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can i be with my cousin?
well i like my cousin and he likes me to and i like him because he is really sweet to me and treats me different than other guys. and he lives in mexico and i live in california so as u can see we arent really close cousins. the first time i met him was 2 summers ago and from then we liked each other but we know we can't b together but we want to be together.
wat should i do ?
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he may be different to other guys and sweet an all ... but please read the other comments and realise
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I would suggest that you just be.. family, nothing more than friends. See, not only would it disgust people, but it would extremely embarass and upset your family. It would be so disgraceful, you family loves you but there's just so much they can take. Not to mention its not legal, unless you both move to Alabama, that was a joke. No offence to anyone.
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i dont thin nk you should go out with him cuz your family but if you really like him you could write to him,or talk to him n the phone,or deside to take trips to see each other.its up to you
but if you deside to tell your family be carefull with how you put it
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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nooooooo
your hormones are probably just raging.
dont do anything with him.
its inbred.
its unnatural.
its illegal.
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ew. i mean really. how gross is that? and it's illegal, too. to like, marry him. my advice:
get someone like him that isn't related to you.
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Sorry......but you CAN NOT Be with your cuzin thats a sin......look im sure that you have to like him as a cuzin but not boyfriend because your family might get all twisted up and if you guys get togtether its gonna be a problem......so I suggest you find a person just like him!!!!!!!
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Probably not the news you're wanting to hear, but put everyone else into consideration. Eg, the rest of your family.
It's nice you feel close to your cousin and he treats you differently. Could this be a treating you different type of thing in a family way? Of course he would be different from other guys - You're related.
Then there's the other matter of the long distance.
It's very complicated and I'm guessing you're at a young age.
For now, be happy you've met him and have him in your life. He can be someone you can always count on/trust etc.
But I don't think you fully understand the risks having a relationship with your cousin could entail.
If you want the truth, find someone other than him, who can be close to you.
There's nothing worse than realizing you cannot be with someone because of the distance.
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Pick someone you aren't related to.
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well, love, i would hold back. You can feel free to like him and you guys can like stay really good friends, but i mean would your parents like it if they found out you and your cousin were together? and if you had sex with him, well in my opinion that would be gross. the most i think you should do is kiss (i still think that would be gross) but do whatever you want.
good luckk!
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