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should i tell him?
ok the other day i was a t home (i live with my freind and her fiance temporarily) and we werw all at home when a friend of her fiance's came over. and later that night he tried to kiss me when we were alone (my freind had went upstairs to get soem cards and her fiance went to the bathroom) and he tried to kiss me. now mind you i have a boyfreind alreay, and what the guy did made me really uncomfortable. now mind you he didnt ACTUALLY kiss me, but he tried. i was able to "get away" if you will before he atually kissed me. but my question is, should i tell my boyfriend and if so how? i mean i know he is gonna wanna kill the guy for laying his hands on me, adn then he is gonna be upset b/c he wasnt there to protect me. how should i handle this i dont know what to do. i mean i dont want to tell him b/c i dont want to get him upset. and i dont want to not tell him, becuase omissions are betrayals. help me please!!!
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I think that you probably should tell him.. Youd rather have him hear it from you..then possibly hear it from someone else... Even Tho it was just you and this guy... You need to also tell him that he did NOT kiss you.. and that you would never betray him like that... But tell him not to get upset... that nothing had happened.. and that you handeled it yourself... Yes.. i'm sure he will be upset.. but what boyfriend wouldnt... my boyfriend would be the same way...
Hope This Helps.... Good Luck..
**Jackie**
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i actually think you should tell her friend..i mean they are engaged! she should know about his behavior..
if you tell your friend it might get around to your bf, and if you dont tell him things could snowball..
i do agree with the others about him not knowing wont hurt him. what COULD hurt him is if you tell your friend (i think you should)..and then it gets around to him.
so you have to decide.
i would tell my friend..because this guy isnt being true to his fiance..if my fiance was trying to sneak a kiss in to someone else...i would most definately want to know about it so i dont make a big mistake and marry the guy
-melissa-
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he didn't actually kiss you, and it sounds like you made it clear that you didn't want it. in that case he probably won't do it again. so in the end, what your boyfriend doesn't know doesn't hurt him hunnie* just don't go making big deals of small incidents. if you do decide to tell, don't make it an epidemic, alrighty*
xoxo, pinklady4863
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They key word here is "tried". Since he didn't get it done, there is nothing to report.
I think it would be fine to let it slide.
And don't feel guilty about it ( if you do), because you did nothing wrong. :)
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You need to tell your friends fiance about his aggressive friend. Tell him how it made you feel, and that he should let his friend know what he did was uncalled for!! You could have told the guy that you dont do that, and that you have a bf!!!
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You didn't betray your boyfriend in any matter.
You handled yourself very well, and personally, I wouldn't speak of it.
If you really feel the urge to tell him inform him of what you informed us.
State that you got away, and nothing happened. You won't be around him alone again.
Your boyfriend should understand. He should be proud that you can handle your own.
I mean, if he feels that he must protect you at all times he must have a problem with the validity of his manhood.
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