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so i met this guy in a cafe and once i saw him on the stage, playing guitar and singing and sometimes babbling about how he hated bush, i knew i was in love with him. That was two years ago. And now, I'm just as in love with him and we're friends...not best friends but friends. I'm in high school and he's in college though, and i only see him in the summer and when he has christmas break and spring break and random weekends inbetween. He's four years older than me, and best friends with my brothers...and he's friends with some of my friends and we are completely compatible, and he's always teasing me about dating but i know he's just...well teasing. He once introduced me as his future wife ...he does the sweetest things like that. I know that he doesn't actually like me. I'm only 15 and he's 19. I guess what i'm asking is, should i wait until i'm in college to make a move but then live my life alone for four years? or should i tell him how i feel now and try to get over him?
if you were to do anything sexual with him, it would be illegal.
i'd wait.
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i REALLLLLLLLLLYYYYYY wanna go to Oklahoma University!
Does anyone know like what kind of grades, activities, SAT scores, or anything i need to work on to get in??
Plus whats the best dorm to stay in, and what is the campus like?
..and only respond if you know about this
Thank you!!
go to the princetonreview.com website,it has averages and the like for almost every school ever. gl!
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So I'm 16 and I haven't even had my first kiss yet. I have alot of guy friends but they are all what it sounds like "guy" friends not boyfriends. I'm not a tombboy or whatever..Am I missing something here.
you're stressing about it too much, just give it time, you'll find the right one all in due time. don't be one of those girls that's so desperate to get her first kiss that she just dates anyone to do it.
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I am 14, in ninth grade, and I am female.
Okay, first I'm going to give a little backround information.
I had a boyfriend that tried to cheat on me with his ex girlfriend. I knew that I couldn't trust him ever again, so I broke up with him yesterday. Don't worry, I feel really good about it.
Well, a few days ago, I found out from one of my friends that another friend of mine, Ricky, likes me. At first, I wasn't sure I could trust the friend that told me, T.J., because T.J. is weird like that. Then, my best friend Megan told me yesterday that Ricky has liked me for a long time.
My question is, is it okay to go ahead and date Ricky so soon after dumping my previous boyfriend?
~ClarinetKtM
of course it's ok to go out with him so soon. your relationship with your boyfriend for you technically ended when he chose to cheat on you. good luck chica
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Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy.
it can still happen. it's not as likely... but there's always the possibility. if the both of you are too young to be on birth control, maybe sex isn't the best of ideas for you.
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My boyfriend and me have been dating for a month. I was a virgin when we met he was surprised that I was. This weekend there was a party at my friend’s house and I invited him to come with me. We both got wasted and stoned. All night he was asking me to have sex and I kept saying no. I didn’t want to loose my virginity well I was drunk and stoned. I wanted to do it when I was ready as well. When I was in my friend room alone he came in and locked the door behind him again he asked me to have sex I was so drunk at that point I was about to pass out and so I said yes. So now I feel really bad is this a good thing?
you know, it's almost really hard to understand where you're coming from. i mean... i guess it's just hard to see that someone who was willing to get really drunk and really stoned would have the wish for enough morality to stay a virgin. if you feel bad that you did it with him and that you were pressured into it, it wasn't a good thing. if you feel like you only did it because you were drunk/high, it was a bad thing.
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well i like this guy.. duh lol.. so anyways during the summer he told me that he liked me and i didnt like him then but i was really good friends with him so i was flattered but didnt like him back.. so then during the school year we kinda "hooked up" and we went to 3rd base.. and so ever since them i have had feelings for him... whenever hes around other girls i get jealous and it sucks.. i told him that i liked him and said i dunno if it is because we did stuff together or not.. and he just said "aww" and i still have these feelings for him and to make it worse we hooked up again so my feelings are even stronger.. but i dont really want to go out with him.. but i just like him a lot.. sry its so long --please help-- =] x3
you do like him, because you're jealous when he's around other girls. if you don't want to feel like that, either make it official, or stop being a hypocrite when you use him as your boy toy. you can't expect him to be exclusive if you don't tell him you'd like to be.
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Ok, so I like this guy and hes my best friends other best friend. And so we havnt MET in person yet, but we talk to eachother a lot and its not dangerous or anything because you know, its my best friends other best friend. Anyways he had sex with this girl the past weekend....and hes 13. It hurt me, but now he says that he doesnt really like her anymore and that if he met me that he would probably like me. But I dont know if I would be able to deal with the fact that he had sex with another girl so recently. SO I guess what Im asking is what would any of you out there do?! Because I really need some help....thanks.
i think i would avoid talking to him for a while... i would be too afraid of getting used like he used that other girl. i don't think he seems like he's ready for the real world, but that could just be me. stay safe
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okay so i always fall for the "bad boys" but this time i like one of my old best friends, but the problem is he is a jerk, unreliable, and a stoner..... and like i dont know what to do, because we dont talk all that much anymore b/c he has a different group of friends than i do.. he liked me all of last year but i always said no when he asked me out because i didnt agree with him about the whole drug thing, and now i've realised that i liked him the whole time and still do and hes found another girlfriend and im just like.... sad. iono. should i tell him how i feel or not? i dont want to ruin his relationship.. sorry if thats kind of long
hun, you still fell for a 'bad boy' let him be. if it's meant to be, it will eventually find a way.
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Can you get pregnant from pre-cum?
yes.
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I feel lately that I am a fake Christian. I say I believe in Jesus, God, etc., but I just am not very knowledgable about Christianity on the whole. All I know is, when I'm talking to God, or the few times I go to church, I am very happy, because I do know that God and Jesus love me. And my family - they all believe and everything, we're just not the most religious people, I guess. But I realize that we need to truly accept Jesus into our hearts in order to enter Heaven, and I don't even feel truly like I've done that yet. I've never brought it up with my family, but I really want all of us to get to know God and Jesus so that I can expect to meet them in Heaven, because this is kind of a priority. But how do I do this without basically saying, "Okay, here we go, we are going to believe in this whether you like it or not"? I know that sometimes people get kind of offended because they think I force my ideas about religion upon them... Sorry for the long question - I rate!
you can't force them to believe in something. some day, they'll find god, he's always there, so they will revel in his graces and glory one day. as will you. you can't force religion upon others, and the same goes for yourself. you already know jesus loves you, and it's evident that you love him.
maybe try volunteering at your church if you feel like you need a stronger connection to god.
until then... keep on believing and try your hardest not to let your faith falter, in the world we live in it's one of the strongest stabilizing forces there is.
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i broke up with my ex about a month ago and i've gotten over him and i like this boy in my gym class but hes white and one of my friends say dont do it but shes white to. i dont really konw how to ask him Because im not that thin so how do i go about askin him out
build up some confidence, stop classifying people based on color, and follow your heart.
that ought to work out best, because if he cares about your weight or the color of your skin, he's not worth your time anyway. and you never know how wonderfully a relationship can be unless you try.
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i put a crap load of deoderant on every day before i go to school. i'm never hot or anything, but i always sweat in my arm pits, and i don't know how to cover it up. i can't wear a sweatshirt anymore, i get even hotter and it feels more gross. i don't know what to do! somebody help!
you're wearing deoderant, get anti-persperant/deodorant combo, so it's protection and it smells good
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I just moved to a new school and I'm finding it really hard to make some friends (i'm in 9th). and it just gets really lonley on the weekends because I don't like do anything. And my friends from my old school, I don't talk to them anymore. I don't know if there is any advice you can give me (besides that whole join a sport because I am doing a sport in the spring) and join a club because I am already in some and they arent very helpful with meeting people. Any advice??
ok, i'd totally take the advice of the people who said to just start talking to people. when i was in 7th grade, i met one of my best friends at our bus stop just because she said hi. it turned out she was in my basic ed class, and now we're juniors and still really close, with a great group of people.
good luck!
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i have a friend who cuts, she hasnt since the summer but today she came into shcool and told me one of my other really good friends and one of her really good friends and made us sweare we wouldnt tell anyone or shed kill us type of thing.....the whole thing is me and my friend dont know exactly how we should help her we know she wants the help but we cant figure out how to...is there anyone with any experience with this that has any sugestions that worked? were all really confsued as to how to solve this and we know that we cant force her to get help but sugest it and jsut be there for her and tlak to her but there has to be somthing more we can do
ignore her threats and tell someone. her life is more important than anger. she'll thank you for it eventually. there's other problems than cutting that she's refusing to deal with. she needs to deal with those and the best way tends to be with someone who really knows how to deal with it like a psychologist or a school counselor.
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Okay heres the thing i like this guy A LOT and were close friends and the other night he told me that he likes me too..which made me happy but the thing is right now we cant date because 3 of his best friends ( theyre girls ) like him and it would hurt them and start A LOT of drama...but he told me " i need u right here now i need u right now more than ever" and he told me i make him happy but its real hard ...and i dont know if he wants me to wait until everything cools down with his friends or should i try moving on n puttin interest in someone else....because i mean we both like eachother and we have chemistry....so what should i do!?
just... date him... how often do you have that kind of connection with someone? how often do guys say those kind of things to you?
the other girls will get over it. they don't really have a choice. if you want to be with him, don't put unnecessary strain on the relationship by delaying it. follow your heart instead of thinking logically about what 'should' be done. that doesn't matter. what matters is that you're both happy.
talk to the other girls if you need to. besides, you're the one he's chosen, they need to accept that
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My brother is gay and a lot of people will always mention about it. They make fun of me because he's gay.. They keeps sayin Ohhh Your brothers GaY!!! and sometime's it doesn't bother me.. but other times it does. Surprisingly, most people are cool with it and say he's the coolest person they ever met.. what should i do!?
learn to accept your brother. tell others that even if they don't accept your brother's lifestyle, there's no reason to voice their sheltered and oblivious opinion to you.
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ahh i bite my nails!!! its a really bad habit! i do it when im not paying attention anyone have any tips for stopping?
get arcrylics or something, that way your actual nails are inaccessible and you paid a ton for the things on your fingers, so you won't want to ruin it. hopefully it trains ya not to! gl
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My friend always cuts himself on his wrists and throat n evrything.. i always try talking to him and he say's he'll stop.. but he keeps doing it and cutting himself more. I don't know what els to do..if he has nobody to talk to he might kill himself..but what can i say that he might actually listen to!?
talk to his parents or a school counselor. he may get mad at you, but his life is more important than temporary anger.
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Ok here is the thing.. this guy at my school likes me right.. but i dont like him. he kept askin me out and i kept sayin no so the other day he wrote me this note and it said i really like u so do u wanna go out with me if u say no i will leave u alone .. and i felt really bad for him cuz he sounded sooo sad so i said yes.. but he keeps callin me and i keep giving him excuses that i cant talk on th phone. . but yesterday he called me and his friend started talkin to me and sakin me questions about him like if i love him or not and i said i dont know then they both got mad at me.. i really want to break up with him but dont know how to put it.. can some one PLEASE help me!
tell him that you weren't ready for the relationship that he wants, and that you're sorry but think it's best if you guys go your seperate ways... hope that helped
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