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okay well im 13, and the guy i'm going to be talking about is 15..and I really like him..okay well I was textmessaging him and i jokingly said "hey sexy beast" and he answered.."sexy woman" ..then i was like mmhmmm SEX (I WAS JOKING! haha he knew that to)then he goes "oral" and i was like hahaha..then he put a =0 face, and now like everytime he talks to me online its about us doing stuff like blowjobs and crap, and i mean i liked it at frist and stuff, but now its getting weird..like hes saying "Im masturbating..and looking at your myspace picture..TALK DIRTY TO ME"..it sorta turned me on at frist, but im really freaking out now cause i haven't even kissed a guy yet..like he's really trying for us to get together and he wants to kiss me and stuff, but then i know hes gonna want to go further, and i dont want to be really a slut at my age and stuff.. i mean i havent kisssed but someones been in my shirt before like they felt me up..i guess im just afraid of whats going to happen with me and the guy..hes like so serious and im like nervous..(lol)
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Never talk dirty to a guy. Youre just asking for trouble!! I hope your not thinking of taking this guy on!! You may think its funny, but its not!! Cyber sex is not acceptable behavior, especially for a 13 year old!! Do you realize how easy it is for a guy to get horny off the internet? Seriously it doesnt matter how much you like a guy, thats not the way to get him. Hes only gonna think your easy. he'll use you and spit you back out!!! Hes showing you his true colors, why would you even want him?
seriously> Good Luck to you!!!
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hey hun, like when your talking on aim you can be like, okay lets change the subject, or go into something else. if he does wana go out with you and posibly hook up tell him that your not really experianced and dont wanna go to far cus you dont want to seem like a school slut.
xO. jessica
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your feeling pressured..dont do anything your not comfortable doing. next time your online tell him you were joking before and one thing led to another with the whole oral thing and your just not ready. be honest and tell him you have never been kissed. its nothing to be ashamed of..i know 16 year olds who have never been kissed and its not a huge deal. it sounds like this guy wants to go a little toooo far..so, lay down the line and tell him your not ready for anything like that. *he probably has the idea that you want to give him oral or something*..so just clear it up with him so your not leading him on and this way everyone is on the same page. drop me a question in my inbox if this doesnt work...let me know wat happens
-melissa
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