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me n my boyfriend talk on the phone...a lot! It's not like he doesn't want to talk to me because he is the one who calls me (most of the time) but i mean we are talking 24/7!! He has even passed up going to the movies to talk to me cause he said he would be bored without me and without someone to hold on to. My problem is, I think we talk a little bit to much on the phone! i mean i stay up til around 3:00am talking to him then he has to go to work, and sometimes on his way to work we talk on his cell phone. I think i am not getting enough sleep, but i really love talking to him and he does too! what should i do???? (if it helps im 14/f n hes 15 august 10th)
You are both getting too attached to each other. I've seen this happen in my friend's relationship, and sometimes it ended with a breakup. Try to spend more time together in real life. That way, you won't feel like you are talking on the phone too much.
Ok, this might sound a little weird.. but my vagina keeps breaking out! I don't know what it is.. but there are all these little bumps on it. Sometimes i even get in grown hairs. To top all that off it smells HORRIBLE! My boyfriend went down on me last week and he almost threw up! What should I do?!? HELP!!
Do you shave down there? That's probably the reason for the bumps. If you don't shave, you might just be allergic to the soap you use, so switch brands. As for the smell, that's not good. You might have an infection, so you should see your doctor.
I'm 13/f . I'm getting a little sick of all the girliness of all of my other schoolmates and friends . I want to get to know more guys better , but ONLY as friends . I don't want them to get the wrong impression when i talk to them ( ie: flirting with them . ) One of my friends say i do this alot , but i don't do it on purpose , it's a subconcious thing . I also go to a girls school . Any ideas on how to get to know more guys ?
Learn to skateboard. Hang out at the rinks. Most guys who see girls that skate will see her as a friend, not a girlfriend (although that's possible). Also, if you are in high school, maybe take auto shop (If it interests you. Don't change your schedule around just to meet people). Above all, just have an easy going attitude. Guys hate girls who are always uptight and in their business.
Anyone have any suggestions on playing wind instruments comfortably with braces?
Did you just get braces? I play saxaphone, and when I first got braces, it did hurt. I had my mom write a note to my band teacher, and that got me out of playing for a while. After about a week, the pain completely goes away, and you can play normally.
ok, i've been gettin vaginal discharge, and i haven't started my period, is this normal to get it before u start your period, does this mean that i'll soon be gettin my period, and if so are there any other ways to kno that your period mite be startin??
please help
if it makes a difference im 13/f/nc and ill be 14 in the 1st wk of Nov.
thx a bunch!!
~*~*~*wondering*~*~*~
Yup, it's completely normal. Because of your age, it could mean that you'll be starting in 4-6 months or so.
it's my boyfriend's birthday in a couple of weeks and i have no idea what to get him! does anyone have any ideas? it can't be rude or too adult we're only 13. Thanks!
I would make him a mixed CD with his favorite songs on it, or buy him a tee shirt with something funny written on it. Candy always works too.
hey ..ive got a real prob ...my friend lied to me about having breast cancer not once but twice and i got so fed up with her and i told her that i didnt wanna be friends with her if shes gunna lie to me ! and she said that she was going into operation to have things checked ! but a couple days later i asked her how she was and wut she was doing this week and she said working all week when she first told me that she was going to have an operation! like i said u knoe wut i dont wanna hang out with sumone whos gunna lie to me constantly ! and i hung up on her ! was i too harsh ? plz help should i try to patch things up with her !
Lieing about having cancer is really bad, and not funny at all. If it was just a little lie, then you could let it go. But to tell huge lies like this (you were probably very upset when she told you) is just not something real friends do. Give her one more chance, and the next time she lies, tell her the friendship is over.
13/f- heyy!! does have a tattoo on their left shoulder??? if s0o does it hurt when you got it done, cause im gettin one sometime this year.. and im really scared that its gonna hurt really badd :'(!!!!
If your 13, you can't get a tattoo this year.
That said, yes, it hurts a lot, knowing people who have one. It's like being jabbed with needles over and over.
Hey...
This is an awkward question...but when do you start to shave"down there..?" Everyone says its not necessary but ..I am joining swim team this year as a freshman..and idk.....thanks.....(oh and im 14 gonna be 15 in october)
Just shave the bikini line. It's not necessary to shave the whole thing. Waxing is a better option anyway, because that way you won't get red bumpy ingrown hairs.
I am a Christian girl. My parents like to go to a supposedly "Christian Phycic" He says that God gives him his powers. I dont really believe in ANYTHING a phycic says, but my parents do. Is this phycic a sin in God's eyes? Please help me understand!
The psychic is sinning by lieing to your parents and stealing if he is making them pay for the readings.
Should i shave my pubes? Does it hurt or leave bad razor burn? Does it look funy?
No, you shouldn't shave. It gives you ingrown hairs which hurt and itch and leave red bumps. And having bumps does look weird. Just shave your bikini line. Or better yet, wax it, because that way, you won't get any bumps.
my bff loves to wear pants then a skirt over. its so weird and ugly but she loves it and wont listen when i tell her she shouldnt do that...do you have another option instead of wearing that tacky stuff?
My best friend does the same thing. I think it's cool. You might not, but the truth is, if you were a real friend, you would leave her alone and focus on who she is instead of what she wears. Is she a mean, horrible person? It doesn't sound like it. It's her choice what she wears.
My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks and I LOVE doing EVERYTHING with him! We got dancing, to the movies and parties but my best friend wants to do things with me too... I just dont want to do those things with her because I have Jay! I also don't want to lose my best friend because shes GREAT to talk to! What do I do?! Thanks!!
Well, it's kind of hurtful to ignore your best friend for your boyfriend. Talk to your friend on the phone a lot. Hook your best friend up with someone. That way, you and your boyfriend can go on double dates with your friend and her boyfriend.
Okay hi its barb(ara) agian.I go 2 a cathcloic school n i dunt mean 2 sound like i dunt belive in god but i do.I mean still we are beliving in a ghost thats over 4000 years old.But it seems like GOd Is forcing us 2 belive in him n make him seem LIKE HE IS POWERFUL only HE is great.Its like yu nver write the word Bob in capitals just cuz he has a cool name.I mean y should god be all powerful n y should we honer him he seems like an electrain trying 2 burn out the light.I have nothing agaisnt god but what am i beling in?I have no clue about it.Our school forces us 2 be more cathcloic and it seems the more they do that the worse the kids become.Kids in 2nd grade at my cathcloic school is cursing.We r starting fights.It seems the more they take it away the more we do it.Y kant they just leave us alone????-Catholic and Unfaithful
I feel the same way you feel a lot of the time, but I don't go to a catholic school. No one can force you to believe something that you don't want to believe. That's not how religion works. As you get older, your beliefs may change. For now, tell your parents that you feel like you are being forced to believe at your school. What they're doing almost seems like brainwashing.
There's this one guy that I'd do anything for. It's crazy, yes. But I love him so much...it hurts. And he never talks to me. Never pays any attention to me. But I can't tell him how I feel, he's too cool. He intimidates me. And I don't know what to do, because all I want to do...is be with him.
If he doesn't pay attention to you, why do you love him? It's probably just a crush then, and you will get over it.
MY daughter is 3 yrs old and she goes to Day-Care. Last week-end i asked her best friends mum if her daughter cld come ansd spend the week-end at our house and she agreed with condition that the next coming week-end my dauhter goes over to her place. now as the week-End draws nearer i tend to wish i had'nt agreed to the condition. I know it is not fair as her daughter did come to my place. I have never once been apart from my baby and if i was going out i always left her with family+My daughter is very personal. What sld i do!!!!THE WEEK-END IS GETTING NEARER
As your daughter gets older, you're going to have to face this problem sooner or later. By keeping your daughter locked up and away from her friends, it's just going to damage your relationship later on. I think you are right that you shouldn't send her to her friend's house for the whole weekend; that's a long time for a 3 year old to be away from her mother. What I would do it have a play date this weekend where both you and the other mother could get together and both of your daughters could play together.
I have this friend with really dark hair on her arms and I think it bothers her. Well we got in this fight about how like she thinks I am bossy and I think she is slutty. Well even though we aren't friends anymore I still know her, she goes to my school and is in some of my classes in 9th grade. I ant to help her with her arms because I think she feels really insicure (or however you spell it. I know she doesn't want to wax it and I think shaving arms is dumb,so is there anyway she can dye or bleach her arm hair blonde-PERMANENTELY!!!! For like ever so she will feel better I hope. I still think she is slutty but I care. Please help my friend ASAP! B/cuz theres a rumor that she is moving to Colorado and I live in Nevada. Please hurry and help b4 she moves!!!! Thanks an much love!
Sincerely,
Lilly
If she squeezes lemon juice on the hairs, that would probably naturaly lighten them. It might not last forever, but it would last for a while.
i'm 15, and ever since 420 i started smoking weed. i want to stop but it seems like eveyrtime i try to more coms around and i'm like no i'l stop but i odnt. i do want to thouhg but idk what todo.. i really like it
Try to stop hanging out with the people who give you pot. It's really tempting to do it when you see other people smoking and they offer you some. Also, you have to buy the pot, so don't bring any money with you, and you can't buy it. Only bring what you need to buy lunch, and no extra. Making the desicion to quit is a step in the right direction.
One of my best guy friends, Rob, is being really stupid and immature for lame reasons. Every time I start liking another guy and think of maybe dating him, Rob starts getting really distant and annoyed even if I don't do anything or talk about the other guy. If I so much as have a conversation with a guy that doesn't really hang out with our group much, he starts avoiding me and giving me the silent treatment. I'm 15 and a really independent girl so I normally don't put up with this crap typically but apart from his jealousy, he's extrememly fun to hang out with. But this is getting really old. Can you give me some advice on what I can do……or if I should do anything?
Rob likes you, and is being overprotective. This gets annoying FAST. If you like him, now is the time to say so. If you don't, then now is the time to tel him that he is a great friend, but he needs to back off because you can take care of yourself.
I had a boyfriend and we were together for 9 months..we had sex and I don't think I was ready. I was one of those girls who wanted to stay a virgen until I was married...and now its gone....should I regret it? B/c I feel like I do, but I know there isn't anything I can do about it now...
It's alright to regret it, and it's normal. You can't be a virgin again, but when you meet the person you are ready to marry, it will feel right, and you will be happy.