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sexually active but not having sex!!
14/f
i have done everything sexually except for intercourse and well anal but thats just gross.
Now i dont wanna hear all the stuff about oh your too young. because what you say will not effect me.
i have had the same boyfriend for a good amount of time. i havent done anything sexual with anyone but him. now i would like to know if a doctor can tell that ive gotten oral, fingered, givin head, and all that stuff? because if they can im screwed. lol
answers please
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It depends if your hymen was broken from getting fingered, which happens sometimes. In a lot of places though, it is illegal to tell the parents about what you've done. (CH)
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No they can't tell. They can probably tell if you had sex because your cherry wont be there anymore. Anyways if they DID know they couldn't go and tell your parents, so you're okay.
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Chances are the probably would not be able to tell.
Also, it might be different where you live, but I thought doctors HAVE to keep your imformation private, even from your parents.
From what I know, it is illegal for a doctor to tell the childs parent that the child smokes, has sex, drinks, etc... unless if the child's life is threatened by doing those or if the child lets the doctor tell them.
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I know doctors can tell if you've had sex from your pap-smear, but I'm pretty sure this doesn't apply to everything else. Hymens can break from riding a bicycle and stuff like that, so you should be fine :]
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No. There is no possible way for them to tell at all. You're safe. Even if they could tell, the information is confidential and for you to know only, but they can't tell so it doesn't really matter.
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im pretty sure they can tell, but only when theyre looking for it. i'm not really sure. there is a slim chance you could get pregnant if a your bf masturbates and then fingers you. just to let you know. anyways good luck, and be careful.
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why would you be screwed if your doctor knew?
they cant tell unless you tell them.
dont hide what you've done, especially with your doc. If you guy has herpes on his mouth, he can pass it to you through oral. If he doesnt wash his hands, he can give you a bacterial infection from fingering you. there are many things that you need to be aware of when you are just "fooling" around, and many things you shouldnt be afraid to tell your doctor. it comes down to your health. Be honest so that you wont have to suffer later on.
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