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to get over someone
okay so i have gone out with my ex for 6 months and its been a year and im still not over him.. i have tried to get over him but its so hard and i really need to get over him because its just so hard for me to see him with other girls, i have tried to be with some guys but my ex is always on my mind and it just wont work.. please help
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same thing happened to me, except my ex's current gf is my BFF
soo im not over mine easier and im trying really hard and its starting to work a little
make a list of positive and negative things about him, if there is more postitive things then you need to work really hard
try to ignore him and in school if you know you pass by him in the halls, try to take a diff. route so you dont have to ... if you cant date and not think about him then you should talkk to your ex tell him that you cant get over him, get to be good friends then ask him out again...i might do that with mine.... good luck
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I just recently got over my ex, and we only went out for 2 weeks last year at the beginning of the year. It takes a while. But eventually the pain will go away. I know its hard. The best advice I can give you is just forget about him, and move on. That's really all you can do. =(
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wow youre exactly where i was. Its been a year for me too, but hes been w/his gf now for almost a year. He jumped on to the next days later! (Shes 3 years younger than he is) The problem was....he wasnt over me. I didnt find out for a couple months after that he had sex with her the 2nd night they were together. That helped alot, because theres NO WAY in hell i would ever take him back anymore. 3 months after he was going out with her, he was telling me how he still missed what we had, he missed crying on me (hes never cried over this gf) said he loved me, but he didnt want me to hurt him. He said alot more, but no matter how much i still loved him, i wasnt ever gonna let him know!! It still hurts, but you have to direct your attention elsewhere. I see my bf and his gf everyday!! What makes it easier is how much of a jerk he was after the fact. shes even given me a piece of her mind!! The memories still linger, thats the hardest. (we were together for 3 years) You have to realize that most likely you 2 will never get back together. take your time because thats what its gonna take. ALOT OF TIME!! He has made it very hard for me to trust again. I dont believe guys when they tell me they like me. I have to believe that there is some1 out there waiting for me, and you do too. Save face, dont ever let him know that you are having a hard time getting over him, because sometimes it can bite you right back! Just try to have fun with your friends, stay busy, and steer clear of your bf if possible. Try to take a different route between classes if you know his. The less you see of him and hear of him, the better it will be!
If you need to talk some more, let me know and maybe we could chat! Id like that!
Good Luck!!
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Well, there's no real "quick fix" to this. Believe me when I say that I know how you feel. ME and my boyfriend broke up, i couldn't get over him for about 8 months...no joke. And I knew that it was pathetic, and I just couldn't get over him! So I just tried to date other guys and think about all the things that weren't right in teh relationship. Yes, it was extremley extremley hard, but I eventually got over him by dating other guys.
Believe me honey when I say that it will go away. Good luck! Try dating other guys, spending more time with your girlfriends..
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you have no choice but to get over him you dont want your mind on him i bet his mind isnt on you...i know it hurts but if you dont get over him then your just gonna miss out on your life you dont have time to wait for him when he is with other girls just think "o well its not worth my time to think about you " so youve tried to be with other guys just try some more
hoped i helped probably didnt but i tried
-JoN
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