Question Posted Saturday December 4 2004, 11:52 pm
hey-
so i met this guy in a cafe and once i saw him on the stage, playing guitar and singing and sometimes babbling about how he hated bush, i knew i was in love with him. That was two years ago. And now, I'm just as in love with him and we're friends...not best friends but friends. I'm in high school and he's in college though, and i only see him in the summer and when he has christmas break and spring break and random weekends inbetween. He's four years older than me, and best friends with my brothers...and he's friends with some of my friends and we are completely compatible, and he's always teasing me about dating but i know he's just...well teasing. He once introduced me as his future wife ...he does the sweetest things like that. I know that he doesn't actually like me. I'm only 15 and he's 19. I guess what i'm asking is, should i wait until i'm in college to make a move but then live my life alone for four years? or should i tell him how i feel now and try to get over him?
addgurl answered Monday December 6 2004, 5:33 pm: tell him and get it over with and for get about him cuz my f bf shes 17 she got marryed @15 but started dateing her h. @ 12 and he was 17 now shes 17 ands hes 23 and has 3 kids and dosent look too happy so you may think it will last 4 ever but it wont [ addgurl's advice column | Ask addgurl A Question ]
PerkyPeacock answered Sunday December 5 2004, 10:29 pm: if you were to do anything sexual with him, it would be illegal.
Chelovek answered Sunday December 5 2004, 5:11 pm: i say stay friends with him, look for other guys, see how that goes, and if u dont have anyone til ur 18 then go for it. [ Chelovek's advice column | Ask Chelovek A Question ]
Striker6909 answered Sunday December 5 2004, 12:36 pm: oo wow... well technically... that age difference is illegal... but otherwise you should try to get over him because it's not fair to you that you have to wait for that long to actually be able to be compatible for him [ Striker6909's advice column | Ask Striker6909 A Question ]
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