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Boyz are crazy!
Hey.. ok I got a lil problem! See.. there's this guy & I really like him but he's already told me that he dont want a g/f right now. Ok.. I was cool with that.. then 1 day he asks me if i would fuck him. I'm like huh? (I'm 14 btw.. he's 16) He's like let's fuck.. ok well I was like umm.. I dont really wanna do that right now but I was really flirty with it like I was playing hard 2 get.. which I kinda was but see.. now EVERYBODY knows that we might do something & he keeps bugging me about it but I still kinda like him.. what should I do?
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TEll him even if YOU agreed you're parents would nail him for statutory rape. How does he feel about juvy, and a recaord that will keep out of good schools and any non burger sling job for the rest of his life? They may seal juvy records, but he'll still be on some bad lists. For you to think about: A sixteen year old boy doesn't have the experience to make sex good enough to be worth the risks to you. At 14 your body isn't ready, he'd really mess you up. He finds you attractive, but he's too stupid and self-centered to know what he's asking. A selfish lover at your age can cause untold damage and pain (physical and mental). You're instincts on this seem good, but don't be so worried about loosing his interest. From what you've described of the situation, he'd stop talking to you after the deed anyway. Good luck, Sweetie!
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TALK TO HIM!! if you don't talk to him he will just keep trying to take advantage of you and then one day there will be headlines of a teenage girl getting raped!
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you really shouldnt fuck him because ur only 14 but i really dont no wat to say because i havent fucked anyone yet.... it is your life ~*L*~
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that's not a good idea... I mean if he hasn't shown any signs of affection and then all of a sudden asks you to have sex, there's something fishy there! It leads me to think that he's doing is as a sick joke or something. I don't think you should do anything with him. You can find someone better, trust me. LUCK
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if you dont want to have sex with him dont , if he's pressuring you i dont know why you would still like him
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Don't do it. 1. there are so many problems that follow sex and 14 is not a good age to be able to handle them. 2. If he doesnt want to een date you then all he will probably do is do it with you then never call you. Dont take the chance. Hope i helped., and leave a message in my inbox for more advice.
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
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PLEASE don't have sex with him babe - he sounds like a player who is only after one thing. He has no respect for you or your feelings and the best thing to do would be to forget about him. I know that's easier said than done, but it will be the right decision to make in the long term. :-)
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DO NOT have sex with this guy. Save it for somone who you really love. This guy just wants sex and i doubt a relationship. This guy i'm guessing hardly knows you, cares about you, or likes you. He probably thinks your hot bcuz he wants to have sex but he's not worth it. He's just another sex craving dick. There will be guys in your life who really care about you and love you. dont waste it on somone who hardly konws you and doest love you at all. you will really regret it later if you do.
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If you don't want to do it, then don't let this guy pressure you into it. If it's all he cares about, then he's obviously using you. I know it may be hard since you like this guy, but you have to look out for your best interest...which, in this case, may be to stay away from this guy.
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