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Q: im 5'6 100 lbs. A lot of people think i'm too skinny and others even go around saying i'm anorexic, which i'm not. I don't care that people say that, but i'm wondering if i'm underweight. Is that too skinny?
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well it definitely depends on your body type. some people are built smaller than others. it wouldn't hurt to gain a few pounds so i dont think you have anything to really worry about. if you have further questions i would consult your doctor.
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its like a cross between punk and goth. some people stereotype emos to always cut their wrists but thats not true at all! people who are emo like emo music (most of the time) and they are just people. some people also say that emos hate life so its kind of an unsteady word. but i dont think you should walk around calling people emo.
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Q: Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex soon. Neither of us have ever done it before, so we have no idea what you are supposed to do without getting hurt. I am 13 and he is 14, do you think that it to early, even with protection?? Any advice would help.
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well when you're pregnant a few weeks down the road you tell me... was having sex at 13 a smart choice? im 13 and i have never had sex and i think you should probably wait. i mean having sex that young would 1. make your parents very mad 2.possibly get you pregnant 3.get you an STD and plus... if you do it once and nothing happens, you will most likely do it again and again.
My advice: wait a longgg time.
for another reason chek out this Tyler Perry Stage Play: I can do bad all by myself it is very inspirational.
hope i helped.
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Q: I am 13 and latly i have been wanting sex but it is all so confusing!Is 13 to yong to have sex, and when does the bible say it is ok?Is masterbation a sin my friend said in the bible if forbids it, and is it ok if you already have done but you didn't know it was a sin at the time?Some people say that masterbation it totaly natural and other say it is sick and wrong and I don't know what to beleave >
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yeahh dude thirteen?? thats crazy and way too young. its just your hormones zooming through the roof. thats why masterbation is there to take care of those urges. if your a girl then i think i should tell you that the bible says that MEN cant masturbate. it says nothing about girls not being able to. it is safe and natural. so you just have to follow what you think is right.
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Q: There is a song called My milkshake by Kellis and I found a song on myspace that says the same thing but its like a rock song and the layout site that has it
has it hid so no one can take it and its killing me she'll post what it is when she gets done using it but I've been waitin for days to find out what it is & she ain't took it off.. her website is
http://www.myspace.com/freek_kiss_lyts
You'll have to add her as a friend first I think..I've looked on google and everything.. no luck..thanks for helping me find out what it is =)
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its called My Milkshake by Goodnightnurse and you can get it by going to myspace.com/goodnightnurse and adding it.
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Q: So I'm gay not like flaming gay, but gay none the less... Last night was our homecoming dance and I brought a date which was a guy... I slow danced with him and everything and apparently everyone was looking at us because my friends warned me that I might get some shit on monday about it... what should I do?
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who cares what they say?
i am so glad that you arent ashamed to be gay.
some people are against gays but those people are just gonna have to deal.
stick with your group of friends. and eventually it will die down.
keep your confidence up and you should be fine.
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Q: ok so i turned 16 in august and my boyfriend is about to turn 18 in december...so will that make us...like illegal?
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well yeah i guess but only if you like tell on him. you could keep it a secret or just wait to be safe.
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Q: Well, I have decided that I do NOT want to masturbate. But it gets hard to control my hormones. Is there any way to help me keep my mind off of them or control them better? It would really help because I can't get to sleep because of them!
Thank you in advance.
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my friend told me that she doesnt want to either so whenever she gets urges she goes to the bathroom, eats something small and reads. it helps according to her.
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Q: I broke up with my bf of nearly 4 years about 3 months ago. He was emotionally and mentally abusive to me. I had been in councelling for a while and I thought I had nearly got over him. Well yesterday I decided to sign up for a dating site. I actually received about 4 responses to my profile. Instead of contacting these guys that wrote me; I got freaked out and deleted my profile. Does anyone know what is wrong with me?
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you're scarred and scared. but dont worry. over time you will get over it. my friend went through the same thing. if you do date online it can be dangerous, i suggest that you suggest a group date so you and one of your friends can be there if this guy tries to hurt you. good luck if you need to talk email me at princess.milena@gmail.com
good luck!
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Q: well i like my cousin and he likes me to and i like him because he is really sweet to me and treats me different than other guys. and he lives in mexico and i live in california so as u can see we arent really close cousins. the first time i met him was 2 summers ago and from then we liked each other but we know we can't b together but we want to be together.
wat should i do ?
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well, love, i would hold back. You can feel free to like him and you guys can like stay really good friends, but i mean would your parents like it if they found out you and your cousin were together? and if you had sex with him, well in my opinion that would be gross. the most i think you should do is kiss (i still think that would be gross) but do whatever you want.
good luckk!
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Q: Hey:)
There are a couple of videos on youtube that I love, and I was wondering if it's possible to print out certain scenes from them? Maybe if I paused them on the scenes I like and hit 'print'?
Hmmmm....I've got no idea!
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yeah you could do that, or if that didnt work you could click the button on your keyboard that says, "Print screen" and then go to paint and click on paste and select the scene and print that out. if you need help email me at princess.milena@gmail.com
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Q: hi im a 15 year old guy and i like this 15 year old girl...ive been doin alot of other stuff this summer and i keep thinking about her and i cant seem to get my mind off her...ive told her in the past how i feel but she says she wants to remain great friends and that she doesnt see us like that...ive told her nothing will ever come between us but she sayd she just doesnt kno then she doesnt get back to me on how she feels and i dont want to press the issue i havent said anything to her about it in about 6 months and i want to try again but how do i tell her?
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do some really flattering like for example think O.C. season 1 where this kid Seth asks out Summer by standing on a coffee cart. It's a great show of confidence. If she says no just undertsand that she doesnt want to be together. Accept that and dont act all sad she will feel terrible.
good luckk!
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Q: I'm a 13 year old girl going into 8th grade, and i am getting a new backpack. I was wondering if an llbean one would be out of style or babyish? If so what other kind do you reccomend, and if not, what color should I get. I was thinking pink but is that kind of childish?
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im thirteen too and i have LLBean! i like it because of its durability. if you liek pink then go for it! i dont think its babyish because if it is, what other kind is there to get? if it carries your books and you like it, then buy it hey who knows you could start a new trend!
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Q: I'm confused. 15/f
My ex girlfriend is flirting with me [she has a boyfriend though] and she keeps saying she wants to kiss me. Knowing her... she would. But she told me she doesn't want me to get the wrong idea. Then she goes on about having dreams about me and missing me, missing the things we did. and then there's things about "If only I didn't mess up" [when she broke up with me] "I will always have a thing for you" "Can i steal a kiss?" A part of me wants to kiss her but I can't because I refuse to do that when she has a boyfriend.. I dont know what to do. She says she doesn't want to lead me on but she's already doing that. What can I do? Just ignore the things she says?
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jsut to let you know, you're being a really good person for not kissing her. heres some advice: DONT DO IT! her boyfriend WILL find out. i know girls just like her who always like to start drama and want everything to themselves. ignore her or talk to her about it. just dont do anything with her besides talk. and dont let her walk all over you either.
good luck,
milennnnnnna
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Q: well i have dirty blonde hair and its naturally straight, stick straight. i mean i like it and all but sometimes i get bored with it.
i scrunch it sometimes, or put it in a clip but what are some other ways i can put it??
any help is appreciated, thanks! =]
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what i like doing is the on purpose waves look. ok so dont wash your hair for at least one day. blow dry it a little (it should already be dry but this gets it tossled) then take a thick barrelled curling iron and curl two to three inches from the ends of your hair. do this all over your head and then blow dry it again to make it look natural.
its beautiful if done correctly!
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Q: I did exercises, stretches and everything but i still cant get the backflip right. Can you give me advice on what gymnasts would do? What are their stretches and exercises? Anybody could answer this question. Gymnasts preferred. =D
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i have done gymnastics for eight years and i dont know if you're talking about a backflip or a backhandspring.
for a back handspring:
- practice starting in a sitting position and jumping back onto a bed.
- also try putting your hands into like the shape of a hershey kissout in front of you and lean back while watching your hand til you hit the floor and kick your legs over.
For a backflip:
- standing backflips are hard so i suggest you do a round off first if you dont know what that is then you shouldnt be doing back flips. once you have done your round off, practice jumping really high into the air, thats called a "set" when you're high in the air just flip.
- picture this: you need to jump high enough to throw a basketball and then tuck your legs in and become the basketball.
i do advise you have a coach while attempting this.
more info?
email me princess.milena@gmail.com
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Q: Okay so this is definitely not an advice question but really an opinionative one. Sorry. Anyway, do you think that in the song "I Write Sins Not Tragedies" by Panic! At the Disco that the lead singer is the groom or a guest or what? Thanks.
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i think he was like watching these events because the lyrics go like, "what a beautiful wedding said a bridesmaid to a waiter" so hes saying like whats going on.
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Q: Hello. Well tommarow is my first day of school! I'm so excited!! I have first period with this boy..I don't like him like him, but he is really cute and I want to sit next to him, but I don't want like him to come in and then me be like hey! cxome sit next to me! you know? Does anyone have any seggustions as to how I can get him to sit next to me. Or me to sit next to him? Please answer back before 7 tommarow morning. Thank you :)
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hmm well i think definitely confidence is key. Walk up to him as if you're carefree (but not in a stuck up way) and ask, "hey my name is _________ wanna sit together?" he will either say sure or no but the worst that can happen is he will say no. if he says yes dont make it an awkward situation like just strike up casual talk like about school or something. if he says no then dont like get all shy, just be like, "Ok maybe another time" and walk away with your head up. people other than him will also be impressed!
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Q: hi. i am 15 years old and have not got my first period...my boyfriend wants to have sex...but idk what would happen...is that horribly bad if i havent got my first period yet
PLEASE help i rate 5s!
despretly confuxed
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go ahead but still use protection just in case because if you're close to you period you can still get pregnant.
good luck!
Melly
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Q: Where do I start? life is really bad.
I'd kill myself but im a coward.
I've cried myself to sleep every night the past year, i cant say it feels like anyone heard me cry for help or helped me at all.. so where do I go from here with my religion? what do I do? Why is the devil putting me through this (assuming its him) and howcome G0d isnt helping?
help me find answers please.
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Pretend life is a long set of stairs. No set of stairs is perfect. Right now you are at a part in these stairs with wood poking out, missing steps, chipped paint, and it's basically a test. (these are only my beleifs) G0d is just testing you to see if you will stay loyal to him. He is there, watching. Don't fail the test! Hold your head up high and remember, i am here for you along with G0d and your family so please just try to find happiness in your life. want to talk more? email me at princess.milena@gmail.com
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Gender: Female Member Since: August 3, 2006 Answers: 187 Last Update: June 27, 2009 Visitors: 15397
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