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Its not even my fault
Okay this is a long story, but bear with me...
I was best friends with a girl (we'll call her S) for eight years. Over the summer, S got with her boyfriend (We'll call him J). They started leaving me out, and the only time i got to talk to S is when her bf went away to see his dad like, once every two months. So i got in a HUGE argument with S, and we havent talked since. But now, i've become really close friends with another girl (Who we'll call R) that S doesn't like. So now S is making R's life miserable because she is jealous that i'm not her friend, but R's. It's not my fault, and S knows it, she just doesnt want ppl to be happy if she's not...what do i do to make R happy and S leave all of my friends alone?
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This often happens as you grow up, you lose friends and gain others. Also as you grow up and get boyfriends, it becomes difficult to involve your friends in it. Talk to S about it and let her know that now that she has a boyfriend she has been leaving you out and so you decided to get a friend you could hang out with while she is with him. Let her know that R isn't trying to take her place and that you still want to remain friends with her.
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Hey, my name is Faith42 and I think I can help you
you can't help that S is jealous. you haqve to talk
to your friends you can't be friends with people who
are always jealous. You need to be brave and tell
S if she is mean to your friend you have to leave us
alone all together.
I hope I helped,
Faith42:)
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You've been friends for 8 years? Why can't you be friends for 8 more? That's a long friendship to just throw away. So I'd have a talk with S and try to make up with her.
If you can't..Honestly? What I would do is give S a note or write her a letter or e-mail sincerely saying that "You ignored me, you left me out...So now you're with your boyfriend and I'm with my friend. I don't go against your boyfriend so I'd appreciate it if you stayed away from my friends. Because right now, you're being extremely unfair and nasty." You can add in how you feel about her...how she's being a selfish wretch and all. But don't directly insult her. If she's smart, she'll get the subtle warning; just don't threaten her. And honestly..who is this S girl to be making R's life miserable? What does she do? Turn the whole school against her? You can't protect R fully, because you're not her mom or anything. Tell her to ignore S completely.
Good luck =|
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