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ok so i bascially love this kid hes 15, im 13. people always say flirt with him, but whenever i do, hes always like dosent back. i need advice as to wha i can do.
ps-i dont giving up is an optino anymore. (link)
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He might not be into 13 yr olds. Hey what guy doesnt like to flirt? especially to a girl they like! Just remember> you cant make some1 like you!!
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okay well im 13, and the guy i'm going to be talking about is 15..and I really like him..okay well I was textmessaging him and i jokingly said "hey sexy beast" and he answered.."sexy woman" ..then i was like mmhmmm SEX (I WAS JOKING! haha he knew that to)then he goes "oral" and i was like hahaha..then he put a =0 face, and now like everytime he talks to me online its about us doing stuff like blowjobs and crap, and i mean i liked it at frist and stuff, but now its getting weird..like hes saying "Im masturbating..and looking at your myspace picture..TALK DIRTY TO ME"..it sorta turned me on at frist, but im really freaking out now cause i haven't even kissed a guy yet..like he's really trying for us to get together and he wants to kiss me and stuff, but then i know hes gonna want to go further, and i dont want to be really a slut at my age and stuff.. i mean i havent kisssed but someones been in my shirt before like they felt me up..i guess im just afraid of whats going to happen with me and the guy..hes like so serious and im like nervous..(lol) (link)
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Never talk dirty to a guy. Youre just asking for trouble!! I hope your not thinking of taking this guy on!! You may think its funny, but its not!! Cyber sex is not acceptable behavior, especially for a 13 year old!! Do you realize how easy it is for a guy to get horny off the internet? Seriously it doesnt matter how much you like a guy, thats not the way to get him. Hes only gonna think your easy. he'll use you and spit you back out!!! Hes showing you his true colors, why would you even want him?
seriously> Good Luck to you!!!
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well i just started dating this kid, let's call him john, and we are always hanging all over eachother. we just blend well physically, and are always caught kissing and hugging. i love being around him because i feel loved, but when we talk on the phone or it is just me and him we have hardly any conversation going. alot of the time we are just quiet when we are alone. how bad is this? is it a big deal or just something that will fade? should i reconsider our relationship? (link)
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well let me start by out saying, youre opening line doesnt sound like hes youre bf. KID? it sounds more like all you 2 have in common is the physical attraction going. communication is very important in a relationship, without that you really dont have much. Those type of relationships DONT last. Its obvious you dont have alot in common or you would be sharing it with 1 another! If you want to feel loved, by yourself a puppy, because i dont think this relationship is going to go very far, except maybe in the bedroom!!
Good Luck!!
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Alright, I have a question about being popular.
Well, not exactly. You see, I'm not obsessed and crazed and having my whole life devoted to becoming popular. Its just, the popular people are all so out-going and aren't afraid to do anything and they speak their minds. How do I do this? I'm so shy in real life, but I'm actually out-going online. But in real life its just like, "woah, who's that girl? She's so shy." nobody knows me.
How do I improve this? I just wish I could be out-going and be my real self without being so scared all the time.
Please help? (link)
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You just cant change youre personality from shy to outgoing overnight. Youre outgoing online because you arent face to face with people. Dont try to be some1 your not. Popular people arent all that, trust me. They like to drink and smoke pot. Sorry, but how does that make some1 popular?
Being nice goes along way. Your choice!!
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ok my guy friend was over a few weeks ago and we like open mouth kissed for about a minute and he did stick his tounge in my mouth and i stuck mine in his and he rubbed me "down there"(but i was wearing pants). people asked me if i made out with him and i just dont answer but hes telling people that he didnt make out with me it was just a kiss..... what was it? (link)
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wow a guy after my own heart!! Doesnt sound like he wants to admit to people that he DID in fact makeout with you. If i were you, id tell him to start keeping his hands to himself. He knows what he did wasnt "just" a kiss!
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Ok im 13 and I have had sex twice....I know that I want to tell my mom....but i know that if I tell my mom she will tell my dad and I KNOW that he will flip out....But I had ses with a guy that i have been goin out with for 2 years already and we are still going out...so I dont think it is that big of deal...but how do I tell my parents without them like killing me??? Also do you think I am considered a slut or something because a couple people at my school do...
thanks (link)
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ok ive been reading every1 elses advice on this question. How can you all sit there and think that its ok for a 13 year old to be having sex? How would you feel if you found out your 1st year teenager was having sex? Shes just a little girl going through puberty! Sex shouldnt even be crossing the minds of kids this age!! And what is an 11 year old doing having a bf?? This is rediculous! Why cant kids be kids? Why are you rushing to grow up sooo fast? You have the rest of your lives to be an adult and to be having sex!! Enjoy these precious years, because you can NEVER take them back!!! Your parents are going to be very hurt, but obviously they dont condone you having a bf. I cant believe they dont suspect anything. If my daughter had a boy over, you can bet that they would NOT be left alone. I blame the parents, because theyre has to be rules, especially at youre age! Im sorry, but youre on your way to getting a bad reputation already. How are you gonna feel when he breaks up? You know that most likely you 2 will not be together forever!!! You have alot to experience out there, and i dont mean sexual experiences!!! I guarantee you 1 thing: you are gonna regret having had sex already. Your not mature enough to handle all the heartache that will come!! i cant even imagine where two 13 year olds go to have sex? Keep your legs closed from now on, and start acting like a 13 year old.
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okay so i have gone out with my ex for 6 months and its been a year and im still not over him.. i have tried to get over him but its so hard and i really need to get over him because its just so hard for me to see him with other girls, i have tried to be with some guys but my ex is always on my mind and it just wont work.. please help (link)
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wow youre exactly where i was. Its been a year for me too, but hes been w/his gf now for almost a year. He jumped on to the next days later! (Shes 3 years younger than he is) The problem was....he wasnt over me. I didnt find out for a couple months after that he had sex with her the 2nd night they were together. That helped alot, because theres NO WAY in hell i would ever take him back anymore. 3 months after he was going out with her, he was telling me how he still missed what we had, he missed crying on me (hes never cried over this gf) said he loved me, but he didnt want me to hurt him. He said alot more, but no matter how much i still loved him, i wasnt ever gonna let him know!! It still hurts, but you have to direct your attention elsewhere. I see my bf and his gf everyday!! What makes it easier is how much of a jerk he was after the fact. shes even given me a piece of her mind!! The memories still linger, thats the hardest. (we were together for 3 years) You have to realize that most likely you 2 will never get back together. take your time because thats what its gonna take. ALOT OF TIME!! He has made it very hard for me to trust again. I dont believe guys when they tell me they like me. I have to believe that there is some1 out there waiting for me, and you do too. Save face, dont ever let him know that you are having a hard time getting over him, because sometimes it can bite you right back! Just try to have fun with your friends, stay busy, and steer clear of your bf if possible. Try to take a different route between classes if you know his. The less you see of him and hear of him, the better it will be!
If you need to talk some more, let me know and maybe we could chat! Id like that!
Good Luck!!
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okay so i met this guy hes soooooo freaking nice to me, we talk all the time. and he told me he liked me and stuff but last thursday he hooked up with this BEAUTIFUL girl. and then on homecomign i hear he has a girlfriend and hes all over like every freaking girl.im the type who gets jealus real easy. but we made up or whatever and he came over again yesturday we didnt hook up like usual we just kissed. hes a senior and im a freshman. and i dont know why i belive him when he says he likes me. but hes soo nice. and he told my friends he liked me andd stuff but he is considered a man whore. people even tolld me its funny that i think he likes me, but i cannot help it. (link)
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Hm, a senior goin after a freshman. Older guys tend to USE younger girls because they are so gullable and naive!! Hes probably been through all the girls in his class, and now the new freshman come in and he starts hitting on them. Hes a player, theres nothing to get jealous over. Cant you see hes just using you, and all those other girls? A respectful "older" guy wouldnt sit and do what hes doing with all those girls. Hed be in a relationship and treat them like they really mean something to him! Sorry, but it doesnt sound like he knows how to have a real relationship! When you say "hooked up" i hope your not referring to sex! This situation is all too familiar to me. You seriously need to STAY away from guys like this. Just because hes "nice" doesnt mean anything. Guys do that to get what they want from a girl (if ya know what i mean)!!! Any guy can say they like you. Hes saying that because your giving him what he wants, and as long as you do, hes gonna continue being nice to you. Do me a favor. If he wants to makeout with you again or whatever you 2 do>DONT!! then see how nice he'll be to you Youre not gonna keep a guy like that.He'll use you and spit you back out, then youre the one whos gonna get hurt!!
Hopefully there will be alot of guys answering this question for you. LISTEN TO THEM!!
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Ive liked this kid rob for about 3 years, and hes liked me before, but weve never went out. we are always flirting, and the reason he said he never went out with me was cuz i didnt talk enough, but now i do talk to him. Now, he has a girlfriend,when shes around he dosent talk to me but pays attention to her ( like he shuld) but as soon as he leaves hes flirting with me again. Idk what to do. Theres this party coming up soon and his g/f wont be there but he will and i will..i really like him..But i dont want to feel like im breaking them up. What if we end up making out or something? What can i do?
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STAY AWAY from guys that have gfs!!! What if you were his gf and he was flirting with another girl as soon as he wasnt by you, how would that make YOU feel? Just put yourself in her shoes 1ce! Hes with her for a reason! If he makes out with another girl just because his gf isnt with him, then hes not some1 i would want as a bf! He cant be trusted! You have to stop thinking about yourself. I would be mad if another girl honed in on my man, think about it. Youre only gonna give yourself a bad reputation at school. Its not worth it!! Find a guy whos single.
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Alright.
I'm usually a pretty good 'advice giver' but I'm stuck on this one.
I've been friends with this guy for about 4 years. There was a time in those four years that we.. well.. we liked eachother.
He asked me out.. but he dated my best friend, that's how we met, and I didn't want to hurt her in any way.
So, I said no.. and now.. he avoids me completely. Whenever I sign on to talk to him, he always makes up a bogus excuse.. like "I've got homework to do." (which he tells me EVERYDAY) and "I'm really tired.. I'll ttyl."
What am I supposed to do?! I mean.. I actually.. FEEL something for this guy.. HELP? (link)
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i went through the same exact thing. GUYS DONT LIKE REJECTION. it happened twice to me, and ive lost them both, because they held it against me.
im sry to say, but theres nothing you can do. the more you try and talk to them, the more your just gonna get them mad. Dont sit there and blame yourself, you can explain to them till your blue in the face and theyre not gonna care!
Theyre stubborn and immature sometimes when theyre egos been shattered. The best thing you can do is leave him alone and move on. trust me, i know!
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heyy guys.. well my best friend is taking this reallly cute guy to homecoming, but i don't think he likes her anymore. but he i think he flirts with me aloot. i mean calling everydayy, texting at 430 in the morning, texting to wake me up in the morning.. aw. yea i know he's sweet but like when i see him at school it doesn't seem like he likes me? cause i think he is such a cutie! do yall think he likes me or what? pleaaasseee help!! thxx (rate) (link)
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hmm> to me the proof would be to show those signs towards you at school in front of everybody!! Hes sending you mixed messages. If i were you, i would ask him why he doesnt acknowledge you at school the next time he calls.
Just be upfront about that 1!! Id like to know what his response would be. Guys can be good liars too, so be careful!!
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Ok, so theres this boy in my class, michael. We were going out, and you kno, all that bf/gf stuff. We were really close and great together, we never fought, but of course there was a lil argument here and there. Well, one day he just broke up with me. He didnt tell me why, he just said we cant go out anymore and left. The next day, my best friend was wearing a shirt that said I love my bf. I asked her who her bf was and she said michael. She ddint even try to hide it or anything. I got really mad at her, and stopped talking to her. Now there are rumors going around that they had sex. I am really mad at my friend and i dont know what to do. I mean, i like her, but im really mad at her for stealing michael from him. What should i do??? (link)
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Sounds like you have a great friend there! Depending on how you feel about your ex, i guess you can base your decision about your best friend, and what you should do. Hes not worth the time of day, but then again you are best friends with his gf. If hes cool with having you around them, thats important, but if she sides with him on things, i think i would lose her as a friend. Because it should always be: CHICKS BEFORE DICKS!!
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me & my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 months now, and we have recently been talking about taking our relationship to the next level. I have been thinking aout it a lot lately and i think its time. i really wanna suprise him and i've had a few ideas:
1) lapdance:
i already have, and believe me..he liked it ;]
2) hand job:
i tried to do that..and i think he thought i was gonna go down on him..but all i did was rub my hands on his cock..and i guess he liked it ;]
3) blow job:
i know u suck on his cock...but is that it?
if any1 could give me a step by step instuction on how to give a blow job and other ways to seduce my man..i would greatly appreciate it. =]
i rate 5'sz (link)
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Its called a blow job, but you really dont blow.
you tease with youre tongue the head of his penis. Then you put it in your mouth and move it in and out keeping your mouth closed on his penis, but not too tight. Keep repeating until he cums. Youre gonna have to keep doing this for a period of time, depending on how good you are at it!
Whisper sweet nothings in his ear, while your licking/nibbling on it. (guys love that)
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ok the other day i was a t home (i live with my freind and her fiance temporarily) and we werw all at home when a friend of her fiance's came over. and later that night he tried to kiss me when we were alone (my freind had went upstairs to get soem cards and her fiance went to the bathroom) and he tried to kiss me. now mind you i have a boyfreind alreay, and what the guy did made me really uncomfortable. now mind you he didnt ACTUALLY kiss me, but he tried. i was able to "get away" if you will before he atually kissed me. but my question is, should i tell my boyfriend and if so how? i mean i know he is gonna wanna kill the guy for laying his hands on me, adn then he is gonna be upset b/c he wasnt there to protect me. how should i handle this i dont know what to do. i mean i dont want to tell him b/c i dont want to get him upset. and i dont want to not tell him, becuase omissions are betrayals. help me please!!! (link)
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You need to tell your friends fiance about his aggressive friend. Tell him how it made you feel, and that he should let his friend know what he did was uncalled for!! You could have told the guy that you dont do that, and that you have a bf!!!
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There's always articles in magazines saying how you can REALLY get the guys to like you.
Smile, be nice, be funny, yada yada yada.
But, in your opinon how do you REALLY get guys to like you?
I mean different magazines say different things so, what do you think? (link)
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You really cant get some1 to like you. The main thing is to be yourself.
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The other day on my way home from school I bought a bag of donuts and was eating them while typing out an essay on my computer.I was a bit careless and sugar and crumbs from the donuts fell on the keyboard.The next day after school I had ants crawling all over my keyboard.I dont know what to do.
Any ideas? (link)
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theres screws on the bottom. Just take it apart and clean it!!
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Okay so theres this new guy to our school and hes a Junior and Im a sophmore and hes the classic bad boy he's been in trouble with the law, hes not a virgin (i am)he parties ALL the time. But hes really sweet and i truly try and stop myself from getting wrapped up in him bc to him im probably just another "girl" well whenever i get online hes the first screen name i look for and in the hallways i always look for him. But hes a major flirt and i know you guys are gonna tell me to just forget about him and i know IM TRYING. =/ basically, what im trying to say is should i even give him a chance to see me for who i really am or just give up while my hearts all mine? Like and sometimes i think hes too bad for me. He asked me this weekend to go with him to street racing with him and he doesnt have his license or permit it got taken away and i made up an excuse. Should i hang out with him? (link)
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Dont get mixed up w/him. Youre only gonna get hurt. You already see him as he is. people dont change over night. Its ok if you wanna talk to him, but thats as far as id go!!
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This guy and I were going out and he gave me 3 chances but I messed up and now he left me with no sympathy! If I try and talk with him about it, he doesn't listen. How do I get over him? (link)
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stop dwelling on your relationshp, dont talk to him or see him if possible. thats a start! I dont know how you messed up, but he obviously doesnt care enough about you to talk and work through whatever you did!
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i have this friend that i really like...and i wanna show him how much i like him..if you know what i mean ;]..anywaysz..he alwaysz talksz to me and he makesz it seem that he wants me that way too..and i really want him..i just want to suprise him..like an unexpected thing..the thing is..i have NO clue how to make that come about..and i really wanna get him hott and excited ;]...please..if you have any tips or tricks..please let me know..i rate high =]
thanks :] (link)
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ok i think i know where your going with this. Why do you feel the need to show how you feel about him by sleeping with him? Im not even goin to answer that because girl> youre gonna get hurt!
You are friends with this guy, youre not even in a relationship with him! So why do you want to get him hott and excited? Im sorry to be so blunt, but you sound like alot of girls i know that cant seem to keep a guy because they give it up so easily!! You dont think your going to jeopardize your friendship by acting on some impulse you have? Sex is to be shared by 2 people in love, not because their horny!! Hunny, if you want respect, keep your legs closed! Dont go spreading it around to every guy you wanna show your affection to!!!! You first have to respect yourself! Guys dont like girls who have been used and abused!!! Save the hott and excited for the honeymoon!!
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So my boyfriend & I's 6 months is coming up and I wanted to do something special for him but I don't have any ideas. I'm not really sure if we're going anywhere, we may just stay home.. so I don't really need any ideas of WHERE to go or WHAT to do.. basically I just want to know some cute, creative, and romantic present ideas that I could give to him. Something other than the usual cologne, clothes, cd, scrapbook ((everyone suggets that)) ideas. Hopefully you all can help, THANKS! (link)
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Fill his car w/balloons, and confetti. and write little messages or cute sayings, or just I LOVE YOU on sticky notes and put them all over his car!!
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