I am 13 and latly i have been wanting sex but it is all so confusing!Is 13 to yong to have sex, and when does the bible say it is ok?Is masterbation a sin my friend said in the bible if forbids it, and is it ok if you already have done but you didn't know it was a sin at the time?Some people say that masterbation it totaly natural and other say it is sick and wrong and I don't know what to beleave ><!!I think the bible says you have to married befor you get to have sex but i don't think i can wait that long!Is ok if your not married but you love the person and sex?Every one keeps telling me differnt things and now i don't know what to think, some one please help me out!
Alexandkendra answered Sunday October 29 2006, 1:14 am: Having sex at 13 is way to young.I'm close to your age and i admit i'm not goodyytwoshoes.When you get married your suppose to have sex its supposed to be special,not because your horny.And the girl below me is right god does say that.Sex is a SPEACIAL "rituale" for the married.You should probuly wait,especially there are aids and stuff and so many teenage pregancys.Dont have sex now youll regret it.
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queenhearts answered Sunday October 29 2006, 1:09 am: Believe in what you want.
Believe in the bible if you want.
Or have your own beliefs.
Maturbation is a sin in the bible.
But I think it's natural and healthy. (It's not really sick. A lot of people do it.)
Your horomones are going crazy. 13 IS too young for sex.
In the bible it says to wait til marriage.
It's wise to have sex when you're 18 or older, have the right protection, and you're completely comfortable and ready to do it. You don't even have to do it on your honeymoon, you can have a talk with your hubby and tell him that you prefer to wait longer.
But make sure you're ready and you are commited to this person for a long time. You don't want to do it and then have that person walk out of your life. Just don't have sex any time soon. I think it's okay to have sex when you love the person but you aren't married yet.. But only when you're older.
Because you would have a lot of things to worry about.
Like your period- missing it, pregnency, STDs, boyfriend/guy troubles, etc.
Monica13 answered Sunday October 29 2006, 12:59 am: 13 is TOO young,cause i know... I AM 13.The Bible say the ONE and ONLY time is when you married.Sex is a SPEACIAL "rituale" for the married.It means both the man loves the woman enogh to prove it by giving her the gift of a child.DO NOT DO IT AT OUR AGE! Plez,listen 2 me. Hope you understand! :] [ Monica13's advice column | Ask Monica13 A Question ]
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