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i have had one boyfriend- and my parents never knew... :-/ but it was like for a few days nothing serious at all. i kinda wanna have a boyfriend, but i dunno if my parents would let me because they've said before that middle schoolers are too young for boyfriends that they should be focusing on school and yadda yadda yadda... but i get straight a's easily. and i have a ton of guy friends but i don't like any of them. but anyway back on the subject...i talked to my mom about wearing eye-liner and she was like saying i didn't need it but then i gradually started using it and now i use it all the time. so maybe they'd let me but... i don't know! i'll rate high!
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tell your parents that you are getting older. you need to see people in order to grow and learn. talk to them about it. just, express yourself to them.
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I know EXACTLY what you mean! That's EXACTLY what happened to me. What I think you should do is carry on a relationship with someone, but don't tell your parents. Only don't take it very far. Keep it to a bare minimum, like school dances and IM and whatnot. So it's not technically a real relationship, but generally speaking it is. I mean it'll be a boyfriend, but not a serious relationship. Trust me, when I was in the 7th grade I did this. If they find out, if they're anything at all like my parents, they'd probably get a little pissed off and might even resent that you never told them, but it won't last very long. And when you get into high school you can have a serious relationship!
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Wanting a boyfriend is going about this backwards. Whether you are too young to date or not is not the point. Find a good guy first, then worry about having a boyfriend. Don't rush into it just cause you want to have one. If you take your time and only take your chances on a guy you are really into, your parents will respect your desicion alot more and you'll have much better chance at a happy relationship.
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What I would do is just give your mom some really good reasons on why you need a boyfriend for ex. I need a boyfriend because I can be open with him or I need a boyfriend because he can comfort me when I'm at school and my friends are being weird etc. That should help! If they still say no then say that you get good grades and your very mature and responsible and that you can handle yourself. Hope I Helped!
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Try slowly bringing up the subject with your parents. Support your opinion with the fact you have awesome grades. Get them introduced to the fact that you're mature and can handle a relationship. If they see they can trust you from the start to talk to them about this then they should really consider it.
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if i were you, if someone asks you out just go up to your mom when shes in a good mood and be like... "hey uhh today *name* asked me out" and see what she says. if she says like so what'd you says tell her you told him you'd think about and you wanted to ask her first that'll make her feel good! lol hope i helped
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