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love til you feel it

it's all that we need in our lives.

so stand on the edge with me,

hold back your fear and see

nothing is real til it's gone.

& hold on before it's too late,

well run til we leave this behind.

don't fall just be who you are,

it's all that we need in our lives.

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i'm britney. i'm seventeen, and just got out of a long term relationship. :( i'm here to give advice whether you use it or not. anything else, just leave in my inbox.

advice

Okay,
So me and my bf have sex alot and just about everytime he cum's in me but if i dont cum can i still get preg.?

um yeah? you can get pregnant even with pre cum. that sucks.

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A LOT of people at my school talk about how they always steal from hollister & abercrombie, all the time. they say they never get caught, i really don't think that it's a good idea, but i'm just wondering what are the chances of getting caught stealing at abercrombie or hollister, if you bring the clothes into the dressing room and rip off the tags and stuff them in your purse or whatever. thank you.

don't steal period. it's a waste of time. i bet the people who claim they steal lie because they have censor's built into there clothes. it's ridiculous. even if you steal from like sears or something it's pretty much a $400 fine or something like that. just buy your own clothes. i mean i love those stores, but they are too expensive. -just don't do it. it's dumb.

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when sould i hve sex

um whenever your ready and want too.

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ok can i get sick if i eat someone out when there on their period??? is is bad???

no. you probably couldn't get sick but that's the nastiest thing i've ever heard in my life. don't do it. that's discusting. =D

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k well i might hook up with this guy at the movies, and like wed make out. and i dont know how because i never have.

can anyone tell me like how to make out, like could i pratice on a pillow or something.

that sounds lame, but like if i cant he might not like me.

don't worry about "practicing." kissing comes natrually. you don't have to stress about you thinking your terrible. just start off as a kiss, and then just lead your tonge into it. you might think it feels weird having a tonge in your mouth and all, but that's how it goes. just don't worry. you'll be fine. =D

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how do you kiss with braces. if both of you have them, or if only the girl has them? also, I'm always confused on how to start off, I never know exactly where or how to put my lips on theirs without hurting them there. any tips would be great!

when you kiss with braces it's pretty much exactly the same when you don't have braces. at first i got scared that if i madeout with someone with braces that we'd like get stuck but it's completly the same. you just start off as a regular kiss. it's not like you're going to like suck on their braces. =D

..unless you wanted too?
that'd be kinda odd?

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Ok I just broke up with my boyfriend and he hates me. Should I back of and let him chill or should I keep trying to talk to him?

Don't just feel bad for him cause he's upset. Obvisoly he did something wrong. Let him be. Find someone new. =D

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How do I ask a question?

Um this is probably the dumbest question considering you just asked a question.

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does someone want to explain to me what is 4/20 all about? thanks

it's when people smoke pot. it's hitler's birthday too, and the annaversery of the colambine.

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Hello, out of interest, what is the average unerect penis size?
Thanks

Um it's typically like 3-4-5 between there. Not like 6 or anything. :)

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i swallow my gum atleast once a day
what are the negative effects of this ?

I heard you could become constipated.

Other than that, I bet your fine!

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do masturbating and sex have the same feeling? idk. i saw someone ask something like this. but not with masturbating. and would a doctor ever be able to tell if you masturbate. btw im 13/f.and i really cant have my mom/dad knowing if the doctor DOES find out.

Noone can know if you masturbated, and doctors could find out if you had sex because you wont have a cherry anymore.

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14/f

i have done everything sexually except for intercourse and well anal but thats just gross.
Now i dont wanna hear all the stuff about oh your too young. because what you say will not effect me.
i have had the same boyfriend for a good amount of time. i havent done anything sexual with anyone but him. now i would like to know if a doctor can tell that ive gotten oral, fingered, givin head, and all that stuff? because if they can im screwed. lol
answers please

No they can't tell. They can probably tell if you had sex because your cherry wont be there anymore. Anyways if they DID know they couldn't go and tell your parents, so you're okay.

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i dont see whats wrong with sitting on a boys lap...i havent done it...of course not because everybody makes such a big deal out of it but isnt it sorta just like sitting next to eachother?

Um it's not a big deal at all. Sit on laps if you want?

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So i am going to be my boyfreinds first kiss..
and i know its going ot happen, before you go there.
I've kissed before.. a few guys.. (boyfriends)
and he hasn't.
He is going to be 16.. well, pretty gosh darn soon.
&& he's pretty shy..
so im sure i'll make the first move..
((( we were talking about it, like kidding aroudn.. well, long story..but anywyas, i can assure you it's going to happen )))
my question is..
since i don't really make the first move..
ever. i hate it..
what should i do?

what kind of kiss?
wehre should i put my hands..
stuff like that.

:] please help!

Well since he's never kissed anyone before this is going to be something special for him. You'll want to make it the best for him as possible. I hate making the first move too so I understand what it's like. Just look at him and if you're standing put your arms around his neck. If your sitting/laying put your hands on his leg. Don't use tonge the first time cause he'll probably not know what to do. :)

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ok, i am confused a little, i know im not lesbian, but i find girls making out very hot! and arousing, i have made out with a girl, ive actually had full on lesbian sex witha girl but i HATED eating her, but loved being eaten... i find myself wanting to make out with girls but i want and love sex with guys.... am i bisexual?

It's possible you could be bisexual. I'm not completly sure though. Sometimes girls just like being with other girls. They wouldn't want to date or go anything further. But you like both sex's so you could be. It's nothing to be ashamed of though. :)

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Hey, I just want to know if it is impossible to love a guy that you never talked to but you know his name?

Like other people said I think it's all in your opinion. I believe in love at first sight. I'm not really sure about never meeting the person, or ever talking to him. That might be hard, but if you do try talking to him? You never know you could stop "loving" him.

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when my boyfriend sucks my nipples it starts to hurt, is that normal?

He's sucking to hard then. Tell him it hurts a little, he'd probably rather know then have you be in pain. You have sensitive nipples, nothing wrong with that.

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I just had sex with my bf of 5 months.
We had it and it felt amazing for the first time.
It hurt a little at first and they we just started going and I got wider.
After we were done it hurt to take his dick out of my vagina..
Now my vagina is sore and their was a little blood on the condom.
Is that normal for me to be sore? Also, do you think I popped my cherry? (Earlier today I had just got done with my period. So maybe it's a little bit of the leftovers, possibly.)

Thanks!

Your cherry popped. It does like 99% of the time during sex the first time. Your blood could be from that or your period. I don't really know.

Sex usually does make your vagina sore the first time you do it. -It's normal, don't worry. It'll probably be sore the next couple times, I don't know though because it vareys from person to person. But other than that you should be completly okay. :)

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can u put two condoms on for double protection>>>????lol

No. It's more risky, cause they could break or fall off.

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