i just want to keep myself annonymous to any one who might know my regular user name (which is my nickname) but a little about me is i love to play my guitar alot, skateboarding, snowboarding and trying to help people even though i suck at putting the words in the right order to make it say what i'm thinking -_-
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hi.
so i've had a boyfriend for almost 4 months & we go to school together, and usually kiss after school and everything. i'd said we kiss at least once or twice a day, but not every single day. we've only made out once..in march. this was at a dance. he never makes a move to make out with me! but i really want to! maybe go further [not sex! maybe just like, feeling up & stuff like that]. most of the time, it's ME who makes the move to kiss him, since he's 8 inches taller hahaha. but i don't know. i want to do stuff, & i can't read his mind. what should i do? (link)
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i think the other advice was a little bit of a harsh way to say it i would deffinatly talk to him or at least find out if he's to shy lol or tell him you want to do it sometime like give him a day of when ya parents are out ;P and then say i wont make the move you make itwhenever you thinks neccessary and if he loves you then he will do it but if he doesnt and he says he doesnt want to make the move because he's too shy then respect that but keep on trying and if he doesnt do it at all ... well.. what can i say jus done keep kicking yourself about it i'm sure ittl all be kool soon ^_^
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okay so i need a song...me and my fiance want the perfect song and we cant find one so if anyone has any ideas please tell me..i love him alot alot so please pick a good one? (link)
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jack johnson - better when were together
(acoustic butifully masterd like all his others :D you can tell i am a huge fan)
nickleback - animals * if your a bit raunchy with him and like a good distorted guitar ;) *
omni trio - higher ground *drum and bass... ish sounds very soul like and would be good lookin into his eyes with lol*
Nada surf - if you leave (slow rock great guitar singer effects)
Staind - its been a while (great acoustic song)
but thats a selection from some one with a music library that takes 4 minutes to down lol i like all types of music but shitty "gangsta" rap so go download them or take a look for em on youtube i'm sure they will come up
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I am in love with this boy. Lets call him A. He is the most amazing person I have ever met in my life. When I see him I just want to wrap him up and keep him safe and make sure no one can ever harm him. That sounds strange, I know, but its how I feel. He means more to me than anyone whos ever meant anything to me.
When I met him, it felt like we had this really strong connection. Chemistry, you could call it. He felt it too, I could tell. We would make eye contact when no one else was looking, it was as if we had this secret understanding.
I was happy all the time, because for once in my life, it seemed like someone liked me back. And I just wanted to get to know A and take it slow, cause I really thought we might end up together. It was the best feeling I'd ever had.
But then he got a girlfriend. He said he was in love with her. Loving something you can't have; story of my life.
All the hope and happiness I had felt just disappeared, I couldn't believe that it was happening to me again to be honest. I thought, is this what life is going to be like for me? Is this how it's meant to be? Always falling in love and not being able to be with that person. It'd happened before.
And now, it's been a little over a month since he got a girlfriend, and I still feel like we have a connection. Every day I fall for him even more, and I know it's going to happen again. I am going to get depressed. I can feel it, talking to people seems like too much of an effort, I can't concentrate on anything because he's the only thing on my mind, life seems pointless at the moment. I just feel this overwhelming sense of dispair. And I don't know what to do.
I'm pretty sure he still likes me, but he doesn't love me, like he loves his girlfriend, and I know that there is definitely no chance of me being with him unless they split up. He wont ditch her for me. I know that.
It probably seems like I havn't asked you any questions here, well, I havn't, so this is what I'd really like you to answer:
* How can I stop myself from getting depressed?
* What should I do concerning A? I can't just give up on him. Should I just wait until him and his girlfriend have split up?
*Does anyone else have this problem? Is anyone else always falling into this trap of loving something you cant have? If you are then please talk to me about it. I'd really appreciate knowing I'm not the only one who always seems to have this problem.
Sorry it was long, thanks in advance, xxx (link)
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i got that 2 months ago :/ there was this girl who i loved to shit and she allready had a bf >_< so i was kicking myself for ever trying o get over her trust me it never works trying to make yourself forget or stop, its like a virus you cant stop it or cure it you just gotta let it run its course and hope nothing wrong hapens
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is it possible to erase the list of websites you've visited so that it appears that you haven't been to any? if so, how? (link)
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oooh what have you been going on :P lol if you would like to just delete "certain" ;P websites you just hit CTRL + SHIFT + H and then select the day you want, find the "particular" ;P address of that site you have been going on ;P and then just right click and delete ^_^
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hey can someone give me some ideas on what i can do with my boyfriend besides sex? (link)
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i think she means besides anything but sex sparky lol make conversation get into eachothers interests (besesides sex lol) other wise it may be a bad break up with lotsa oh it was only ever about sex we didnt do anything else sorta crap
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okay i have this ex bf who i still like so much its not even funny. out of all the guys ive gone out with, i alwyas wish i was with him. ive gone out with him about 5 times already this year
well hes mad at me for like the bazillionth time and i hate when hes mad at me because we dont talk or anything
and so i really screwed up this time because i acually started acting tough to him. i have a lot of guy friends that are in a gang so whenever i have a problem i tell my guy friends and they usually just scare the person. so my ex was calling me slut, dumb drunk, and other words i dont think i can say on here and coming from him it means a lot to me so i said he should watch it, and that got into this big deal and how im a fake and all this stuff.
i dont wanna act tough. i just wanna act like i dont care, because i cant really talk to him since he wont care and hes one of those guys that when they say they dont care. they mean it.
but its killing me not talking to him.
pleasee help me. i think about this 24/7 and just thinking about this deal makes me acually tear up.
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aaah i had this a couple of years back i went out with this girl for 9 months we broke up for some reason because of silly shit .. >_< wasnt my fault.... but yeh all i did to not get back with her was get into a different crowd of people take your mind off it with a hobbie (i now play the guitar because it helps me forget all my troubles, for a while...) and as for the part you said about the "dumb drunk" surely your not drinkin enough if ya can still remember ;) lol joke but yeh hobbie, new freinds, anything that takes your mind offa him and he's a fool because by the sounds of it he's lost some one good your not at a loss keep thinking that
seelater! hope it works
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I never wanna prank call again I get so paranoid. Like today during lunch, my friend prank called my boyfriend and like started asking him if he was going out today and stuff but I think the joke got out of hand and like she kept on calling and he txted me asking if it was me and like I really don't want him to be mad please give me advice I won't prank call anymore (link)
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yeh tat guys right prank call some one you dont know... like in a nother country (thatll rack up a nice pone bill :D) lol but you could just prank call people you know and not do anythin harsh like some one in ma P.E lesson a few weeks back phoned up a sex line andtold them some loada bullshit about IME SORRY I AM GAAYY!!!! screamd and hung up haha
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is there a phobia of getting addicted to anything? if so what is it called and any info would be nice. thanx (link)
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addicta-phobia? lol just thin of random words and slam em together :P thats what i did up
there^^^^
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ok so i dont have photoshop because i already used the free trial. so how do i get it back without buying it or get something like it? (link)
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its called limewire mate :D this video on you tube should put a smile on your face :D http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mBoOLR7WoN8
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I like writing poem like things...and short stories but (A) i DONT want to sound to emo and over dramatic...
(B) i dont really want to show people that i know because then they judge me amd think im emo!
Whats the best thing i can do to find out if im good or not? (link)
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what do you care about most your image or your feelings on the paper? i stuffed my image long ago because i hate the hell outa people who "folow the crowd" like chavs wer s emos and goths (whatever all the same) i dont have a problem with because most of them aint ass holes but its freedom of expression that i like about them all your way of freeing your expression is in your pen were as mine lays on my skateboard i can do it myself and know one can tell me how to do it, it all comes down to individualality and if you like your peotry then your good why care if others not like it???
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what does play hard to get means? is it like leading someone on? (link)
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i am a dood i wld rather know that the girl liked me and then i would rather they played a little hard to get but like them comin over givin me a hug or sumin then i would try to make the next move or sumin.. and sorry if i dont sound to clear i'm not havng a very good time this week lol :(
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i really likw this guy, im not sure if he likes me back. im really nrvous to talk to him. what should i do?? Help!! (link)
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omg i had this with a girl i met once i was really really nervous but your gonna have to tell him some time
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well i like my cousin and he likes me to and i like him because he is really sweet to me and treats me different than other guys. and he lives in mexico and i live in california so as u can see we arent really close cousins. the first time i met him was 2 summers ago and from then we liked each other but we know we can't b together but we want to be together.
wat should i do ? (link)
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he may be different to other guys and sweet an all ... but please read the other comments and realise
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My boyfriend of 6 months has been being a jerk lately. He blows me off for his friends (it's not that i dont want him to hang out with his friends at all, its just does he have to all the time?). Well, u see the other day his friends dared him to knee me in the back and they offered him money. They thought it would be funny so he did it. Then i got really mad and slapped him but i forgave him cus he apoligized and told me he loved me. The today when i was trying to talk to him about it he started to laugh like it was funny. I dont know if i should dump him or not?
P.S. He hasnt always been like this. He just recently became like this. (link)
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i would at least try to talk to him about if he laughs again dont talk to him or at least give him some of his own medicine if he dont like it after a while he will soon stop the jerkness and its probably because he is with his freinds he is actin like this... and as for the knee in back.. that just aint right....
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I would like your advice on this situation. About 3 months ago i was shopping and i saw this guy that works in one of the shops staring at me(in a nice way) but it was a really intense stare. Anyhow after going back numerous times i went up to him and gave him my email adress and phone number.We spoke a few times on email but it was always me that sent them..So i stopped and we havent spoken in ages, but still everytime i see him he still stares at me, and smiles, and his friends do the same, as if he has told them about me. I really dont know what to think anymore, mabye he is shy, but why doesnt he speak to me. (link)
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ooh good question i have this alot with girls about a day ago i told a girl i liked i liked her in bigger way than freind ship it took me all day to think of waht i was going to say to her any way the point of my story is maybe he needs to be with you in person a bit more and he is ust a little timid of what to put in his emails
hoped it helped a little for ya
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well im 16 years old...and for over a year i have been having problems with my breats...very bad sharp pains..not like those that happen when they grow and everything..but really painfully sharp pains...and i have a couple big lumps in my breasts...and they keep gettin bigger and bigger not real fast but slowly..im scared to talk to my mom about it..and im scared to make an appointment to find out..wat do i do!! (link)
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DEFFINATLY GO TO a DOCTOR
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I was going out with this guy, everything was perfect, we were perfectly in love. I moved to the other side of the country, but we decided to stay together. After a few months, my mind changed about things and i broke up with him. I started seeing another guy, but then i had to move back home, so we decided to break up. I'm now back home, and have realised i'm still in love with the first boyfriend in my story, but he has moved a couple of hours away for college. He admits that he misses how things were, but he has just recently started going out with a girl who goes to college with him. This is the first girl he's been with properly since me. Can i do anything to get him back? I'm 18 years old, he's 19, from australia. (link)
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i had this kinda thing with my gf not so long ago we both sat and talked for a while and we both decided we just needed a break because things wernt going go great allthough i didnt like the idea of this at the time because it sounded like she was dunping me it actually really helped because when we got back together everything felt so much better and as for your guys gf i would say if he misses the way tings used to be like then he will probably start to miss you (in short: its a matter of waiting)
i hope all goes well :)
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Ok i have been dating this guy for a awhile, and hes soooooooooo sweeet!!! But, when he is with his friends, he acts like we are just friends and like doesn't wanna hang out with me, like at football games, he will just walk by me and not say anything, and i feel like if i ask him why he will get mad, is that bad that i worry about asking him questions like that? Like i love him sooo much and i don't wanna break up, but when hes with his friends and like acts like he is avoiding me, sometimes i feel like i wanna break up. what do i do? (link)
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i am a dood so i can probably answer this for you i was like that a while ago but its probably just bashfull to do anything in front of his mates liiiiike he wouldnt feel so matcho like... lol sorry to put it so gay but still i its any help your welcome juuust dont obsess about it
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Well yesterday me and my boyfriend were supposted to hang out at the movies.. but i tried calling him and telling him that i was just going to go to his house, and no one answered, and he went to the movies alone. He is pretty mad at me, and i dont know whats going to happen, i have explained myself 4567 times, but he still feels like i ditched him... any idea on what i can do to make it up to him, not like go to the movies with him... real advice to make him really understand that i care, and am rele sorry,
thanks
16/f (link)
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aaah this one well if it was me then i would say DONT WRITE A DAMN POEM!!!! unless he >IS< into that sorta stuff go right ahead its just i amma dood and i have seen people throw poems/songs right back in peoples faces because they think they dont respect / love them enough to talk to them do it person its the best thing to do msn means nothing
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i have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years now. and she loves me, and i'm not sure if i love her. am i in this for her? well i'm not happy with the whole relasinship, but i don't know if it's because we don't see each other much or what. and then there is this other girl, that i really like, and we have been friends for a long time. i don't know if i should dump my current girlfriend for my friend ro what? (link)
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good question i would say if you dont love her at least tell her but dont just do it bluntly like dont like byebye now respect her feeling i mean you have been going out for 2 years (longer than any of my gf's) at least break it to her nicely or sumin then after a while ask your other freind if she likes you in the way you do and if not then at least you have got your answer and you have told your girlfriend the truth so even if they twist the story around like i have seen in some break ups at least your the nice guy and will probably allways come out on top for it
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