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just friends , i think???
o.k. i have this friend kieran and well hes really nice and all but i know he likes me!!!hes asked me if i wanted 2 go 2 the movies with him and i said that i had to go to my couzins house(which i didnt) Im mean i dont want him to get the wronge idea HE IS ONLY A FRIEND i dont like him i dont hes only a friend what can i do ??????
i dont want to hurt his feelings or anything i just dont want him to get the wronge idea!!!! should i go out with him and what if he asks me if i like him??? what should i say"hey well we are only friends" its not that easy!!!!! im just so confused my friends tell me to follow my heart and well maybe thats not good enough!!!sigh
****soooo confused*****sigh
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You aren't interested in him like that. You've said it. So what is the problem? Why would you even consider going out with someone you don't like? That would just be mean to him.
Tell him you aren't interested in hanging out as anything more then friends. Yes his feelings will get hurt. But you aren't the only girl who will ever turn him down, coping with that is a life skill for girls and guys. Don't date someone out of pity. Ever.
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First of all, dont lead this guy on gurl!!! If you dont want to hurt him then be honest with him from the start. Talk to him about what you're feeling and i'm sure he'll be able to understand. Going out with him just to make him happy is just another way of lying to yourself AND him. Be honest because eventually that's what it'll come down to!!!
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you did the right thing by making up an excuse. If you go with him, then he will think you like him. So don't lead him on. If he keeps asking you and you keep telling him your busy ...sooner or later he will get the hint that you don't like him. That way, you never said it, but he got it. hope I helped
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