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i was in two carwrecks with my mom. i am now in a
wheelchair. i go to the doctor alot so i miss school alot. but i still have a 3.5 . anyways,
i can't go and be in sports anymore and i can't ride the rides at the fair and i can't do all of the stuff i used to. is it wrong for me to cry when all of that stuff gets to me? am i just being selfish and a cry baby? if you could please help. signed,
feelin blu

All right I am just adding a bit. It's hard when you feel like you can't do something you used to do normally. I hurt my ankle really seriously 3 months ago. I am 90% better now, but I had some terrible days of crying, pulling my hair out, and asking why me.

Try to focus on what you can do. There are places on the internet and people who have wheelchairs, and how they coped. Look it up on yahoo or ask jeeves. There are also information on sports and wheelchairs. There may be something close to your town if it isn't in it.

You are going to rehab. That's a good thing. They will help you do things you can't do now and you will be stronger. It was actually fun for me. You get out of whatever you put into it. The harder you can stand to work without hurting yourself, the more you can do each day. Some days you do more than other days.

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(Rating: 5) thank you very much. your a good person.


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