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i dont give attention?
things are good with my boy
we're crazy about each other
but like
i cant bring myself to say "hey" to him online
he always starts the convo
which is fine
but like
i want HIM to come to me
always.
does anyone have any thoughts on this??
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Thoughts: It's a bit selfish.
A lot of people want to be 'chased' and not to chase, but like Mangy said relationships are a two-way street.
If you can't give as good as you get, sooner or later your boy will start feeling unapperciated and resentful. If you can't approach him, how will you solve conflicts? How will you ask for what you need? How will you show him you are excited to speak to him? How will he know?
Just remember you aren't the only one with 'needs'. Be senstive and polite to him.
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i think its good that you want him to come to you also but i think the fact of the matter is what if he wants you to come to him for a change.
maybe you should start the convo every once in a while so it shows him that you care to talk to him and you care as much as he does
you know ?
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Well, relationships are a two-way street.
It's give and take.
Yah, you like for him to come to you. Makes you feel all good and cared about. Right? That's your take and his give. Don't you figure he'd like to have that feeling about you, too? That's your give and his take.
Bring yourself to say "Hey" to him, too. This relationship is about him and his wants, needs, and feelings, too.
Make sense?
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