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Age: 17
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Member Since: December 5, 2004
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in lunch i sit with my friends b/c my boyfriend basically never talked to me in lunch which is the only time i see him in school besides like 1 min. between classes where were walking and hes talkin to his friends usually, i ask him if in the last 5 mins of lunch if he'd come over and sit with me but he wont b/c he doesn tlike the ppls i sit with, which his friends and him talked and made fun of them b/c they are kinda punk rock and such. but i dont get it even when i ask him to go to the movise with me and my friends guys and girsl hes always like no lets not or sumthin. i tried to do things he likes like go to races and go snowmobiling but he wont even go to a small band concert in our town b/c he doesnt like the music he wont do ne thing for me why?? he says he still loves me and all that but i dont understand how i do all this for him but its so hard to get him to do sumthin i like for once..? (link)
dump the fuckhead...sounds like a shitty ass boyfriend that only wants you for sex or something like that


okay, the guy i really like just asked me out. yay. but the down side is hes punk. and im prep. i kno i kno it shouldnt matter. but if i go out with him i kno pplz are gonna look at me different, think im different and treat me different. i cant stand it. i really like this guy help me, should i or shouldnt i go out with him??? (link)
okay well if u really like him, then it shouldnt matter what he is. punks are people to. its whats on the inside that counts, and how he treats you


hey-
so i met this guy in a cafe and once i saw him on the stage, playing guitar and singing and sometimes babbling about how he hated bush, i knew i was in love with him. That was two years ago. And now, I'm just as in love with him and we're friends...not best friends but friends. I'm in high school and he's in college though, and i only see him in the summer and when he has christmas break and spring break and random weekends inbetween. He's four years older than me, and best friends with my brothers...and he's friends with some of my friends and we are completely compatible, and he's always teasing me about dating but i know he's just...well teasing. He once introduced me as his future wife ...he does the sweetest things like that. I know that he doesn't actually like me. I'm only 15 and he's 19. I guess what i'm asking is, should i wait until i'm in college to make a move but then live my life alone for four years? or should i tell him how i feel now and try to get over him? (link)
i say stay friends with him, look for other guys, see how that goes, and if u dont have anyone til ur 18 then go for it.


I hate stress! I have stress but thats not all! I'm a sophomore and 15. I hate my job but my parents wont let me quit. I hate school like every other person because its hard even though I try so hard. I dont have much of a best friend because shes to busy bragging about her life like if some like likes her or not, guy she wants, etc. Then she also acts like shes better then me and she makes every thing a compettion. Other thing I dont like or have stress about is guys my x-bf, I dont know how I feel about him if I like him or not. Last is not having a bf when I go somewhere I see COUPLEs everywhere. What makes me upset is guys say Im pretty and all then how come I dont have a bf?
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i need help by seeing what i can do to get a bf or at least get all this stress out of me and if I got someone like a guy to go out w me thats one less thing to worry about! well please Id really liek your help! (link)
hey i got the same problem, i dont really know what the deal is...you could prolly just lower your standards, like a guy that isnt the most popular, and all that, maybe an okay looking guy that sits alone sometimes,cuz if u got with a guy like that, he would have been lonely so then he wouldnt break up with u.


My boyfriend and me have been dating for a month. I was a virgin when we met he was surprised that I was. This weekend there was a party at my friend’s house and I invited him to come with me. We both got wasted and stoned. All night he was asking me to have sex and I kept saying no. I didn’t want to loose my virginity well I was drunk and stoned. I wanted to do it when I was ready as well. When I was in my friend room alone he came in and locked the door behind him again he asked me to have sex I was so drunk at that point I was about to pass out and so I said yes. So now I feel really bad is this a good thing? (link)
Technically, it is rape, anytime your having sex with someone when u are either on drugs or drunk, its rape...you should do something about it.




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