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Ok well there is this one guy that i really like and he likes me 2. Well I asked him out, and he is telling me later on tonight or tomorrow. My friend then told me that he went into the bleachers with this girl who wasn't his girlfriend ( he had one @ the time ). They didn't come out for an hour!! what should i do!?
Thanx A BUNCH!
-14/f
umm to be honest, i think your friend is lying.shes probably jealous. not all guys are like that, as someone else said. i think you should just wait for an answer. dont try anything to dastic in the meantime becuase you might do somehting thatll scare ur guy away. just act the way you usually act around him, maybe flirt a little, you know. hope i helped!
I was wondering what kind of laptop is best for a 13 year old (me!). I'm going to be using internet a lot, and I don't need it for portable purposes. It's just going to stay in my room. Of course I need word and all that junk. I also want one thats attractive! And I was also wondering if you can get them in colors or if not put like color plates (like cellphones) on them? I want it to look cute and OF COURSE has to be functional!
umm i dont think you can get a colored laptop, except for an apple laptop, but im 13 and i just got a laptop, its and Acer Aspire 3000 and its rele good. ot under $1000 but it comes with dvd burner and a big screen, i think its 15.4 inches, i dunno, but it has a built in microphone and its black and silver. ill try to find a link for it, but its really functional and everything. im not sure how to get word though, becuase my uncle got it for me, but that part your gonna have to figure out yourself. hope i helped!
ok so my friend says how much i flirt and all and i really dont, she just thinks flirting is talking to the guy she likes, but any way so she tells guys that i flirt with everything that has a penis and that really hurts my feelings when she says it to me but when she says it to me, but to guys and all thats really embassesing(sp) and hurtfull. and today i was talking to a guy and he was like flirting with me and i kinda like him so i flirted back a little, and she pulled me by the hair and got me away from him and was like "stop flirting i just saved you from embasesment" and i wanted to scream "no you didnt you embarassed me even more" but i just kinda walked away from her and didnt say anything...what should say to her that wont piss her off cause she gets pissed off pretty eailsy..o by the way were both 13...thanks for any advice in advance!!
tell your friend that just because you talk to a guy you like doesnt mean your flirting with them and if she continues, tell her to fuck off. hope i helped!
What r some romantic things a guy cood do for a girl, leading up to their first kiss?
i dont know if you would want to do this, but i always thought the perfect kiss would be outside while its raining. Theres just something so....romantic about a kiss in the rain. hope i helped!
ok i want to exercise but i have bad asmta what can i do that can help with fitness
thanks in advance
hmm i dont have asthma so i dont really know what to say. well my friend tiffany has asthma too but she still dances and does cheerleading, so its ok, just take a break every now and then and dont over do it. If you feel your getting tired then stop, or else its just going to get worse. hope i helped!
Dear Michele.
I'm a 29 year old mother of three wonderful children. But I have a problem. When I was 28. I was dating this guy for about six months and it was a on againg off again relationship. We both decided that we wheren't going to get married or have children. He already had one and I had two at that time and I wasn't ready to have anymore. So I was on the pill and he didn't use anything. Well about a month later I just couldn't take it anymore and we split up. But he keep trying to get me back but I was with someone else but I still cared for my ex. Well I went to my doctor's for a check up and found out that I was five months pregnant and I know who the father was. So I told him that night and he was so furrious at me and told me that it was my falt and that all I wanted was his money. I told him all I wanted was him in my son's like and mine. But that never happened he wanted me to have abortion or give him up. Not going to happen. He has never seen his son. My son is two right know and will be three in a couple of months. I have married a great guy who has been in my son's life since he was six months old. But he's getting older and I needed some advice on how do I tell my son that the man that he know's as dad is not his real dad and how to explan to him about his real dad and I don't want to picture him as a bad person. I don't know what to do. I hope that you can help.
Sincerely,
A heart broken mother
aww thats sad. i think you should try to explain it to him in a way that he would understand. lets face it, any way you tell him hes gonna be upset, so your just going to have to deal with that. but dont hold off telling him until hes older because then he wont only be upset because he never met his real father, but hell also be angry with you for not telling him. so try to tell him cautiously. At 3 years old, he might not have as much of a reaction then lets say a y7 year old would, but thats why it would be better to tell him right now. wow i hope im making sense right now. Well, i wish you the best of luck and i hope i helped!
i'm a male, over 20, alone as hell.
i've never been able to get a girlfriend, i've tried and tried.
it seems like some crule cycle with me, meet a girl, ask her out a couple of times, start to like her and suspect she likes me too, try to be there for her and everything, try to move things up a notch, get the "you're such a good/nice/fabulous guy, i just wanna be friends" routine. Then i'll let go of how i feel as much as posible and try being "just friends", then she picks up the biggest jerk known to mankind and i get to sit across the table watching them make out (TORTURE, for those who care). then the arshole will proceed to cheat on her, she's crushed, i have to listen to all the bullshit and cheer her up, only to find her back with the butthead a week later, then a month later he'll cheat on her AGAIN...
by the third time this happens i simply fuck off, cause she's still won't go out with me and she keeps on going back to the total jerk and every month i have to be there for her.
WHAT THE FUCK, girls always tell me what a "NICE GUY" i am and the friendship crap, but why won't they go out with me.
I'm starting to accept that i'll die alone and bitter, and am starting to avoid woman totally.
I just don't know what to do, i'm really starting to lose it with woman.
I'm over 20 and i haven't even kissed a girl yet. WTF?!!!!!!!!!!!!
should i just kill myself now instead of becoming a full blown alcoholic?
should i try to like guy's more, and simply go gay?
at least i get alot of attention from gay guys trying to chat me up at bars, though im not gay. but women.......FUCK
i need advice please.
well, if you like guys, then yes go gay, but dont kill yourself. the right person will come along one day and when they do theyll bring so much happiness into your life, youll decide that it was definitly worth the wait. dont worry, theres still hope! hope i helped!
Ok, im a 13/f and would like some help on redecorating my room. its a light blue and i love unicorns and dragons, i also love ligers and tigers. i cant re paint, or do anything drastick, so if any one could help that would be awsome
umm you could get stencils of unicorns and dragons and tigers, maybe ligers and put them on your wall or get a border. hope i helped!
okay i need to know some songs that are really good to "freak" to. ya knoww like shake your butt music. anything besides GET LOW. Something they might play at your school dances that get everyone going crazy! thanks.
again ill give a 5 to anyone who attempts to name at least 3.
bonanza by akon, lose control by missy elliot, Young'n by fabolous,we be burning by sean paul, somebody told me by the killers, just the girl im looking for by the click five, and thats all i can tihnk of lol. hope i helped!
i am about to go to a new school and i am worried that i wont make friends. aside from that, i am worried if i make friends they'll be with the losers or something. i changed schools because i didnt have any friends there and now i want a fresh start. any tips?! PLEASE help!
well, you should just be yourself, and if anyone talks to you then try to make friends with them. it shouldnt matter if theyre losers or not, just as long as theyre your friends. whatever you do, DONT try to act like someone else, because then peoplen will get the wrong impression of you. hope i helped!
Nellie
well im like 16teen and when i was younger like about maybe 5-7 years old i experimented with somebody who was only like 2 yrs older i mean he didnt even go through pubity yet and i didnt feel anything so does that make me still tight like a virgin
if you popped your cherry then no your not a virgin anymore. (popping your cherry means your hyem tore, just in case you didnt know) if your hyem didnt tear then yes your still a virgin
ok right this is gunna be kinda long i think..
so i know this boy lets call him fred from school and i like him and apparently he likes me LOADS cos ma m8 laura bf is like best mates wid fred any ways theres this freshers party in like 2 weeks and fred said to laura and her bf that we should all go as a 4 but he dosent know she told me lol
she said its so obvious he like me any way she thinks we should get together and make out and stuff.
i really really want to!! ive liked him for aaaages and i really want to be with him
so what kinda stuff should i do between now and the party to make him want me sooo much it hurts i always see him staring at me out the corner of my eye then when i look at him he always looks away.
we have the same friends we always talk on msn messenger but hardly ever at college.
what should i do between now and the party to make him want to be with me i know he does hes just shy!
ill rate 5's for good advice and 1's for anyone who says bad stuff
xoxox
umm you can ask him out? oh btw, are you british? the way you type...it sounds british. im not saying thats bad. hope i helped!
A snowflake is a crystal. Some people tell me that it has 6 sides, some people tell me it has 8 sides, and some people tell me it has 10 sides. Which is it???
no two snowflakes are the same. A snowflake can have any number of those sides, plus more.hope i helped!
once i have songs on limewire how do i burn them onto a cd?
go to the library screen and then click explore on the bottom. highlight the songs you want and then click copy to cd. Youll need to have some kind of media player so you can burn it. most windows computers have windows media player, so itll bring you there. unless you have itunes. then itll bring you there. hope i helped!
what do people mean when they say 'i dont like fake people'
when people say they dont like fake people, that means they dont like people who pretend to be something they arent.
Nellie
Hey I was just wondering...where does it start, that is, STDs. If a guy and a girl are both virgins, is there still a chance? How does it like begin, because it doesn't seem to make sence. If its not infection by spreading it, then what starts them? Thanks - will rate.
well, there is a chance that you can get STDs if you are a virgin, but thats heredity. The chances are slim to none of getting STDs after having sex with a virgin
WHat is "friends with benifits?"
friends with benefits is when a boy and girl arent in a relationship, but can still have sex and make out and all that good stuff. basically, its like a fuck buddy
Hey, for Pyschics in my class we're doing an Egg Drop Project. It's where you take an egg and drop it from 30 ft. And the egg can't break. The only thing we can use on our egg is sticks (that are smaller than popsicle sticks), 1 balloon, and 1 rubberband. (Or 2 rubberbands/2 balloons) And the egg has to be raw, and nothing can be at the bottom of the drop to help it. My question is, does anyone have any idea how I could design this, so that it doesn't break? Because if the egg breaks I'm pretty much screwed.
K thanks.
they did this on full house, but they were able to use anything. umm ive enver done this, but what i would do put the egg inside the balloon, but out it on top of the sticks. can you use glue? if you can then glue the sticks to the bottom of the egg and then place it inside the balloon. if that doesnt work, then build a cage sorta thing out of the sticks and hold the sticks together with two rubber bands and then put the in the balloon, or wrap the egg in the balloon before you build the cage around it. i hope im not confusing you lol. hope i helped!
does lime wire cause viruses or anything that could harm my computer because i want to make cds but im afriad to do it
well i have it and i didnt get any viruses, just make sure you disable shared files. my uncle installed it for me and he said that if people can upload songs from you, they can get your ip # so just make sure you go to options andn fix all that stuff. if you need anything else email me! xonellie143ox@yahoo.com hope i helped!
ok is there a website where i can learn how to type fatser i will dowload it and sign up but i just need a website quick i rate 5s
umm www.tenthumbstypingtutor.com is a good site, but if your willing to by a computer game, buy mavis beacon teaches typing 8. it has games, lessons, and lots of other stuff and it works really well. i have it and since i got it, my typing has improved a lot. when i first started, i could type 8 words per minute and now i can type 28 words per minute. hope i helped!