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i really need help!! long situation
okay i have this ex bf who i still like so much its not even funny. out of all the guys ive gone out with, i alwyas wish i was with him. ive gone out with him about 5 times already this year
well hes mad at me for like the bazillionth time and i hate when hes mad at me because we dont talk or anything
and so i really screwed up this time because i acually started acting tough to him. i have a lot of guy friends that are in a gang so whenever i have a problem i tell my guy friends and they usually just scare the person. so my ex was calling me slut, dumb drunk, and other words i dont think i can say on here and coming from him it means a lot to me so i said he should watch it, and that got into this big deal and how im a fake and all this stuff.
i dont wanna act tough. i just wanna act like i dont care, because i cant really talk to him since he wont care and hes one of those guys that when they say they dont care. they mean it.
but its killing me not talking to him.
pleasee help me. i think about this 24/7 and just thinking about this deal makes me acually tear up.
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aaah i had this a couple of years back i went out with this girl for 9 months we broke up for some reason because of silly shit .. >_< wasnt my fault.... but yeh all i did to not get back with her was get into a different crowd of people take your mind off it with a hobbie (i now play the guitar because it helps me forget all my troubles, for a while...) and as for the part you said about the "dumb drunk" surely your not drinkin enough if ya can still remember ;) lol joke but yeh hobbie, new freinds, anything that takes your mind offa him and he's a fool because by the sounds of it he's lost some one good your not at a loss keep thinking that
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it mite be tough, but i say dump the loser. if he knows that you still love him like you say you do, then he wouldnt get mad like that. and if he dont care bout nothin you say, then its his loss. he losses a special girl who cared so much for him that she thinks 24/7 of him. if he dont care bout that, then fuck'em. and you did good by standing up for yourself. that shows that youve had enough of his bullshit and that it was time to stop it. i know its hard, trust me on that, but you mite accually have to let this dude go. i mean, if he dont care then wtf. your sweet talking him for nothin basically. or on the other hand, sit down with him, make his ass listen to you, and tell him how you feel about the fights you have. and if theres one thing i have learned in a relationship with my girlfriend, NEVER, i repeat, NEVER!!! leave angry. its bad. lock yourselves in a room, and both of you stay in that room until the argument is resolved. or until you both feel better. you dont have to say anything for an hour or 2 or 3 or 4, but dont let him or yourself leave the building angry. resolve the argument. if you feel this is the guy for you, then your gonna have to do this sometime in life. ive had to do it. and everything turns out fine. but, like i said, if he dont care then he can go fuck himself and you can go look for someone whos is accually worth your time. dont mean to cuss or nuttin, but ppl like him make me pissed off
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Honestly, if this guy gets mad at you for stupid reasons & breaks up with you on & off, why in the hell do you wanna be with him? Look what he's doing to you -- AND YOU'RE NOT EVEN WITH HIM. Dude, seriously, FUCK HIM. He's not worth any amount of your time & you need to get over him. He's a jerk & a loser. You should've learned that by now.
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me and my ex went through the samething you are. were just friends talking things out. but you need to tell him how you feel and how when he says those things to you, you take them offensivly because you really care about him and you never felt that way for someone. talking it out always works but dont raise your voice... with my ex. he yelled at me at the bowling alley and wouldnt quit he pushed me and stuff and hit my head on the wall and i cried and he finally relized how much he was hurting me. dont let it get that far. try talking it out first GOOD LUCK!
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