Hey y'all. I started this whole advice thing cuz i absolutely luv people and giving advice. I'll try to help the best I can with whatever problem you have. I've been through a little of everything so ask away and don't be shy!
E-mail: e.sherhart@comcast.net
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Location: TEXAS!!!
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Member Since: July 29, 2005
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i wanna get my nails done but i dont kno where they do them for cheap and do a good job. Any recomendations? (link)
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My sister got them done at a super-walmart one time at their nail place. They actually did a really nice job and for cheap!!!
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is it like totally wrong to talk to guys on the internet that you dont know? 'cuz my mom doesnt let me talk to anyone i dont know! and know i'm falling for this guy! what do i do? i wanna keep talking to him!! And my mom would kill me if she found out!
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I've talked to several guys too who i haven't known on the internet. I think it's okay as long as you don't just give everything away about yourself and don't meet him unless you're like older. If your mom doesn't approve then i would suggest not talking to him as much. But that's really your decision. Just be safe and you should be fine!!!
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I have a friend who says I am her "best friend". Well, lately she hasn't been inviting me places. Like, she is always with other people. I have caught on that everytime she invites me out her other friends are busy. Do you think I am her second choice or maybe I am just overreacting? I have talked to her about it but she makes excuses.
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Nowadays "best friend" is used a lot and usually people have more than one. You might just be overreacting and she's just really busy. Try not to worry or stress about it much. Just make some other friends too to be on the safe side.
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Ok i dunno what this would go under and alot of people look here so... I wanna know how to my face clean like no pimples or blackheads like what are some products or things i should do?? Thanks (link)
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I use Biore Pore Perfect. It's a scrub for your face that really really helps and gets rid of all the pimples and blackheads. I really recommend using that.
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How canI tell my boyfriend I am still in love with him . I am 14year old.
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Just tell him!!! Or if you're shy, try dropping hints till he gets it. But the best and EASIEST way is to just say it!!!
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does water help your voice? if you want to sing (link)
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It helps to clear your voice better but to give you more talent as far as singing, no, not really. The water just loosens your throat up, not make your voice necessarily better.
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My friend weighs like 70lbs and she can't gain weight and she just turned 12!!! Is this normal? ( oh yea and she eats like a PIG) (link)
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Yeah it's normal. It all depends on your metabolism. If you have a high metabolism then your body is going to burn more fats and stuff. Which sounds like her. But that isn't the case with everybody (some of us arent so lucky..lol). But yeah, it's normal for HER.
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ok i need some major help... there are 2 guys both are friends but i didnt know before this happen. well guy 1 we talked over the computer alot but we never really met but we go to the same school. well we started to like eachother and what not but he left on vacation. and while he was gone i had summer school and ran into a guy i use to talk to during the year guy 2. well turns out that guy 2 likes me and now we are going out. well guy 2 isnt the guy i really want to be with i think at the time i was was just caught up in the moment and said yes. like guy 2 is already saying the L word and i just dont want to get into that right now i dont even really want to be with him i want to be with guy 1 well anyway guy 1 comes back find out im with guy 2 and now everything is just messed up.. i want to break it off with guy 2 but i dont know how to tell him hes crazy about me. like for the last 6 days we have been going out we have hung out and im getting tired of it because we dont need to see eachother every day but he says we do because we are going out. everything about him just kinda annoys me. how should i break it to him.. PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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If you want if off with guy 2, then you have to tell him!!! Just because he aint catching your hints doesn't mean you should just give up. Sit him down, tell him what happened, how you're really not interested, and break up. The relationship will never work out if you're not happy so it's really not worth it anyways!!! I'm sure the guy will appreciate it in the long run if you're honest. Hope i helped!!!
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this is gonna be kinda long..sorry but me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month! and went out last year off and on for a while! but anyways..there was this girl that was suppose to be my "friend" over at my house the past 2 days! she has done nothing but bad mouth my boyfriend and say how he treats me like crap and i always have to tell her to stop and it got to the point we'd start screaming cause id get so mad! well then today she decides that she thinks its ok to sit there and send my boyfriend all these pics of her..and i would think if she was my friend she wouldnt! but i was upset and called my friend well she didnt answer..so she calls me back and was like whyd u sound upset and i told her because that girl was trying to send my bf her pic and i didnt like that! well i guess my "friend" that was here heard me and got all mad and started cussing at me like crazy! and telling me how she was leaving and how my bf treats me like crap and everything else! so we really got into it then and shes sitting there laughing going just wait im gonna mess up your relationship and make ur life miserable and lie and everything else! i told him about all this but the thing is im so scared that hes gonna believe her..i love him more then n e thing in this world and ive never felt like this before! and i wouldnt lie to him ever again ( ill admit i have in the past but i never would again) this girl is just sayin how shes goin to mess it up and have her friends say stuff to him when i know none of her friends cause they r all like 12-13 cause she got held back twice and i dont even go to the same school as her and im 16! my question is..what do i do about this? i dont wanna lose him and im so scared of it..does anybody have any idea on what i should do? i love him more then anything and i would never do n e thing to mess this up!! (link)
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First of all gurl, think twice about this so called "friend" of yours. No good friend is going to be practically flirting with your bf (sending pics and stuff). If i were you, totally ignore this friend for awhile and let her cool off. And while you're doing that, talk to your bf. Sounds like a great guy so sit him down and talk to him about what's been going on. If your "friend" tries to change his mind about you then he'll already be warned and fully aware of the subject. As long as he knows what's going on, i doubt he's going to believe your "friend". Most guys don't go against their gf for some other gurl. And if he does, might as well dump him and get somebody way better!!! And if your friend is trying to persuade you that your bf treats you like crap, then she's just plain jealous!!! Ignore that and thank God you have a great bf!!! lol..Right now, dont worry about their friends. She might have just said that to make you worry, and it sounds like she's totally accomplished that. Some people just want to see how much they can freak you out. So ignore them, go have a longg private talk with your bf and stop worrying!!! In the mean time, meet some nicer people who can also help you out!!!! Wouldn't hurt!!! Just take things as they come, step by step. Hope i helped!!!
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Hey I was just wondering what are some good effective excercises to get muscles in thighs and to lose some weight in that area? (link)
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Try some leg lifts or lunges. Maybe even running if you like that sort of thing. But if you're not used to exercising regularly, start slow so you're body can get used to it and eventually build up to where you want to be. And about the weight, just watch what you eat because alot of it goes to the thighs.
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Im a female, and im about 5"10 and my boyfriend is only 5"7...this makes me feel uncomfortable all the time. is this weird? (link)
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As long as your boyfriend is totally cool with it then you should be too. Height is just appearance. It doesn't make who you are like personality-wise. You can't change anyways so it's better to just feel comfortable about yourself!!!
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how do you believe in yourself... (link)
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Start thinking more positive thoughts about yourself. If you're always beating down on yourself you're going to end up depressed. If you think HIGHLY of yourself it'll all go from there.
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i wasnt sure which category this should go in so i just put it in this one. anyways..does anybody know who to get a rid of nervousness? i have it really bad that i think im going to throw up! (link)
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Wow, you must be really freaked out about something. Just calm down. Maybe watch a movie or read something. Just sit still for awhile and try not to think about anything!!! Hope i helped!!!
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i have had one boyfriend- and my parents never knew... :-/ but it was like for a few days nothing serious at all. i kinda wanna have a boyfriend, but i dunno if my parents would let me because they've said before that middle schoolers are too young for boyfriends that they should be focusing on school and yadda yadda yadda... but i get straight a's easily. and i have a ton of guy friends but i don't like any of them. but anyway back on the subject...i talked to my mom about wearing eye-liner and she was like saying i didn't need it but then i gradually started using it and now i use it all the time. so maybe they'd let me but... i don't know! i'll rate high!
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Try slowly bringing up the subject with your parents. Support your opinion with the fact you have awesome grades. Get them introduced to the fact that you're mature and can handle a relationship. If they see they can trust you from the start to talk to them about this then they should really consider it.
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o.k. i have this friend kieran and well hes really nice and all but i know he likes me!!!hes asked me if i wanted 2 go 2 the movies with him and i said that i had to go to my couzins house(which i didnt) Im mean i dont want him to get the wronge idea HE IS ONLY A FRIEND i dont like him i dont hes only a friend what can i do ??????
i dont want to hurt his feelings or anything i just dont want him to get the wronge idea!!!! should i go out with him and what if he asks me if i like him??? what should i say"hey well we are only friends" its not that easy!!!!! im just so confused my friends tell me to follow my heart and well maybe thats not good enough!!!sigh
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First of all, dont lead this guy on gurl!!! If you dont want to hurt him then be honest with him from the start. Talk to him about what you're feeling and i'm sure he'll be able to understand. Going out with him just to make him happy is just another way of lying to yourself AND him. Be honest because eventually that's what it'll come down to!!!
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my friend is coming in to visit from out of state..shes lik a sister to me but im worrie about her and my friends getting along...i just dont want nething dumb to happen bc she wont be here long
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I would tell your current friends about her so they'll be ready for her when she gets there. Tell them to make her feel uncomfortable. Also if you tell your friends a lot about her, they'll feel less weird when they actually meet her. Just keep your cool and dont worry!!! One step at a time.
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one of my friends is kinda higher class then me and she lives in my neighborhood thats how i know her. she goes to a private school and has an ipod, a tv, 2 computers, a palm pilot, has gone through 4 cellphones in the past 3 years, and got a laptop in 3rd grade. she gets Louis Vuitton and Coach and Prada. I gt some stuff like that too but not like her. her parents give her oney when she goes to the mall and my parents don't i kinda feel weird when i have like $20 and she has like $100. is there any simple jobs around the house i can do to get spare money? i do my laundry and feed the cats and change their litter... (sorry so long) (link)
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I know how hard that is!!! I always need some extra cash too. Try asking your parents if they'll pay you to do certain stuff around the house. If they wont, maybe you could babysit (guessing you're a gurl..lol). Or if you're 16 or older you can usually get a pretty steady job for at least minimum wage. Hope i helped!!!
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how do rate a columnist? (link)
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If they've answered one of your questions look down below their advice. It'll say rate columnist or something like that and it'll have a 1,2,3,4,5. Clike on the number you like and voila!!!
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i like this guy a lot. i use to like his best friend, and i still kind of do, but im kind of starting to like him more. and my friends witch are his friends say that he likes me too, but hes really shy, and im not sure if i want to belive them, because he ust doesnt seem like he likes me, but hes friends keep saying he does. and im not sure hat to do. because im not sure if he will tell me he likes me because he is so shy, and im afarid to tell him i like him, and have him not like me and i will feel stupid. thanks so much
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First of all, if the guy is shy, you're going to have to get out there and make something happen. Chances are with everybody saying that he likes you, that he does!!! So try trusting them and start really talking with the guy. If he's shy, it just may take some time and getting used to before he's ready to go any further. Dont push it whatever you do or it might turn the guy off. One step at a time, and good luck!!!
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I need help, i like this girl and i wanna know how do u talk to her on the phone like wat to say to here. I rate 5's (link)
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Just start bringing up stuff y'all are both interested in. Like music and stuff. Just flirt a lot and see if she's interested. Hope i helped!!!
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