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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

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They aint sayin your wrong because they dont know the the answer to their question in the first place thats why they are askin..durR..

No, they're correcting me because they think I'm wrong and that they are right. & plus they weren't questions.

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Wow. I've been reading the comments people have been leaving you .. how rude! Some people need to just get over themselves! What ass holes . im sorry i had to get that out - i just couldnt help how those nasty ppl talk to you like that on here! and you give AWESOME advice .. and are really pretty .. so dont listen to those twits! lol .. ♥ AngELiinA xO0xo0x

Aw, thank you sweetie! I don't take their bull, but every time I get a comment like that, it's from the same person. They are so immature. :DD

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Hey darling ! I miss you, but anyways my question is you know how you have the links to your recommended columnists. Well I forgot how to do that and I was wondering if you could help me. =)

I love you very much and you shouldn`t listen to what those immature people have been saying about you being a bad columnists because personally you are one of the best. I love you, darling ♥ ♥

I miss you too !! The code is ; Just delete the spaces.

< a href = "URL HERE" > TEXT HERE < / a >

Thanks so much for saying that. You made my night better. I don't listen to what they have to say because I know they are wrong. You're so nice & I love ya tons. Anything else, just let me know. Prom/girlie.

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no..the only reason i leave some "pointless" comments is cause you dont know what you talkin about nd you givin people wrong advice..thats not good..

If I give people "wrong" advice they would say so. I don't get rated a 1 or anything. They leave feedback that says thanks so much, you helped me. I love when people tell me that I'm doing something wrong because then I can correct that, but so far no one has said I gave them bad advice. Thanks for letting me know your opinion though.

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ive been getting zits on my back sorta like achne on my back and i want them gone i used achne wash on them a couple times but still nothing do i need to eat healthyer or something?

Ah, a lot of girls go through this & it sucks. Use Neutrogena Body Clear Body Wash. It works. Acne is also caused by your diet. If you eat a lot of unhealthy things and fats it causes it to happen. Don't pop your pimples and make sure you use lotion.

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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself.

They join because they have no lives and they have nothing better to do. They love being mean and retarted and annoying us so that's why they join. It's really annoying and they are just pathetic.

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when you answer a question here, and the person who asked it gives you like a one or something, and you change your advice or say say something by editing your answer, will it still say 1 new answer by their question thing so that they know you edited your answer?

No it won't. Your rating won't change unless they change it. The only thing you can do is type EDIT by it and hopefully they will see it. I know it sucks.

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theres nuthin wrong with a GIrl bleeding more than once its perfectly normal..damn really advicenators*** is not for you..so get on somewhere

That's just YOUR opinion, so why in the world would I EVER listen to that?? I know I give good advice and I don't give a crap what you think. If you think I'm wrong, then you should get on somewhere and stop asking me questions or leaving me your pointless comments. Okay?

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i am a 14 yr old girl in the 8th grade. this guy wants me to have sex with him. i really want to cause i love him alot. but i dont want to get pregnant and have kids. any suggestions???

I think it's just your emotions saying that you love him. Does he "love" you or are you guys even going out or what?? Anyways, if you really love him and you're ready to have sex with him, then go ahead. It's good that you're thinking of the outcome. If you don't want to get pregnant then wear a condom or even birth control? Just be careful and do it when you're ready, not when he is.

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How old Should a child be when they start dating?

That depends. There really isn't a specific age but most teens just say that they are "dating" or going out because they have a boyfriend of girlfriend. Most of us don't even know what love really. If I had to say an age, I'd say 14.

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my name, jake i like football, football fun, i play football lots, but girl dont like me or football, i like girl lots, she make choo choo come out of tunnel, but i like football, what i choose?


idk age maybe 15

Your grammar is horrible. Lol, anyways. If she doesn't like you, you really can't do anything about that. You should just talk to her a lot more and flirt with her and just be nice and then she might start to get to know you better and like you.

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Okay, y'all...I am a fellow advicenator. I am just wondering why advicenators who have NEVER had sex or don't know what the hell the are talking about are answering sex questions. These people actually might just TAKE your advice...at least learn about what you're answering before you hit submit. Oh yeah, and for all of you who think wearing TWO condoms is cool...you are so wrong.

I agree. I answer sex questions when I know the answer. I have never had sex but I know about it from the things I have learned or from people who have. I don't answer questions telling people how to have sex but those people who ask stupid sex questions and what to do aren't ready for it so they will take anyone's advice if they feel like it's the right thing to do. I also agree with you on the condom part. It's so not cool & it is wrong.

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i was just wondering what people think of glasses. do you find them nerdy or attractive? i have to wear glasses fullo time and i am wondering if contacts are the way to go or should i wear glasses but i dont want to seem like a four eyes freak. any inputs are appreciated.

I wish I could get glasses!! I always wanted them but I don't need them so it sucks. :( I think that they make you look smarter and not nerdy. Well, it made me look smarter. Anyways, if you have to wear them, just wear them. It's normal and people won't call you a 4 eyed freak. Contacts would be great too. You won't always have to be worrying about your glasses and such but with contacts you'll look normal and you will be able to see. You should try out both of them and see what you like more.

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i like this guy. its just every time we talk on the phone i get sooo nervous and i cant be myself, so i dont know what to talk about without sounding like a complete loser. so what can i talk about on the phone? help.

I don't think that different topics will make you feel comftrable. You just have to relax. No matter what you say, he won't think you're an idiot so just try to relax and have fun talking to him. I think you worry too much about what he might think about you. Have fun and this is your chance to get to know him better. Talk about things that happened at school, some movies you guys want to see, anything that comes to your mind tell him because that will give him the oppritunity to get to know you better.

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I like this guy, hes not that popular and i know people will think i was crazy if they found out i liked him! I dont know if he likes me or knows i like him. I always drop hints and stuff and he is like one of my good friends. Everytime we talk about who each other likes he says he dosent know who he likes and i say i cant tell him . I dont want to make things akward between us if i do tell him. I am really confused and i cant take it anymore.!

Popular?? I see. Why does someone have to be popular to get other people to accept your decision? You can't help it if you like someone or not and you shouldn't have to. I know it's hard not to care about what people think but you really shouldn't. Sometimes people like to act like those people they see on tv and act like those popular people at school who doesn't want to hang out with someone because they like someone who isn't popular. You know what I mean? Anyways, I think he might like you but is also afraid to tell you the truth because he is afraid or rejection and I think you're the same way. You should defenetly tell him. If you're one of those popular chicks, he might feel okward and think "Why would someone like her ever like me?" My advice to you is to tell him how you feel and stop giving him hints because it might be teasing him or he just doesn't get it. If he doesn't like you, what will you loose? Nothing. Just keep flirting with him and be really nice and who cares about what those other people say because they're being very immature. Do what makes YOU happy not what will please others.

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ok do yu kno the song that goes... "shake your thing.. watch your self..shake your thing.. show me whatcha workin' with !" lol cause i really like that song and i wanna put it on my xanga or sumthing !! THANK YOU

Mistikal-Shake Your Ass

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ok.. soo I like this one guy alot! I'm a freshman and hes a Junior.. but we talk sometime and class and stuff but the thing is he doesn't know i like him!! how do i tell him i have a thing for him!!?? and anyone that knows me knows that telling him in person would be horrible because my face gets horribly red and i stutter alot and stuff!

So if you have any advice on how to tell him.. that would be great.. thnx! xox

Do you talk to this guy?? If not you need to start talking to him and start saying hey a lot and just be really flirty. You have to be comftrable to tell someone how you feel so don't rush into it. Just talk to him and let him get to know you better and when you feel comftrable enough, tell him that you like him. You can also give him little hints by flirting with him.

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okay.. im 14/f and im 4'9 and the last time i weighed myself (which wasnt too long ago) i was 93-95... somewhere around there...is that too much for my height??? cuz i am a really short girl!

xOxO

No it's not too much. It's perfect.

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how often should you change a pantiliner?
thanks.

Every 2 hours.

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Hi! My names Jennifer and i`m 10 years old and i just moved to this town a couple of weeks ago. No one really likes me! What should I do?


*~Jennifer~*

Those people who don't like you don't even know you so don't let them get to you. Just be nice to everyone and don't try too hard to impress people. Be yourself and be nice to everyone and try to make new friends. You're new so give people a chance to get to know you.

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