Question Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 11:45 am
ok so i bascially love this kid hes 15, im 13. people always say flirt with him, but whenever i do, hes always like dosent back. i need advice as to wha i can do.
iSpEaKsPaNiSh answered Thursday October 13 2005, 12:36 pm: maybe he's just not that great at flirting so its hard to tell when he is..or he just isn't.
it may be that he needs to brush up on his flirting skills or, honestly, he might not be into you.
if you really want to find out, let him know how you feel. don't make him feel like he needs to ask you out right away..just say you like him and want to get to know him better and want to know if he feels the same way.
of he doesn't like you back, don't take it personally. i'm 15 and i know a lot of my guy friends wouldn't go for a 13 year old..but some would. it depends on the guy.
if he does feel the same way, be aware that he is 2 years older. it usually doesn't matter much..but at your ages..there is a difference between relationships when you are 13 and relationships when you are 15. this also depends on the people. so, just be aware.
good luck! [ iSpEaKsPaNiSh's advice column | Ask iSpEaKsPaNiSh A Question ]
linnyloo822 answered Thursday October 13 2005, 12:30 pm: Okay heres what i think you should do.Ask him if he wants to go to the mall or someplace casual where you guys can talk and get to know each other. At the end of the day when you get to know him and if you still like him tell him,Good luck! [ linnyloo822's advice column | Ask linnyloo822 A Question ]
babygirl17 answered Thursday October 13 2005, 12:14 pm: Alright... So here's the deal.. you flirt and flirt... and he never flirts back... Maybe hes just not a flirting type of guy.. You should tell him straight up that you really like him... and see how he feels about you.. He may have the same feelings for you.. or he may not...but you need to tell him how you feel... or he will never know...
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