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love triangle
ok i need some major help... there are 2 guys both are friends but i didnt know before this happen. well guy 1 we talked over the computer alot but we never really met but we go to the same school. well we started to like eachother and what not but he left on vacation. and while he was gone i had summer school and ran into a guy i use to talk to during the year guy 2. well turns out that guy 2 likes me and now we are going out. well guy 2 isnt the guy i really want to be with i think at the time i was was just caught up in the moment and said yes. like guy 2 is already saying the L word and i just dont want to get into that right now i dont even really want to be with him i want to be with guy 1 well anyway guy 1 comes back find out im with guy 2 and now everything is just messed up.. i want to break it off with guy 2 but i dont know how to tell him hes crazy about me. like for the last 6 days we have been going out we have hung out and im getting tired of it because we dont need to see eachother every day but he says we do because we are going out. everything about him just kinda annoys me. how should i break it to him.. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
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you need to tell him that your not on the same page. that they way he feels for you is not the way you feel for him ...
then you need to tell guy 1 what you told us. if he likes you then he will understand
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If you want if off with guy 2, then you have to tell him!!! Just because he aint catching your hints doesn't mean you should just give up. Sit him down, tell him what happened, how you're really not interested, and break up. The relationship will never work out if you're not happy so it's really not worth it anyways!!! I'm sure the guy will appreciate it in the long run if you're honest. Hope i helped!!!
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Okay. I have a friend who's boyfriend is exactly like guy 2. Clingy, attached, obsessed, whatever you want to call it. You need to look out for your best interests and do what YOU want to do. If you don't want to go out with him anymore, let him know. Use the whole "let's be friends" line if you have to. And at the same time, let guy 1 know that you really do like him but you just got caught up in the moment. If he likes you too, he'll totally understand. Good luck! I know it'll work out.
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Just like that. Seriously, sparing peoples feelings just breeds confussion. Don't try to be too nice about it or else the guy wont get the message. Don't listen to his excuses or let his promises or anything make you reconsider, just stick to your guns over and over say "I'm sorry, I don't want to be with you anymore."
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