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what are the symptoms of fallopian tubes blocked symptoms
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http://www.ehow.com/about_5064058_signs-symptoms-blocked-fallopian-tubes.html
http://women.webmd.com/endometriosis/endometriosis-and-fallopian-tube-problems
I found these sites. I hope they are of use and answer your question(s).
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I got my ear pierced just where the cartlidge meets the lobe last Wednesday, today is Sunday.. it was fine for like the first two days but now it is a bit swollen and bleeds a little.. I have been cleaning it with the after care stuff and drying it.. what should I do? By the way I've had my other ear pierced on the cartlidge twice before and they've only bled when I have taken them out to early or caught them.. is it normal for my new piercing to swell and bleed a little? (link)
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It is perfectly normal for piercings to swell and bleed. If it's a lot of blood, then I would suggest you get it looked at to make sure the piercer did not hit some sort of vein. If it's a little, chances are it just got caught and tugged on a little. It'll pass. You have NO idea how many people come back to the shop about their piercings. Is it suppose to swell? Is it suppose to crust? etc etc. Here are some tips about keeping your new piercing clean and help it heal properly.
1- When in the shower, be sure to work your piercing. If it's a stud, twist it. If it's a hoop, move it in and out.This way you can guarantee that the skin does not heal onto the piercing.
2- Take Ibuprofen for swelling and pain.
3- IF you use any soap to clean out a piercing, make sure it is anti-bacterial. As well as MAKE SURE that ALL of the soap is fully cleaned out of the piercing.
4- Eat properly and healthy. If you have difficulties in doing so, taking vitamins can help. Also, taking Zinc supplements can also improve and increase healing rate.
5- IF you EVER suspect you have an infection in your piercing, do NOT take it out. Instead either go to the piercer who did it, or go to your doctors. If you take the piercing out with the possibility of an infection, you may end up trapping the infection inside of your body, which can be very hazardous to the body part and to your health.
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I'll try to give as much information as possible without going on and on. Story is: In mid july of this year I went to my gpa's surprise party in Boston (I live in Jersey). I actually wasn't even supposed to end up going to the party. Anyway, i'm not that close with my fathers side of the family and even though I'm very outgoing and a little crazy, I was kinda nervous about being there because they are SO judgmental. so right when i got to the party i decided to have a drink (I'm 23). That's when i noticed the waiter was really cute. We instantly hit it off and during the entire party we both were joking around. I introduced him to my entire family (after my 2nd drink) and he went along with it and was laughing with everyone. Then he gave me a trophy, he could have gotten into trouble for giving it to me. We were pretty much flirting the whole time and when I went to pay for my last drink I left my number on the receipt for him. An hour later I received a text from him joking/talking about how funny i was, how great the party was, etc. By the time i got home we were still texting. Anyway, now its a couple months later and we keep in touch through facebook/text. Recently I realized I'm beginning to have actual feelings for this guy, or so I think (it's probably infatuation but I can't seem to get him out of my head.) He's 21 and I'm 23 but we are both at the same point in our lives. I'm in grad school he's in undergrad so right now were both starting our fall semesters at schools in our respective states. Anyway, we text a lot and if it's been a couple days that we haven't talked one of us will always text the other to catch up. He has stressed that he wants me to visit him at school and I'm willing to do so but now I'm entertaining the idea a little more since over the past week or 2 we have been talking more & more. I'm a very silly person, whenever I go out with friends/family they think of me as entertainment for the night with my jokes, outrageous comments and no filter, i say what i want. He sees this in me and really understands that that's who i am. Sometimes he says things like that he's been in LDR's before so I'm sure he somewhat entertains the idea that we are so compatible. He also complains that the one girl whose cool and chill like me lives so far away. We do really random things sometimes like one night we decided to have a drink "together but not together" while on fb chat. Another night we gave each other video tours of our rooms and he even sent me a video of him playing an instrument. I just get along with him really well so far and idk...what's my next step? I don't want to freak him out and tell him i have a crush on him but I do. I haven't had a "CRUSH" on someone in a while. It usually takes me awhile to like a guy and guys around me that show interest are not of interest to me. We both know that right now we're just texting buddies who would totally be hanging out if it wasn't for the fact that that meant we were driving 5 hours. So do I take the trip and see what happens from there or keep going with how it is now? When IS the right time to plan to visit, whenever I say (or he says) I wish we could chill he tells me to visit him. Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? How do I explain how i feel without sounding like a teenager lol? Please just give me some advice...i seem to screw things up whenever I realize i actually am interested in someone... (link)
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Honestly, I believe the best way to let someone know how you feel is just by telling them. As for how to say it, it's entirely up to you. I can give you the line my current boyfriend used several years back while we were still friends, "I think I'm falling for you" Swept me right off my feet ;p. Do also consider though, that long distance relationships can be difficult. Not being capable of seeing each other as often as you would both like, it can put a bit of a strain on the relationship. Especially since both genders have certain needs. As for the right time to visit, it's when you BOTH feel ready. I mean, you wouldn't want to just show up, if he wasn't ready, or you wouldn't want him to pressure you when you weren't ready to take such a long trip. Also, it takes time to plan. You want to make sure you have somewhere comfortable to stay, as well as enough money for everything you will need or want while out on this trip.
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My periods normally run about 40 days apart, but i noticed that i haven't had a period since mid july. I have had unprotected sex several times since then. Also, in the past week, i have had some symptoms, extremely sore breasts and swollen nipples, heartburn, bad cramping, metallic taste, to name a few. Worse than regular pms. So i took a test, the first appeared negative but when i looked at it again after about an hour it had a dark positive line. I took 2 more, one looks like it has a very faint positive and the third looks to be negative.
Im just so confused, can it be possible to get a positive and a negative after? Or have symptoms before a positive test?
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Yes, it is possible. Recently I was getting symptoms of pregnancy, morning illness, tender breasts, repulsion to certain foods, and this went on for a couple of weeks. I took a pregnancy test, and it came back negative. So I thought nothing of it, believing perhaps it was my period coming, and that perhaps I was just getting symptoms of "PMDD". A couple weeks later, it never came, I took another one, and a positive result. Went to the doctors for a proper confirmation, (blood test) and yes, turns out I am pregnant. So, if your period does not show up when it should, or if it's already late, give it another week, and try again. Remember to take it with your first bathroom break, as most tests indicate that's when the HGC hormone is most strongest.
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What are the symptoms of thyroid imbalance? How do you know if there is a problem with your thyroid? Is there a test you can take to chack and make sure everything is ok? (link)
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There are tests that can be conducted by your doctor. As for symptoms, from what I read, they can be very subtle and go unnoticed and untreated, also some symptoms could include "Fatigue and weakness
Low basal temperature (cold intolerance)
Dry and coarse skin
Hair loss
Cold hands and feet
Weight gain
Insomnia
Constipation
Depression
Poor memory, forgetfulness, dementia
Nervousness and tremors
Immune system problems
Heavy menstrual periods
Frequent sinus infections
Poor resistance to infection"
But, those symptoms could also be caused by other illnesses, so your best bet is to schedule an appointment with your doctor, and have it properly diagnosed.
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I don't really like being eaten out...and I feel like I don't like the stuff most girls like during sex. I've never gotten off vaginally (there have been some times where its felt incredible but if its supposed to feel anything like a clit stimulation orgasm then i haven't). My boyfriend is really great in bed but my body is just so stubborn. I get bored of sex after awhile. We switch up positions and stuff but I don't know. I just feel like my body is so different... what should I do? I want to enjoy it more. Sorry about the details.
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Every woman's body is different. There's nothing to be feeling bad or upset about. It's not bad if you don't enjoy having your mate go down on you. As for vaginal climax, some women can climax vaginally, while others can only reach climax during clitoral stimulation, goodness, some women can even climax with just nipple play. As for enjoying sex more, it all really depends on YOU. Perhaps plain sex is not enough, perhaps you need to add something else or more into intercourse. Some people go to foreplay before intercourse, as some people add other things (Examples : SadoMasichism, Bondage, toys, etc.) Perhaps you are one of those types that just down right do not enjoy sex, I know some people like that, for reasons of their own, as each has a different one. Try adding other things into your "play time". Perhaps that can help you. If you feel uncomfortable going into an adult shop, then shop online. It won't show up as the site you purchased from, but as something else to keep your privacy. Try looking at other forms of positions as well, there are A LOT out there. Perhaps the positions you are currently trying are just not doing it for you. Also, as for Vaginal climax, it feels differently from clitoral climax. That I can tell you. As for how exactly it feels, that I cannot tell you, because I honestly believe every woman experiences those things differently. I hope things work out. Good luck!
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i feel like my bf is being bored with me when we are having sex.what can i do to bec hot enough for him. (link)
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Best approach would be to just talk to him and ask him about new things he may want to try, or you tell him about things you'd like to try. There are many different things to do, but it all really depends on what you two are into or interested in.
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OK. I need help. Answer's. From someone that speaks and listens with there heart. For I have come to a point where I don't know who to trust anymore.
My name is Daniel. I am a 25 yr old male. And I feel ad though I have been cursed. I think. Things just are not right with me like they used to. I have been one to such for the meaning of life. The reson Why were here. Why we all spin on this little planet floating in this vast never ending space called the universe. I love music. And have always had a passion making it. I am a loving person and only want what's best for me and others I encounter in this world. I've been through a lot in my short time here. And do admit that my past has not been the greatest. I have struggled a lot with addictions and selfishness. But have come to terms with knowing my wrongs and trying to be a better person. Loving myself and others. And giving Thanks to our creater every day. But I don't know what I've done so bad in my life to deserve What I'm going through right now.
I have always questioned the Bible. I belive What it stands for, but always felt there was more to the story. Things have been hidden from us. I wanted to find answers, and asked God for help. I began looking into the hole Freemason, Illuminati, hidden Agenda thing and got curious, now KNOWING things were being hidden from us. I began digging deeper and came across the whole mind control stuff and began to get a little scared. Long story short the more I started to dig into these things the more I started getting spiritually curious as Well and looked into everything from the Gnostic, to the Vedas, to ancient occultism, and organized religion as Well. I was soon obsessed with trying to see What was the truth. I know it all leads to love. But what of our history? Our true reson that were here? Well, I'm still here asking the question. But feel I have not not any closer to the truth. Just more confused. Now to my problem. During this time of exploration, I began to start seeing 11:11 a lot. As time when on, it started to become 33. Like 3:33 11:33 on digital clocks. On recipts. Everywhere. Time when on and lo and behold one night I began to hear voices. Not very nice one's. I began to feel as though I have become insane. But soon started to see that these were not voices in my head but were coming out of anything electronic. Well come to realize while doing research that I have become a f'n T.I. (targeted individual) . Now I would see where most of you would roll your eyes here and say "OK this guy really is crazy" and That's OK, I've come to tearms with that. But if people were to really take the time to do some research on technology that we are and have been capable of making such as silent sound spectrum equipment and voice to skull devices. Such as artificial telepathy technology. Anywho. Thanks not my biggest problem. I couldn't give to sh*ts about those people. My problem is What happend when I let them get the best of me. It seemed my whole recerch into the hidden agendas maybe made me a target? I don't know, and it would take me a day to tell you all the things they can do to me, and how they make me suffer. But I feel there is something unseen Working with these people. And how it ties together.All these numbers I see. To many synchronicitys happening. To many weird dreams. I'm hoping this will reach at least one person that may be able to help if not answer my question. Why is this happening to me? I have more then excepted the lord CHRIST into my heart. All I want is noting more then love and happiness in my life. To bring it to others. Why these numbers? Why am I a target? Does anyone really know What these numbers mean? Any who. I guess all I really need right now is assurance that there still is love out there in this world. Because What ever is happening to me is stressful and hard to deal with.
Love and light. (link)
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There is always love in this world. As well as always hope. As for the electronics, it may be that you have acute hearing. It does happen, when I was younger, I lived with a family (foster care) and my foster mother, she heard noises coming from the wires. It never made human voices, but a musical sound. Electricity coursing through. Certain resonances (sounds of frequency) can also cause discomfort as well as the possibility of hearing "voices", there have been reports of hauntings, only to find out that these frequencies have effected them, making them believe that there is/was something there, and that something happened. It was mostly due to how much electricity was coursing through. As for the times, 11:11, 3:33, 11:33 etc,..
First - 11:11 - http://www.divineopenings.com/1111
http://www.meaningof1111.com/
http://www.greatdreams.com/eleven/num11.htm
Second - 3:33 - http://www.biblicaltimes.wordpress.com/meaning-of-333/
http://www.ridingthebeast.com/numbers/nu333.php
Third - 11:33 - I could not find anything on this number, other than quotes from the bible.
Here is a site that I found while searching about your numbers, perhaps this is what it really is. It all really depends on how you perceive everything. If you believe it is bad, it shall be, if you believe it's good, then it is.
http://www.1111angels.net/
For the meaning of life, I honestly do not believe anyone will find that answer.
But honestly, I like the Dalai Lama's views.
"The purpose of our lives is to be happy."
"Find hope in the darkest of days, and focus in the brightest. Do not judge the universe."
Whatever is happening to you that is stressful and hard to deal with, let it go. If it hurts you in anyway, physically or emotionally, it's not worth grasping onto. Believe it's like your past addictions, and kick it. There's no sense in putting yourself in any form of harms way. You don't get to live the same life twice, so enjoy the one you're living.
I hope this was helpful.
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im starting volyball and i need an athletic checkup by my doctor. What do they do? (link)
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Just a typical physical. They check to ensure you're in good health, and in some cases even drug test you to ensure you are not using any illegal drugs or steroids.
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What is an infection that appears to be yeast, but both man and woman can get it and its treated with a pill (link)
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Just to clear the yeast infection thing up, men can get a yeast infection as well. Especially with unprotected intercourse. As for what it is, I doubt anyone can tell you, your best bet is to call and speak with your physician, and ask what the diagnosis was. It could be vaginitis, or it could have been a sexually transmitted disease. Either way, if you want to know exactly what it was, your best bet is to speak with the physician who treated you, and ask for that information.
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My kitchen sink is stopped up and the water is going from one side to the other. It took forever for the water to go down in both sides and everytime you put something in one side it goes to the other sink. The pipes are metal.We tried drano, it didn't work. How do I fix it without spending a lot of money?
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If drano did not work, consider renting or purchasing a snake, if you are unable to take the pipes apart. (My sink backed up recently, and I just took the pipes out to find a clog in it, cleaning it) But snakes are very helpful for those who don't know how to remove piping and put them back properly. You can get them at many hardware stores, and are very easy to use. You simple put the snake in, and once it can go no further in, simply turn (twist, or however the instructions say) and it usually just "grabs" the clog and helps you pull it out. Should this not work, then you may have to call a plumber in, or rent the electric snake, (I believe that's what they are.. They are motorized) as these are MUCH longer, and you usually plug them into an outlet. Also try speaking with your landlord, and have him/her take care of it, as it is their duty to do so. Unless stated otherwise in your lease agreement. But if the draining is much closer, (you notice the water backing up faster than slower) Then chances are you'll only need a small pipe snake.
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I think Im going through puberty and I have this really stinky smell and I want to kno how I can get ride of the smell (link)
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There can be several causes for the odor. Improper cleaning is usually the main cause. So be sure to thoroughly wash yourself. Of course, not using anti-bacterial soaps, as these can also kill off the good bacteria that live in the mucous membranes. If this happens, it can lead to an infection. Also, another cause is an infection itself. Have you noticed any other form of discomfort, besides the smell? If so, I would suggest speaking with your mother or father, and having one of them set up a doctor appointment for you to ensure that you are alright. But, during puberty, your sweat glands work more than they use to, which can cause the smell to be more noticeable. A good way, (should it NOT be an infection) to help keep yourself smelling fresher, is to carry some wet naps on yourself, and each time you use the restroom, clean yourself with one or two. There are wet naps (or wet towelettes if you prefer) specified to help keep a woman fresher. You can get them at any store that sells feminine hygiene products. Also, be sure to read the instructions carefully, to ensure that you are using them properly.
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I just started my period I was dark red it was brownish what does it mean
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If you started your period, and it is a dark color, or brown, it is typically just blood from your last menstrual cycle finally leaving your body. It's perfectly normal. Many if not all women get this. It is nothing to be alarmed about.
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Alright so Im 13/f and all the time even when Im not on my period my undies get really wet and sometimes clumps of like vaginal discharge appear. How can I stop this? I have a very irregular period and I want to be able to wear thongs and stuff but I cant knowing if I wear one the wetness will go to whatever Im wearing! Please help! It happens all the time.
Also, why am I so itchy down there? Like you know where your pubic hair is? Well Im itchy there all the time and its embarassing in public if I get itchy and have to keep calm until I find a restroom... Advice? (link)
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Every woman gets this. It's completely natural. Considering you are still in the process of puberty, it'll take some time before the wetness subsides. Have you considered panty liners? They can help in keeping your panties dry. Also, as for the itching, do you shave? If so, when the hair grows back, it does cause itching discomfort. If you don't shave, be sure to properly clean yourself. And just like any skin on your body, not too hot, or else it can cause dryness and itching. Though, the wetness can cause itching if left uncleaned or unattended. Kind of rashy itch feel. Panty liners.. I know I have said this, but panty liners can be your best friend, especially if you struggle with "unfreshness"
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So I know this guy I used be good friends with. We met in last year of college. However my relation was with him was more academical. We used study together in library. During this period he started developing feelings towards me. I never saw him more than a friend. So one day he texted saying he loves me and wants to be more than friends and I told him I dont feel the same way. Scared about our friendship he made up a huge lie that he didnt text me, his phone got stolen and a person who stole the phone texted me. I clearly knew he was lying. I told him many times to tell the truth and assured it wont harm our friendship but he didnt and finally when I stopped receiving/replying his call /texts he confessed and begged to forgive him. I did forgive him but I cant forget what he did to me. I hate it when someone lie to me I hate it even more when they are worse at it like you're insulting me by thinking i'm dumb enough to believe you. This happened two yrs ago. After that we never saw or tried to contact each other but now few months ago he has found my twitter account.However he doesn't know I know abt this. He keeps stalking me there and everytime sees me talking to a guy get really jealous and start msging and calling that he wants to be my friend again. I get atleast 50 calls/msgs a day. He is so insecure and its really really annoying. He's forcing himself into my life. I dont want to go back to being friends again. I get repissed when I think about what he did to me. He's not ready to move on. I dont know how to handle this situation.:/ Help. (link)
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Everyone lies, whether it's big or small, everyone has lied. Besides, he lied two years ago, I think it's time to forgive and forget. If you are not interested in him, tell him so. Explain to him that he makes you uncomfortable with his actions, and tell him that you know about him watching you, and that you do not appreciate it. Even if he is not ready to move on, you may have to ensure he does. Change your phone number, block his accounts on yours. I don't know much about twitter, but I assume if it's like many other accounts, you have the option to block unwanted viewers. If it becomes a scary situation, such as him physically stalking you, get the police involved. But the best thing to do, is tell him you are not interested in being with him, nor are you interested in being his friend if he can't accept that you don't want to be his girlfriend etc.
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Dear readers i am a 28 yr old female in desparate need of an advise or someone to hear me out. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend of 1/6 from the begining we had trust issues cause he would do shady things like tex his ex and delete messages. For a whole year if it wasnt one thing it was another. Now this year 2 months ago i found out he cheated so now that has ruined our relationship. Cause although i forgave him i dont trust him. I work from morning till night at a boutique store and he works all day and a half at a deli. Bottom line we see each other about 20 minutes in a day. We are falling apart. The one day of the week that i get off instead of being happy we spend it fighting;,( i dont know what to do. I have a very strong self will and so does he so we always clash. What scares me the most is im 2 months pregnant and instead of taking it easy and being happy. Instead i think we no longer love each other. As im writing this tex im crying because i am in so much pain. I had a rough childhood and for that reason i want my baby to have a better life than i did. But the way things are going i think ill be seeing myself as a single parent. Any good advise will help. And thank you for your time (link)
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It's difficult. But you must consider your child. If your child is female, you don't want her growing up believing that this is how a relationship is suppose to be. And if it's a boy, you want him growing up knowing how to properly treat a lady. Being a single mother isn't always easy, but it can be done. I know many single mothers. One of my friends has FOUR children, and raising them on her own. But in relationships, without trust, there can't be real love. So if you wish to truly stay with him, work out your problems. I can't say what you did was wrong, (staying with him after all that he's done), because everyone has their reasons, but you have to think about your child. If being a single mother is all you can do, then so be it. There are organizations that help single mothers. Public aid for example helps with food and may even help with cash assistance. Just look into all your options just in case. Also, there are other places than can help you get started with diapers, baby foods, clothes, and such. I hope things work out for the best.
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I really need to leave. I can't live here much longer. My mom makes me want to commit suicide every single day but I'm stronger than that and have too much of a will to live and make something of myself.
I can't do anything right in her eyes. All I am to her is a leech. She screams at me all the time calling me worthless and nothing but a selfish child. All she talks about is money money money and how if I can't make her any money than I need to get out. She doesn't care about me at all she just wants more money.
I've been trying day and night to get a job ever since I graduated (June 9th) but I live in a small town in Florida and nobody is hiring. She won't help me at all yet she says all she helps me too much. She's walked around with me when going store to store asking if they hire and she's seen that nobody is hiring yet she calls me worthless and piece of crap for not being able to find a job and that she's in debt (only by 3,000) because of me and how much she hates me. If I get a job she said she's going to demand my paycheck from me.
She keeps saying everything is my fault and that all I do is make excuses for everything. But it's not my fault the economy is the way it is and that the few jobs that are hiring have an average of 300 people competing for every single one.
She refuses to help me with saving money so I can go to college and she won't even help me buy a license so I can legally drive (though I do know how to). I could take out a loan but I can't just walk into a loan office and ask for money so I can go to college and dorm somewhere so I can get out. I need some sort of help and I don't know where to go. Nobody in my family seems interested in me at all. My dad didn't even call me on my birthday he just wrote something on my fb wall. That's how disinterested my family is.
I'm not even a bad kid. I was an honors student who's never gotten in trouble with anything. I've never drank never smoked never had sex. All the guys I meet say I'm an amazing person yet my mom hates me and my family won't help me.
Please where can I go to get onto my feet?!
There has to be some sort of center that helps graduates like me who don't have anywhere to go and need help.
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At your age it may be a bit difficult. Have you considered asking to stay with a friend? One that understands the situation you are in? I know this doesn't sound wonderful, but there are also shelters. Also, you could always consider joining the military or one of it's branches. You don't have to be active duty, but you will at least be able to get out every so often, as well as get some money, and have something to get your own place. No, it is not your fault the economy has fallen to this state, and if anything, your mother should realize, that she did NOT have to keep you after you were born, but she did, and that it is her responsibility as a parent to care and love her child(ren). To be honest, she should be proud of her child. Being as well behaved and intelligent as you are. Even if some family don't seem interested, you never know. Try talking to some about your situation. Also, have you tried Temp agencies? It usually takes a while, but they typically find jobs for people looking fairly quickly. Though you did state you lived in a fairly small town... Also, as for going to college, speak with them, they do have financial assistance to help you pay college. There are always other options, it's just digging to find them that's the hard work. But for the college, speak with local colleges, and ask about grants, financial assistance, etc. I wish you the best of luck. Continue being strong.
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I'm sitting in my truck wishing I had a vacuum hose that I could run from the tail pipe to the cab of my truck, while my sister is up in the hotel room smoking crack. She told me I had to leave so because she sick of me getting high for free. Yes I am an addict with very bad habits and I actually let my sister sell herself to support our habits. I am a complete piece of shit and I can't live with myself anymore. I am 31 years old and my sister is 22 and I am not doing my job as being an older brother and protecting her from harms way. We are both very addicted to opiates,
and crack cocaine. We moved from Ohio to Florida the end of April this year so I could start work with a marine construction company. It didn't take me barely 2 months to screw that up and catch a grand theft charge for attempting to steal all the tools that were provided for me to
run a crew of my own. The drugs really took hold
of me at that point. Now I'm completely at the end of my rope, bottom of the barrel (link)
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Have you ever considered checking into rehab? There are other options besides suicide. If you really wish to end this problem, get the proper help and care you NEED to get. It will be hard at first, but in time, I'm sure you'll be happy and feel much better. Despite what some may say, 31 is not too old to turn your life around and make yourself better. I know several people who thought they couldn't quit, and they did. My current boyfriend use to be an addict, but he quit and is doing wonderfully. I believe you can get better too, you just have to believe it yourself as well.
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Hey guys so this is probably going to sound really dumb to you guys but I need help. I took 2 years off college because I wanted to save up the money before going. And all of my friends were already going and I basically felt like a bum. Some of my "friends" would make fun of me and stuff so I just told then that I went back to school last semester. That was a big fat lie. I know I shouldn't have lied but I was desperate. El last year I met my current boyfriend by one of my friends. And she told him I was in school and he would always say how much he loved that I worked and did school so I felt horrible. I finally applied and im an upcoming freshman this September. Im really excited! But my boyfriend is done with college and is offering to help me get my classes. He wants my cuny portal password. I trust him we've been dating for over a year now so I know he wants to help. Im just worried that he goes into my account. Im basically asking if he goes into my account can he see that ive never went to any school before? Will he find out ive been lying? If he does what can I say? Please dont say the truth. I am too ashamed and I'll feel so stupid and just bad cause I know I lied and everyone will find out. So thats not what im looking for. Please help I'd grately appreciate it! Thank-you
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I know it's not what you want to hear... But if you continue lying, it could only get worse. Lying to cover up a lie, it will only just continue and continue until eventually you end up saying something incorrectly, and if his memory is very good, he'll remember a lot of what you say, and eventually put two and two together. There is really nothing you can do other than either 1. tell the truth, 2. change your password and don't let him help you anymore, and hope that he never finds out the truth. 3. Continue lying and hope it does not get any worse.
As for whether it shows up or not, your best bet is to ask your school counselor, or a teacher and have them answer that for you, or log into your account and check for yourself. Of course, before he is able to log into the account.
I'm not going to come up with the lie for you, as I do not know you and do not know what you do or where you live to come up with a viable/passable excuse, so more lies will have to come from yourself.
Do remember, in a relationship there can be no real love without real honesty and trust.
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What, exactly, is taxable interest? If it is income, then isn't all interest taxable? I am so confused! Can anyone simply explain the difference between taxable and non-taxable interest in a simple way for me?
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http://www.irs.gov/publications/p17/ch07.html#en_US_2011_publink1000171435
"Taxable Interest
Taxable interest includes interest you receive from bank accounts, loans you make to others, and other sources. The following are some sources of taxable interest.
Dividends that are actually interest. Certain distributions commonly called dividends are actually interest. You must report as interest so-called “dividends” on deposits or on share accounts in:
Cooperative banks,
Credit unions,
Domestic building and loan associations,
Domestic savings and loan associations,
Federal savings and loan associations, and
Mutual savings banks."
I hope this site is of some help to you. I feel it explains it very clearly and simply. :)
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