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i love her


Question Posted Monday September 11 2006, 2:55 pm

i have a hard question taht is bugging me like hell and i would like to find a heart felt answer so it can ease my pain

i love a girl at school i have known her for along time now around 4 years(ish) but for that long we have only been friends now i am starting to change my mind about her do i really her but there are a few things standing in my way ...she has a boy freind... now her bf is a very good mate of mine we go out and skate for ages i know him through another mate of mine (but thats not important) any way i dont know what to do whould i leave them to it because they are madly in love with eachother or do i wait and go off her i havent really felt this way about a girl before sure i have had girlfreinds sure i have loved them to bits but this is different i dont know how it just is please please help my heart and head aches from thinkin about this.


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Additional info, added Monday September 11 2006, 3:08 pm:
and 1 other thing i keep thinking of is do i tell her that i think i love her???? but the thing is her boyfreind allthough being a great mate to me is also extremly strong so i kinda wouldnt like any trouble and allthoghu i know she wouldnt do anything to hurt me i know -he- would probably get the wrong end of the stick PLEAAASSEE help put my mind at rest please and the thing is i really want to tell some 1 about this but i know if i tell one of her freinds they will tell her and she would probably would tell her bf and i dont want to lose any 1 as a freind because they have all been awesome to me and if i told them would it shred a what been up to now a perfect relationship of a group of freinds IS THIS A BAD IDEA TO TELL HER?!?!?!????? .

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CarleyIsRadicall answered Monday September 11 2006, 4:52 pm:
O.K. This is a hard question but I see that you really like this "girl".

First off all if I were you I wouldn't tell the girl straight on. But there are other ways to tell her.

MY IDEAS

1. Tell her friends that you know will tell her. Don't tell them to tell her just somehow point it out to them that you like her. They will do the hard part for you.

2. Write the girl that you like a note explaing everything. Tell her how you feel in the most sweet and romantic way. This might win her over. KEY WORD MIGHT! You might also want to add not to tell her boyfriend because you don't want things to get messed up.

3. You could just tell her straight up. BUT I WOULDN"T. This could get bad because then her boyfriend could find out. A NOTE WOULD BE MORE SAFE.

PLEASE FELL FREE TO ASK ME MORE QUESTIONS ABOUT THIS AND OTHER THINGS!!!!

CarleyIsRadicall

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x0xqtpiex0 answered Monday September 11 2006, 3:24 pm:
if you feel that she can really be trusted, sit down with her one day, and tell her your feelings. also include that you arent trying to break her and her bf up, but you thought that she should no your true feelings. hope this helped ! update me on your situation =]


no prob
glad i can help
hope all goes well for you =]
and if you wanna talk
you have my sn
~almostlovex0x0

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