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i have a dilemma
i have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years now. and she loves me, and i'm not sure if i love her. am i in this for her? well i'm not happy with the whole relasinship, but i don't know if it's because we don't see each other much or what. and then there is this other girl, that i really like, and we have been friends for a long time. i don't know if i should dump my current girlfriend for my friend ro what?
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if you are only in the relationship for her than you need to break it off in the nicest way because being with her is unfair if your hearts not in it. you should not dump her just for the other girl
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There is always going to be "another girl." The decision to be with and make the relationship work, or to leave now, should not be made based on outside attractions. Others always look promising and attractive, because you have not had them yet, and having a relationship with someone kills that new hopeful feeling of endless possibilities. No one is perfect and everyone lets you down eventually. Stop fantasizing and stick to the facts when it comes to your current girlfriend and think about what it would feel like to lose her to someone else. If you are fine with that, then move on.
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Two years is a LONG time, to just throw that all away would be hurtful to your girlfriend and you could end up regretting it. Love doesn't just disappear or go away, it's always gonna be there, no matter how many more relationships you have.
There must have a been a point in time when you loved your current girlfriend or else you would have dumped her sooner. I wouldn't suggest dumping her because you more than likely will regret ruining a relationship that has last as long as yours' has.
Also, there is a chance that this girl you like may not even like you the way you like her. So therefore, it would have been all for nothing.
I would suggest that you give your relationship a chance. Spend as much time with her as you can but not too much, people often get bored of one anothers company after too much time together.
If things don't work out with you and your girlfriend, then sure, go on ahead and date your "interest".
Good luck. Hope I helped.
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good question i would say if you dont love her at least tell her but dont just do it bluntly like dont like byebye now respect her feeling i mean you have been going out for 2 years (longer than any of my gf's) at least break it to her nicely or sumin then after a while ask your other freind if she likes you in the way you do and if not then at least you have got your answer and you have told your girlfriend the truth so even if they twist the story around like i have seen in some break ups at least your the nice guy and will probably allways come out on top for it
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