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hey well i thought it was a good age but i have a question well i don't know people with kids so i want to babysite so what do i do to get my name out there to people

Hey, my name is Faith42 and thanks for asking me a
question , and I hope I can help. If your mother
or father knows people they can just bring it up
to them that your able to babysit. That is the best
way , my older brother took classes to babysit me
They said not to advertise in papers of the reasons
below.
1.Malesters
2.sexual pretedars
3.child abductors

I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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How do you french kiss really good?? and how do you make out and kiss really good?? i know it is based on what your partner likes, i looked on google but nothing really helped. So please tell me everything you know!! haha

Hey, my name is Faith42 and thanks for asking me this question and I appreciate it, and I hope I can
help. Well, to french kiss realy good I think when
you kiss keep your tongue in his mouth as long as
you can. To makeout good I think you should keep
kissing and touching his face or waist. Thats what
I would do!
I hope I helped,
Faith42;)

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So me and this kid have been on and off for about 10 monthes now. We recently started going out and over april vacation we had sex. It was both are first time. I was scared that i was going to regret it or that'd we break up and that it would break my heart, but he comforted me and told me that we love eachother and that were never going to break up. An excact week after we had sex he breaks up with me. I miss him more than ever and I'm so hurt that he would do that to me. But i know it time to move on. How do i get over him?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you.
It's hard to get over someone that you are intimate
with , it's ok if you feel sucky for a while thats
what every one feels like when they have broken up.
I think he has not have been a good guy for you if
he told you that your in love and you both won't
ever break up. My suggestion is don't let him back
into a relationship with you. For now just stay at
home and stay confortable , put on your confortable
pj's and take a bubble bath! As you get my point
just be yourseleve and your feel better soon.
I hope you feel better,
Faith42

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14/M

Is it wrong to make out 1 week after the first date?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you,
It pretty depends how you are moving with your partner, and how your relation is with her. So, if
you feel it's ok, and your girlfriend thinks it's
ok try it!

I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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Im 14/f and lately Ive been changing alot of things in my personal space. I just painted my room a very nice, prelude blue and i got a white comforter with blue/green and pink polka dots on it. The thing is I still want to do more with my room. Any small ideas that could help spice my room up a bit? Maybe decorating ideas, or crafts or something. I want it to kind of be like me.. here is a little about me:

I am a girl and my favourite color is blue. Im pretty outgoing but when im alone I like to relax and think alot. I like to read, write and listen to music. I also LOVE taking pictures with my friends. I like when things look fresh. I also play volleyball and Im a social person so I cant get too crowded cause I have alot of people coming over. Any ideas?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help you
maybe you can get a tack bourd to hang on your wall
with the outside of the bourd a type of blue that
would match your room ! Then put pictures of you and
your friends on them or whatever you like! My friend
when she was going to redecorate her room she had
thease blue butterflies that were very pretty maybe
put something like that on your wall if you like that stuff!

I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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Okay so i want a new purse. i'm 13 going on 14 in june. i'm in 8th grade going on 9th in augest. so i really don't care if its desighner or not. i think of it as, if its cute who cares who made it! anyway does anyone any cute bags?

direct links would be helpful

oh and price isn't a prob.

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help you
Here are some sites that I thought had cute purses!

http://www.Zappos.com/n/p/p/74072o2/c/.html

http:www.Zappos.com/n/p/p/7386533/c/2026.html

I'am sorry they are long and I hope the site comes
up for you!

I like both of these purses!
I hope one of them satisfies you!
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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Is dating long distance a good idea ?

i have a bf who lives in dover and i live in norwich

Im 16 and he is 18

my friends say its a bad idea and that i shouldnt but l have been happy ever since but now im having doubts that it was a bad idea

i dont know cos i havent spoke to him in a week could he being cheating on me?

could i be just some girl to flirt with?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
Well, you don't always know has he been a true boyfriend to you!If he has you don't realy have anything to worry about! If he hasen't maybe you
should break it off! Most of all if you are going
to worry ,you should break it off because you won't
have a real good relationship any way . So, if he
hasn't talked to you longer than a week I think you
should be friends ! Hey, it won't hurt to be pen
pals!:)
Thanks for asking me a Question!!!

Faith42:)

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I am friends with this girl, and all the time she cancels on me. We will make plans like a week in advance or spur of the moment and everytime it seems like she cancels. She always seems to be able to hang out with other people though. She comes from a low income family but we are good friends and she knows she can ask me for money. It is just getting really annoying how she cancels everytime. should i say something to her?? she obviously thinks this is not a problem and for everyone in the group, we are all getting annoyed. but she will turn around to her other friend and blame it all on us?!?! what should i do.

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
I realy think you should talk to her just you and her . Does she ever call in advance to say if she
can't come? If she does she would want you know
and for you not to be mad at her! If she doesn't
I think she just realy wants to do her own thing .
You should ask her don't be like "Why do you keep
canceling our days to hangout"! Just have a good
covosation! Communication pretty much works out with
friends!
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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Hey. I need some advice. I appear to be very aloof and tend to get attitudes with people easily, even if its not them I'm mad at. When i talk to people, it sounds like i dont care. I dont even make eye contact with people. BUT, so far nobody's complained about these things (unless they do it behind my back) and its important to be yourself, right? sometimes i try to hide this side of me because i'm worried that people will think i'm mean, but at the same time, thats who i am. what should i do? thanks

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
all you have to do is think before you say to make sure you are not acedentaly (sorry for my spelling)
saying something that could be mean in other peoples ways ! It's okay you will eventualy not
feel this way! If know one realy complained that
must mean you aren't acedenataly acting like you don't care! sometimes everyone does that and they
don't know it. It happens to me once in a while!
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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I have an issue when it comes to eating.

Recently, within the last 2 or 3 months, I've noticed that I'm not eating breakfast or lunch. I'm just not hungry in the morning and I was always taught not to eat if you're not hungry. Just as I was always taught not to force myself to finish a meal if I'm full ... that it was unhealthy to "forcefeed" myself.

Even if I eat the smallest thing (I've tried to eat granola bars for breakfast and a PB&J for lunch) I get that queasy, I-just-ate-too-much feeling. Then I feel as if I may get sick.

So, what do I do about this?
I don't want to starve my body
The worst part is when I get home from school around 5ish (I have after school activities every day) I end up being hungry to the point of eating so much it compares to lunch and dinner. I don't eat more than a small snack after that (such as a granola bar) and before going to bed (usually around 10 or 11).
The process repeats itself until 5 or so at night. Basically, I don't eat anything from 10pm-5pm.
How do I fix this without feeling nautious when I do eat?

I know the reason my body gets the starvation feeling in the late afternoon is because I haven't eaten, but I can't bring myself to eat in the morning because of how sick the food makes me feel.
I'm not dehydrated or anything - I drink anywhere from 3-5 water bottles a day, sometimes more...
I know that I have a problem, I just don't know how to fix it.

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
I use to feel that way to when I was younger though!
What I did is I ate some fruit in the morning and
toast with butter! It always worked for me ! my mom
always packed me a lunch it was light but enough
to keep me full! It was a sandwich, gronaola bar,
and some chips ! Just make sure you eat something
so you don't get sick!
I hope I helped,

Faith42:)

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i really like my legs, like im not afraid to show them off. well my thighs yes but megs no. but this year, you can see i guess what would be the pores? i shaved last night cause its nice today and once again they just got a little better but by the end of the day they are back to normal. it it because of the razoe (its not like razor burn or anything, its like under the skin and i dont feel them) and its only fom my knees down. what cann i do to get rid of it or prevent it next time i shave

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
Do you use shaving cream? That might help you or
you can put this great lotion on it's called Jergins! Or you can pretty much put any lotion on.
I say lotion because it moisturises your skin and
keeps it from dry scaly hands ! Thats what I use
Jergins it helps alot!
I hope I Helped,
Faith42

p.s.
You can also use this other great lotion called
Gold Bond.

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k im 15 & i wear tampons but everytime i wear it i need 2 wear a pad 2 but it still leaks i wear a regular absorbancy does this mean that my tampons sucks or that i need a bigger absorbancy

Hey, my name is faith42 and I think I can help you
you will never know intil you try a new brand how
about you get the same absorbancy in a diffrent brand.If that doesen't work get a better type of
tapons that holds a good amount of time!

I hope I helped,
Faith42:) :0

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Okay so it was April Fools...keep that in mind.

My mom is always pressuring my sister and I about losing weight...and always calling us fat and she makes us feel horrible. We're not over weight either. I'm 5'4 and I weigh 147, and she's 5'8 and she weighs 160.

It was April first and my sister said she wanted me to walk to walmart with her so she could steal some diet pills. I thought it was an April fools joke. We would walk over there go to the diet isle and she would say April fools.

So we got to walmart and walked over to where all the diet pills are. And she picked them up and I asked her what she was doing. She said "I told you" and she walked away. There was security cameras there...you could see youself in them.

So she walked away and I followed her and I tryed to get her to admit it was an April Fools joke but it wasn't...it really wasn't. She went to the dressing room, took the pills out, put them in her pocket and put the bottle back where it belonged. I couldn't stop her...and I couldn't tell anyone...she's my sister...I tryed to convince her not to.

(There are security cameras and telivisions in every isle)

Anyway we got out of walmart and I guess no one saw...but I'm freaking out. I know the security cameras got all that footage because we could see ourselves on the screen. It's been a week since then, what are the chances of getting caught...

I really did get dragged into this...I've never done anything like this before and I never want to as long as I live. What do you guys think the chances are we get caught? I'm really worried.

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
First you Tell your sister she was very wrong
to steal those pills. Second chill if they would
of caught you they would of caught you right on spot
or phone you the next day! I'am sorry that you got
into that mess! It wasn't your fault at all you
thought it was a joke! Also their is some blame for your mother to! If she didn't call you guys fat
and made you feel horrible you guys wouldn't of got
into this situation!you and your sister don't have to take all the blame. Sorry , but the most blame
falls on your sister and your mom!

I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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i git really bad cramps at school from my period.
what can i do?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
At my school they let you bring in medicine if it's
ok with your guardian they say it's ok ! You can
bring in some motrin, Pepto bismol, Ibiprofin.
I hope I help,
Faith42:)

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Yesterday I got a new kitten. I already have one cat, female, she had a litter about 4 years ago (spayed now)and lived with one of her kittens for 3 years. (always got along fine)she was an awesome mom. I know it is natural for her to be territorial with this new kitten, but she is growling and hissing all day. just wondering how long you think it will take her to warm up to the new kitten,male, and anything i can do to speed up the process

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
My cat Gizmoe he moved in a year ago and my other
cat that lived with my family and I for ever was so
jealouse she didn't stay in the same room as Gizmoe!
It took about 4 weeks or half of a month intil
they got along. You can't realy do much to speed up
the process they have to get along on there own!

I hope I helped
Faith42:)

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15.f

i have two guinea pigs, and one of them is suffering from dandruff. like, it's on his lower back area and he's always scratching himself. well we took him to the vet and the vet gave him medicine taking by mouth once every ten days. there's only two doses. i gave the first dose on april 2nd, except the itching hasn't subsided. he has a couple bald spots -- nothing major -- and he has like really big clumps of dandruff and he gets reallyyy jittery if i even touch his dandruff as if though i'm tickling him.

http://en.allexperts.com/q/Guinea-Pigs-1574/Guinea-Pig-thick-dandruff.htm

i'm having the exact same problem.

so i wanted to know.. in addition to the medicine, can i give him a little human lotion (fragrance free, REALLY simple stuff) just on the areas that are really dandruff-y? like lubriderm daily moisture? not even HALF a fingertip full? should i give him a bath? i want him to stop itching himself cause he sheds a lot when he scratches himself. also, a bath with just water would make his fur gross. should i give him human shampoo? should we ask the vet if we should buy him guinea pig dandruff shampoo? my parents think i should wait until the full dose is over, but it doesn't seem to be helpingg yet. just something to help him out in the meantime as the medicine starts to kick in.

i think the vet checked for mites but didn't find anything. is this normal?? can someone help me?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I'll do the best I can
to help you! My friend has a guinia pig she sometimes gives hers (Patches) a bath with normol
shampoo it doesn't do anything but MAKE SURE YOU
DON'T GET IT IN THE PETS EYES!!!!! It will cause
problems! My friend got some in hers eyes and her
pets eyes were red for 3 days!I think it would be
ok for you to put a little bit of lotion on
your little piggy! But you should wait a week!
I hope I helped!
Faith42:)

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hii-- 14/m i just got a new girlfriend about a week ago and everything is going great...the only thing is that im very outgoing and she is shy soo im not really getting any hints to go further or anything...if your shy, what do you do when you want ur gf/bf to go further? any tips on how to treat her so i dont make her uncomfy or something?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
don't push her or anything further till she is ready. If you do she will probably go along because
she probably don't want to break up with you. Then
when you keep pushing she won't go along with it
any more. It will ruin your relationships and your
girlfriends relationships. So, respect her ways of
doing things , and she will respect your ways of doing things!
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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Okay this is a long story, but bear with me...
I was best friends with a girl (we'll call her S) for eight years. Over the summer, S got with her boyfriend (We'll call him J). They started leaving me out, and the only time i got to talk to S is when her bf went away to see his dad like, once every two months. So i got in a HUGE argument with S, and we havent talked since. But now, i've become really close friends with another girl (Who we'll call R) that S doesn't like. So now S is making R's life miserable because she is jealous that i'm not her friend, but R's. It's not my fault, and S knows it, she just doesnt want ppl to be happy if she's not...what do i do to make R happy and S leave all of my friends alone?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
you can't help that S is jealous. you haqve to talk
to your friends you can't be friends with people who
are always jealous. You need to be brave and tell
S if she is mean to your friend you have to leave us
alone all together.

I hope I helped,

Faith42:)

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I've recently been trying to lose weight but I drink a lot of water. Like I'll drink a lot of water and I feel fat and stuff. Does water make you gain weight for a period of time or something because of the weight of all the water? I don't know I feel full and stuff when I drink a lot of water.

HEy, my name is Faih42 and I think I can help you
if you feel stong that you like him and if he was
your friend it wouldn't mess up your friendship.
you should tell him because if he likes you he
might be wating on you to tell him you like him!
I hope I helped!

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What hurts more. Getting your cartilage or ear lobe peirced?

Hey, my name is Faith42 and i think I can help you
your cartilage hurts worse than the ear lobe. My
mom got her cartilarge done she said as you go up
the ear it hurts worse!

I hope I helped,
Faith42:)

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