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So me and this kid have been on and off for about 10 monthes now. We recently started going out and over april vacation we had sex. It was both are first time. I was scared that i was going to regret it or that'd we break up and that it would break my heart, but he comforted me and told me that we love eachother and that were never going to break up. An excact week after we had sex he breaks up with me. I miss him more than ever and I'm so hurt that he would do that to me. But i know it time to move on. How do i get over him?
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Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you.
It's hard to get over someone that you are intimate
with , it's ok if you feel sucky for a while thats
what every one feels like when they have broken up.
I think he has not have been a good guy for you if
he told you that your in love and you both won't
ever break up. My suggestion is don't let him back
into a relationship with you. For now just stay at
home and stay confortable , put on your confortable
pj's and take a bubble bath! As you get my point
just be yourseleve and your feel better soon.
I hope you feel better,
Faith42
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gosh i fear this as well... so i i know where youre coming from.. well first off... if he does love you, he wont jump into another relationship so quickly. and if he does and they break up, shows he's not over you, which is a good thing. so that means...dont jump into a brand new relationship trying to get over him... half the time it doesnt help.. and this will start a little jealousy game between you and your ex.. if you want to get over him i think it's up to you and time... focus on other things. it might ound corny... but focus on school. friends. the positive things in your life. and look at this as a learning experiance... good luck mama =]
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cry..
thats what i do to get over a guy. i just find a really sad song and listen to it over and over and just cry my eyes out til i fall asleep. Like over it-katherine mcphee...its kind of a different story in the song but it still works ;]
or you could just write him a letter but not give it to him.
I noticed you said on and off...i wouldnt get back on with him because it sounds like he only used you for sex. and once he got what he wanted he left. You can do better
-hayley
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