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Boyfriend trouble


Question Posted Wednesday April 25 2007, 7:36 am

Ok I just broke up with my boyfriend and he hates me. Should I back of and let him chill or should I keep trying to talk to him?

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XSugarPieX77 answered Wednesday April 25 2007, 12:34 pm:
He probably doesnt hate you, he just needs time to himself. I say back off for a bit and let him calm down. Evidently he's probably upset that he just got dumped, so just let it be. He'll talk to you when he's ready. You didnt expect him to be your best friend after breaking up with him, now did you? :-p. Hope I helped! Happy Spring.

-Brina

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katie_babey answered Wednesday April 25 2007, 12:23 pm:
hey i dont think he hates you i just think he needs sometime alone. Its good to give him his space for awhile and wen hes ready to talk to you im sure he will come up and talk to you. I know wen i broke up with my bf he needed awhile to think and feel better again. ok well hop ei helped if you need anymore help you can write me in my inbox!
-katelyn

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dottie4 answered Wednesday April 25 2007, 11:16 am:
My ex seems to hate me to. This is very common. Just give him space and if he wants, he'll come to you. Or give it about a month and then talk to him. Tell him you still want to be friends and that you still care about him. Just not in that way. Hope I helped.

xoxo,
dottie4

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x0advice4y3w answered Wednesday April 25 2007, 11:13 am:
Don't just feel bad for him cause he's upset. Obvisoly he did something wrong. Let him be. Find someone new. =D

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kaylasaysso answered Wednesday April 25 2007, 11:00 am:
well i think you should definitly give him some space. he just lost you & he's probably trying his hardest not to think about you. & its kind of like a tease that your talking to him but he can`t be with you.. so give him some time to cool off and then hopefully he'll get over it and be your friend. it really depends on how long you've been together and how close you were.

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AskJR answered Wednesday April 25 2007, 9:00 am:
You obviously broke up for a reason.

Remember the reason and how you felt?

Well, he hates you now because you screwed his perfect little world up.

There's a fine line between love and hate, and hate usually wins out in the end.

Let it go. He won't change. You dumped him for a reason.

To get back together is okay for a short time which is called "the honeymoon period" and then it flies by quickly and the old crap starts again over and over and over again.

Forget him. Move on.

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