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Okay so i admit, i've never had a boyfriend. im 14 years old and going into 8th grade. ive been told by guys that im really pretty and have a great personality. im not overweight, im not unpopular or stuck up. what keeps me from being something guys like? i have guy friends, but whenever i like a guy, they never like me back as much. i dont think highly of myself when im around people. i actually tend to be more shy then anything around guys. but, what can i do? i know every guy is different but... ugh im so stumped!! please help, if you answer my question good ill give you a rewarding 5! =) thanks!
ps: im not just trying to get a boyfriend because of people around me having them, its whenever i find someone i like, they dont feel the same...
That really isn't uncommon. Don't feel so inferior around other people! There is no need for that. Feel good about yourself, and stay friends with your guy-friends. Unfortunately, you can't make anyone like you - but this doesn't mean no one will. Not to mention, that there may very well be guys that like you and you don't even know it!
Are the guys that you usually have feelings for your friends? I recall my 7th-8th grade years being full of guys who were my buddies, but once they were close enough to me to be friends, they wouldn't cross that line.
You can't do anythign about that, but things may change. Just wait it out, you don't really need a boyfriend right now anyway. Perhaps you'll get in touch with someone you like, perhaps you won't. You have plenty of time for that, so just keep feeling good about yourself.
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great advice!! thanks so much =)
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