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Is it illegal to run a celebrity's myspace profile like musicians, etc and stuff illegal without the celebs permission and official sites? Do you know what would happen? we think there is a guy who's the one behind the rudeness with only just adding women behind this celebs myspasce acocunt and we think it's being run illegally without the actor's permission because of the rudeness, the discrimination to only adding women fans and not men fans Could it also be someone posing as the actor too because I heard this celeb is never rude to his fans and wouldn't act like this.could it be the wbemaster being rude and pretending to be him? Thanks.

Yes its illegal but honestly what do you think tom is going to do about it? Nothing believe it or not there is maybe a total of ten famous people on myspace. If you were to search a famous person on myspace you would probly find maybe 15 people Pretending to be that famous person. Chaces are this person you are talkig about is fake. Dont let it get to you really unless you want to send a message to tom about him. Yea if you and he deletes the account tell him to wake up and freakn delete all the other 4384636476 fake people on myspace.

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hey my name is ellen and my son justin who is 19 years old and he is teaching sunday school at church,but I just found out he he and his girlfriend tessa had unprotected sex about a month ago and there was a big hickey on his neck what should I do?

I want to help me so so bad but when I confronted him about he got mad at me and now he won't speak to please help me help my son thankyou iam really worried.

Your son is 19 years old meaning he is an adult. Yes you can tell him the dangers of having unprotected sex but he is old enough to make his own decisions in life and he probly will even if you tell him hes doing wrong or if you ask him to stop. Obviously he is a strong believery in god and your not supposed to have sex till marriage but that doesnt mean he doesnt believe. Im sure that your son and his girlfriend have talked this over alot before having sex. If you worried just about him having unprotected sex simply ask him to use a condom. But remember he is an adult. You shouldnt give up because of this one decision if he ever needs help down the road be there for him.

kim:)

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can you buy wax like the stuff to off hair, at walmart?

yes you can. I the hair section like with the gel, shampoo, mousse and all that good stuff.

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my friend whos a guy kinda gives himself head and he said somethings he swallows his sperm is this unhealthy? dont say anytin mean or thats sick! ok please help

that guy is really freakn flexible. But its not unhealthy atall.

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heyy i noticed you came up with a lot of cute sn's for someone and i was looking for a new name for my myspace lyt/pixel/icon/&code site. um the current name is spiderman layouts owns and i was thinking something like fierce.™ or crash.™ something with just one or 2 words and not ___ layouts because we arent just lyts ummm you can go to the site here www.myspace.com/laurens_lovely_layoutzz and add us if you have a myspace to see what were all about. thnx so much i will rate

Fiercexcodes
pixelxthis
pixel[perfect]
lyt[&]codes
[lauren]&[kelly]
Fierce_pixels
Fierce_codes
FIERCExTRADES
pixelize.this


thats all that comes to mind i will think of more and most some but here are some to get you started.

kim:)

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Okay im 14/f and i live with my dad and 3 brothers... so i am clearly outnumber in my house.... okay i just started my period and i went to my friends house and she got me all set up for about 2 days... but like how can i talk to my dad... just me and himabout this...and i mean not just like "i need to go to the store" i mean like talk to him about it... cause im pretty sure i will be going through alot of changes..and i need my privacy.. i dont even have my own room... i share it with a 16 yr old guy....So like how can i talk to my dad about everything? PLEASE HELP!

Tell your dad that you need to talk to him about something privately. And tell him that you have started your period and that you are going through alot of changes and you will need your brothers to start giving you privacy. And while you are talking to him you should really talk to him about making your 16 year old brother ( the one in your bedroom ) Share a room with one of the other boys. Because that in itself is a total loss of privacy. But that is just me.

Your dad knows that every girl starts her period and will start to need some privacy so none of this should come to a surprise to him.

hope this helps
kiM:)

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OK , this may be under the wrong section but i have no idea where it should be?

I am scared of love. people loving me and me loving them. Im scared and it drives me insane

I dont know what to do ...

Well my question is have you been hurt in the past. Like have you fallen for someone and gotten hurt in the relationship? Either way love is something special and you let people get close to you. Not everyone is in this world to hurt you. If someone one loves you they are not doing it to hurt you.

You need to open up to people. Its okay to love someone. Yes you may get hurt but you learn from your mistakes and from the people that hurt you.

If you need someone to talk to you can IM me or leave one in my inbox.
aim- doesntmatterx8

kim;)

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i need a new screename

anyone have any ideas?

song lyrics or a song title would be cool

like i got these ideas:

falsexpretense
yourguardianangel
damnxregret

anything with the word regret would be cool
anything about love
i dont really know
anything will be helpful

my current sn is
essentialromance


will rate=]

havenoregrets
ixhavexnoxregrets
tragicxlife
imperfectlove
isntxhexromantic
romancticxlove
dangerous_regret
xdangerousxlovex
breathingregrets
strongxlove
stronglove
intentionalxlover
crazyxtragicxlife
addictedxtoxromance
havenoregrets
havexnoxregrets
have_no_regrets
Admirexme
badxhabit
imperfectxlove
imperfectxromance
missimperfect
missximperfect
trueregrets
false_love
falsexlove
ohplease
ohxplease
romanticxendings
beautifulamor
myxbadxboy
addictivexkisses
truexregrets
cravingxromance
sweetxlips
hopelessromantic
blankxtrust
uniqueone
uniquexone
doesntxmatterx
darlingxplease
darling_please


hope that helps.
i know alot of them are pretty original but im not that great at coming up with screenames.

kim:)
---tell me which ones you like the most.


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Is there a hair rinse or something that will rinse all the hair dye out of my hair (semi permanemt)?


I dont want to re-dye my hair my natural color, I just want to rinse it allllllll out.

Are there any such products?

Semi-permanent hair colors only last 8-24 washes. So as you wash your hair itll fade. I dont believe their is a home removal kit but you can look at walmart or anywhere they sell hairdyes. You can also call your local hair stylist they will know what to do and tell you if there is anything you can do.

I know hair stylist have a way of getting the dye out but i heard it damages your hair alot.

I would just wait it out.

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16/f- My friends and I want to make tshirts for the next home football game. We just don't know what to put on them. We want a cute and fun saying. We are are the Danville Vikings, colors maroon and white. Our school sponsered tshirts say maroon maniacs, and we like that a lot, we just want a little something different. What should we put on them? Thanks in advance!

I can't really think of any sayings but here a few ideas.

http://www.wikihow.com/Make-School-Spirit-T-Shirts

do the same as above but write Danville Vikings vs. ------ (whoever you guys are playing

http://i32.photobucket.com/albums/d4/wishexisted/tshirt.jpg

- i drew the picture sorry its a lil crappy looking.

Sorry its not what you looking for but they are good ideas.
have fun
kIM:)

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last night me and my friend tried to die the bottom half of our hair black, and the die just ended up making it dark brown. and it is not even that dark. we bought jet black hair dye. my hair is light brown normally, and hers was like a dirty blonde, and niehter of them came out black. does anyone recommend any good dyes or tips cause we are re-doing it tonight. and yes, we completley saturated our hair in dye, and we left it in long enough.

I use revlon hiar dye and it works everytime i dye my hair. so thats what i recommend to use. Match you current hair color to the chart on the box and it should tell you what it will show up like. And i know you would like to re-do it again tonight but i highly doubt it would work because those kind of dyes you have to wait a while. i believe its either 6 weeks or 6 months. But i dont have a box with me right now. But read the box if you go get one. I know thats not what you wanted to hear but if you try to dye it a day later because you dont like it the color probly will not change at all.

hope this helps
kim:)


Also the person below said recommended Herbal Essencses. I would never use that brand because my mom tried it once to die her hair auburn brown and it turned it bright orange. Something wrong with their dyes.

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I'm almost 19 and about to lose my virginity to my boyfriend. The thing is, I'm someone who always thinks of the worst that can happen in every situation I am. In this case, my hugest fear is getting pregnant. I've been on birth control for a year and plan to use that AND a condom for protection. But for some reason, I'm still worried. It's not that I'm not ready. Unlike most people, I'm educated, cautious, and responsible. But how can I quit worrying about the things that don't need to be? (This goes along with other situations besides this one.) Thank you.

Orginally i would say that if your nervous about anything you shouldnt have sex. But you say you are deff. ready to have sex and you sound ready. But usually 19 year olds know what they are talking about. Alot of people are nervous about their first time having sex even if they are nervous. And usually it is about getting pregnant. Honestly i would just talk to your boyfriend and explain to him that you are ready to have sex with him but you are worried about getting pregnant. If you want to talk to someone other then your boyfriend try your parents, his parents, friends, a friend of the family. It'll help you feel better.

The chances are not very high. I looked around for a little while online and they said birth control works well. But you should always use condoms because they will help from getting getting diseases. I think youll be fine.

Have any questions just ask.
kim:)

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My sexually abusive boyfriend ripped me while trying to fist me. I told him it wouldn't fit, he doesn't listen to me protest. He did say he was sorry and that he didn't intentionally mean to hurt me. It ripped a good 2 inches long, between my labia and my clitoris. It was bleeding like crazy last night, and this morning when I went to the bathroom it is still bleeding. Should I seek medical attention? how will I explain something like this without telling them my boyfriend is sexually abusive?

As much as you probly dont want to go to the doctor you really need to get to the emergency room. if you were bleeding that much last night and this morning should have already gone. This is a serious situation and your losing alot of blood. Also DO NOT put any more neosporin on it. Neosproin is not meant for private areas. You need to get medicine from the doctor.


I know where you are coming from when you say you love your boyfriend. But even you say he is abusive. i dont know how old you are or how long you have been with this guy. But you really need to get out of this relationship. Being with him will only hurt you in the future. He will become more abusive toward you and im serious. He'll become as bad as not letting you out of the house, call any friends Or family members.

Even if he is only sexually active he can become Abusive in many ways.


Have any questions just leave one in my inbox.
kim;)

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Does anyone know a site of the US map that shows the capitals,states and where they are located?

Please i need to know by tonight if possible!


Thanks

http://www.mapsofworld.com/usa/usa-state-and-capital-map.html

that should help
kim:)

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so what do i do now??
i can't ever use it again cause i can't get in?
or is there another way to maybe reset it and make a new password?
or is there a special person you can call (who won't make you pay) that can help you with these kinda things?
the thing is i went on vacation (8 weeks) over the summer, so i sorta forgot my password during that time.. ahh! i need to get in! help me please!!

Usually when you put a password on the computer they ask for a hint about your password just incase you forgot your password. So i would try and see if theres a hint or a question mark anywhere and click it. If you can figure anything out by the hint then you will probly have to dump your computer and start again. But try to figure it out try everything under the sun. Because its hard to get your computer up and running again with all the programs.

hope this helps
kim:)

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ok well my dad isn't getting enough money here so he wants me and my brothers to come with him and my mom to saskatchewan and cheak out some greenhouses(thats were he works) and if he likes them we might move and if he doesn't like them then we don't move(yay) but if he does like them what do i do tell him i don't want to move and im not gonna or what

HELP PLZ!!!!! thanx

I know this probly isnt what you want to hear but the only thing yuo can do if your dad likes on of the green houses out whereevery then you guys will probly end up moving. Why? because he needs the money to support the family. I had to move the summer before my junior year and honestly i hated everything about the move and had a grudge agaisnt everyone in my family.

If he decides your family is moving then you can try to beg him to stay but i highly doubt it will do anything. Because i tried for a year straight and i still ended up moving.

KIM:)

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hows this for a break up letter??



Hey Tyler,

Okay, this is really hard for me but like I like you and stuff but I just feel we should just be friends. There are a few reasons; my parents just randomly decided I can't go out with anyone. It also kind of changed how we acted around each other and it was awkward (for me at least). And I hate awkwardness; and to me, you were being a little too clingy but that's not a bad thing to all people...it’s just something that's just not my type. But that is just my opinion, and it might just be different for me because past boyfriends I have had didn’t really hang around me that much because they weren’t in the same classes as me. I also feel like I don’t really know you well enough to go out with you, you know? I really don't mean to be mean but really, I just see you more as a friend and we had a lot more fun then too. I don’t know if this meant anything either but I saw you hugging another girl in the hall but again, I don’t know if you guys were just friends or what. I know these might just sound like lame excuses but I just really don’t want a boyfriend right now so it isn’t really you as much as it is me. I’m sorry. I hope we can just be friends?

~~Jenna

Honestly throw the letter away. It just sounds like a ton of raw excuses. I used the one with "my parents randomly told me i cant be with you". Yea it sounds good but no parents would really say that unless they had a really strong reason to back it up and i dont see any reason for them to say that from your letter. If you lie to tyler about why you want to break up with him then trust me he'll find out and bitch at you till the end of freakn who knows what.

Just tell him that you don't really want or need a boyfriend right now. But you would really like to keep him as a friend.

Hope this helps.
have a question just leave on in my inbox.
kim:)

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okay, so ever since I was little i loved doritoes and cheetos. Now, the thing is that evertime I eat Doritoes or cheetos something strange happens to my tounge. My tounge gets 'erosions' or something in them and sometimes a white circle around the erosion. Can anyone tell me what this is, or how to prevent it or cure it?

F/14

It kind of sounds like a Canker Sore. Just about every teenager will eventually get Canker sores. Doctor dont know how they form or how to prevent them. But read this site and it should help you out.


--Again im not positive that its a canker sore its just a maybe thing.


http://familydoctor.org/613.xml

kim:)

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hey
my name is justin, iam almost 18, actually iam 17 years old plus 7 month.
i live in new york.
i was woundering wats the legal age in the us to have sex, and am i free to buy condoms?
tanx for help, and i really appreciate.
reply soon.
Justin

well i dont think there is a legal age to buy condoms. Im a casher and i have 14-15 year olds buying condoms. And there is nothing i can do about it.

Have fun.
kim:)

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14/f/ 137 lbs. and i am 5'8" is that average weight for my height and age??

yes it is.

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