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Sup, my name's Aaron, i'm a band freak, health freak, grammar freak, perfectionist, and I just love to watch people do stupid things even if it includes me, because heck there's no point in being uptight about life when in the end it all ends... hahah gotta love my type right? There's not much about me that you probably haven't heard that you can't compare to other people, I mean i'm a friendly person who once you get to know me, tends to grow on you like mold on bread. I'm smart, courageous, a leader, fun, loving, honest, brutally honest, sadistic, idiotic at times, ignorant to certain topics, indifferent in some controversial issues, unconcerned about what you think about me, happy, sad, depressed, angry, and basically any other attribute you can give to a 16 year old teenager. I'm an ex-swimmer, meaning that I quit... just because of band, and no i'm not that big a band freak, I'd just rather be playing my instrument and feeling the soothing sensation that music has to bring as opposed to getting stressed about being beat by other people! But no, haha I love swimming and if my school allowed me to take both at the same time without sacrificing my grades I probably would. I'm not the kind of person that sits and watches something, for instance, I hate watching football but I love playing it just because of the adrenaline rush. Blah, haha not sure what else to say, I mean I suppose I can tell you that i'm chinese, and uhh that's about it I think... I like to philosophize haha if that makes any sense, I feel that although philosophy is basically the "DUH" of life, sometimes you just need to be told, DUH. There's nothing better than discovering the obvious... Anyways, life's so much easier for probably you and me if we chatted on AOL, my screen name is An3mu5c0r9u5 yup yup =D hehe

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Dear avice columnist,

there is this really hot guy that goes to my school.He is so nice to me.but he has this girlfriend that is really pretty nd he is head over heals for her.I mean lyk in LOVE LOVE LOVE with her.But the thing is that when ever we are watching a movie in science class he turns around and talks to me sits on me lays on me nd my heart skips a beat everytime he does.But I dont think that he really likes me because of this over girl. she is Rich,can do alot of flips and splits in cheer and is pretty,so I dont think that he does but that does not keep me from wondering well maybe he does but I dont know.

Thank you,
Does he like me

well... I'm not sure if he likes you he's probably just flirting with you.. but you should tell him your feelings so that at least he is aware and doesn't make you feel hopeful and then sad..

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is it ok to wear abecrombie aeropostale'and old navy together if it matches my friends say no but i was wonderin
HELP,
~FaShIoN CrIsIs~:>

well I can't really say anything just cause I don't know what clothes you are trying to put together like tanktop, shorts, or whatever i'm not sure which is which but im sure as long as the logos aren't all showing then it should be fine

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I just started playing piano yesterday and i need to find easy songs to play from the internet well the thing is the only sheets i can find is ones i cant understand! the type of sheets i need are the ones with ABCD and so on. so if u can just tell me what sites are good that will give me notes like that, it would be great! i rate HIGH!!!

go to google.. and type free piano sheet music and there should be a ton of links

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I went through a break up a couple months ago and haven't seen this guy until last weekend. i was trying to be strong and not hook up with him again cuz it took me so long to get over him the first time around, but i just went for it because i missed him. all my feelings for him came back but he lives across the country (im in cali, he moved from cali to jersey) so i only get to see him during holidays and stuff. i have this feeling we were meant to be together and i can't let it go-at the same time its torture for me.

how the hell am i supposed to get over him again im in so much pain. a little help guys how do you get over an ex?

if you're meant to be together then you're meant to be together talk to him and ask him why he dumped you or why you dumped him.. Talking is the key to everything

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Hey.. ok I got a lil problem! See.. there's this guy & I really like him but he's already told me that he dont want a g/f right now. Ok.. I was cool with that.. then 1 day he asks me if i would fuck him. I'm like huh? (I'm 14 btw.. he's 16) He's like let's fuck.. ok well I was like umm.. I dont really wanna do that right now but I was really flirty with it like I was playing hard 2 get.. which I kinda was but see.. now EVERYBODY knows that we might do something & he keeps bugging me about it but I still kinda like him.. what should I do?

TALK TO HIM!! if you don't talk to him he will just keep trying to take advantage of you and then one day there will be headlines of a teenage girl getting raped!

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what does "two stepping" mean, like you do it a rock shows and stuff... explain, cause i feel stupid

well... I believe two stepping has to do with dancing and i'm not sure if it's at rock shows but ya.. sry

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ok my friend forgot her password to her login(she has a windows XP) is there anyway she can get it because she was the admiastiraor adn the rest of her family was jsut the limtied accout if you could tell me it would help alot thanks

go to setup by pressing I believe esc and then look around umm there should be something that has to do with login password... sry if this didn't help much

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im going out with the best guy ever his name is paul i love him 2 death he calls me almost everyday and i just love everything about him. I dont know if my friend is jealous or just mad. Well my problem is im sick of hearing that my friend says the me n paul are like married just because we hang out we go 2 eachothers houses, go to movies,mall, and friends house's. i mean i think she is jealous bc her bf austin doesnt call her talk 2 her or do anything with her the only thing they have dont together in the 5 months that they have been going out is that they say one movie and saw eachother at a foot ball game well i just want 2 tell my friend 2 shut up bc she's jealsous but i mean i dont want 2 be mean bc she is my friend i just dont know wat to do help me plz

well tell her that it's bothering you that she keeps saying those things about you

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Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??


-Scared :(

well depending on how far away your period is... i'd go and take one of those pregnant tests

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what should u do when these two ppl like each other and one doesnt want 2 go out ???

have them talk to eachotther and work things out on their own...

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Ok well I had the free trial of animation shop and Paint Shop Pro 9 and it just ended yesterday... is there any way to get them back or no? Without them I can't make icons, glitter names, of avaters. I'd appreciate the help!

well there are a lot of illegal ways to get them... which i won't tell you on this site just because they will probably find me and arrest me but IM me and i'll help you =D

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hello, ok I just got my Belly button pierced. and the guy told me to clean it once a day with sea salt, is that right? should i use anything else?

well sea salt will actually make your skin burn especially in the wound area.. you should just use regular rubbing alcohol and cover it up with a bandage... also don't do a lot of things that require you using your belly button area

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hi,

i have a wierd question. i am a 17 year old man and even though i workout regularly my body wont change its shape. my shoulders are wide but then i get smaller and smaller till my hips then i have a huge waist and butt(not big, wide). My lower body is completely wrong for my upper body (its like i have a womans' shaped waist and legs?!) My question is, what can i do to get a more balanced out body with hips and waist in nice proportion? any good exercises would be really helpful! (Oh by the way, i play basketball for an hour each day and do pushups and situps too but no use)

well work out your abs and lots of cardio to get the wideness out... also work on your legs by biking and swimming... a lot of aerobic exercising helps too

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My aunt used to seel herbel life diet pills and they used to work soo good and they had shakes n drinks to go with it and now she doesnt sell it anymore do anyone know of anyone thats does!

well.. i'm sure you can go to any herbel store like eckerds or walgreens and get some... if not go online and order from their site

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ok there is this boy that i really like and he gave me my first kiss.And when-ever he was in trouble i was there to help him. Also his dad hit him alot and one day he and his dad were fighting real bad. Then his mom and his dad left. so he called around looking for me. i know this because all my friends started calling to to tell me that he is looking for me.we finally got to talk he asked me to come over asap. so i dropped everything and went to his house. i thought it was an emergency so i ran. it usually takes me 25min to get to his house but this time it took me only 15.min. but i got there he answered the door(he had a big mark on his face)(from his dad) and looked at me i helded his face and asked him what happened and he told me.i gave him a really big hug and i kissed his bruse.But my question is now he wont talk to me. But he tells all my friends that im the ONE for him but he continues not to talk to me and he ALSO has a girlfriend Please help me...... i beg you.... thank you!!!!
Ohhhh by the way not only does he tell my friends that im the ONE for him he brages that im a great kisser!please help me!i rate high....(16-FEMALE)

lol well it seems that he just wants to get some space and think things over after being in a huge fight with his dad.. you need to talk to him though one on one and try to work out both of your feelings

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Well here's the thing, my best friend(23) has just recently gotten engaged. She has asked me(19) to be her maid of honor and I have said yes. But come to find out she has been lying to this guy(20) the whole time they've been together. I didn't realize what she's been doing until all of us started to hang out with each other. He's really nice and really loves her. But I don't believe she feels the same about him. She is what you would call a user. If you have something that she could benefit from she attaches to you and try's to get you for all you have. She has cancer and is getting a divorce from her present husband now, there goes her medical, this new guy is in the airforce and is form a family with money, (lots of benefits and can take care of her). My question is, should I tell him about all of her lies, cheating and sneaky ways or just leave the whole thing alone and let him find out for himself.

NO! lol that's the worst thing to do because then the guy will end up suing her and it'll just be a total mess... before they get married you need to talk to her one on one and then talk to him... after that you need to get them to take counceling because one person can not do everything but it's good that you're concerned, it shows that you are a real friend

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I'm trying very hard to learn the drums. (I'm trying to teach myself) if anyone out there can tell me what all the drums on the set are called , or knows any site that can help me, id be very happy. Thanks!!
-Janine-

well there are many different kinds depending on what kind of drum set you get... you should ask the store that you bought ur drum set from to give you a learning book

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I've been having these visions in my sleep that it's going to become the end of the world by next Friday. I wake up in a cold sweat and see pink gay bunnys everywhere. Then all the sudden the damn rabbits start making out with my pillow. Then the frisky lil things take out bb guns and start shooting my TV. My house then catches on fire, causing the next house to burn up too (some how, i don't know how, though). ...and so on. Then the whole US is on fire. Our president, bush, thinks we're getting bombed by iraq so we go to another deadly war. Then china launches a gigantic nuclear fusion for the hell of it, and the world blows up.
But some how I manage to survive bc/ i can breathe in outter space. Then, I rule the universe! Muhahahaha



What should I do about these dreadful nightmares?


Wow... the best I can say is GO TO HELL

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In june i got in a car accident where my friend rear-ended some1...and i ended up with a spranged knee and a neck brace..well now whenever some1 gets like close to a car i start to freak out and like lose my breath...is that ok? because it was in june and its now november

Yes it is normal because it was a traumatic experience.. just take a couple days of vacation chill out and if you're really worried maybe go to someone for counseling

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my really good friend just called me and her cousin goes to my boyfriends sschool and she said her cousin said that MY BOYFRIEND HAS TWO OTHER GIRLFRIENDS........and that she seen him kissing on girls and stuff...... im so upset i dont know what to do..i was just on the phone with my boyfriend and he was like i love you so much and i was like i love you too and he was like no i love you more...hes so sweet i cant believe this....what do i do?? IM GOING TO CALL HIM UP BUT IM SO UPSET IM CRYING AND WHAT DO I SAY...=( oh my god...hes the only good thing in my life....this is aweful PLEASE HELP

TALK TALK TALK TALK TALK!!! ASK QUESTIONS!!! BE SUSPICIOUS!@!@!@!@! There isn't really much you can do besides the things stated above...

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