have a habit of putting other people's needs ahead of my own. I have been giving people advice and helping people so much with their problems that I don't even get that GREAT feeling anymore from helping people. It's just in my nature and I am happy to just be able to be of some sort of help to anyone: stanger or friend.
I am not here for the ratings or comments. I am only here to help you, and I hope to recieve help in return when I am in need as well. I understand how sometimes you just need somebody to talk to...someone that understands. So don't be afraid to ask me any questions about anything...i'll help you with anything I can. If there is anything I can help you with that you would like to discuss privately, you can note me in my inbox or email me as well as instant message me on AIM. I would be glad to help you. hope to hear from you soon!!
♥ .even the people that never frown...eventually b r e a k . d o w n. ♥
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I've been with my guy for over a year and a half, but we broke it off about 3 months ago because I moved about 30 minutes away. We tried to keep things going, but I was so used to seeing him every single day. It was basically like we lived with each other. He always spent the nights with me at my apartment and what not. I sort of lived on my own and I didn't have a job or anything, so he was the one who made sure I wasn't hungry or sick or feeling down or anything. I guess I was so used to seeing him everyday that once I moved away, that it hurt me a lot that I would only get to see him only once or twice a week. I'd complain to him about how I felt, so he decifrf to break up because he said that he doesn't want to hurt me. Him and I, we still keep in touch, I tell him I love him still and he as well. Well, I've grown accustomed to him not being able to see me all the time, so I guess that now, it's okay when we don't see one another much. We still act like boyfriend and girlfriend; the only thing that hurts me now is that I know that we're not. I still treat him the same as when we were together and a lot of times I beat myself up about it. I feel like.. I'm a whore or something, giving out my love to someone who isn't even my boyfriend. I guess what I'm trying to ask is, if I should hold on to what we have and continue on, or should I just say fuck it? I know that in time, we are definitely going to get back with each other.. so.. until then, should I just keep giving him my love?
well, yu can tell that yu love him very much and same goes for him..he broke up with yu in YOUR best interest so yu wuldnt be hurt even tho it hurt him to end it..he wuld rather hurt then have yu hurting..and thatz something yu kno yu shuld hold on to..i mean, how many guyz wuld actually do that nowadays?? i wuld definately keep sending him yur love and dont even consider stopping. i wuld also let him kno how yu feel, and tell him that yu love him so much and that even tho yuz are far apart..yu can still see eachother every mintue available and can still share love even wen yur apart!! i mean, therez still the phone!! my boyfriend lives 45 minz away and i see him every single weekend and then talk to him on the phone every day during the week. weve been together for 2 yearz and sometimez it drivez us crazy cuz we miss eachother so much, but then again, not having eachother at all wuld kill us even more !! so try talking to him about this and tell him that yud love to try it again, or if yu dont wana jump into it again, then just keep doing what yur doing!! good luck girl and dont let this one slip away!!!
(Rating: 5) thanks a lot ;]