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♥ Hey!! My name is Allie Ribley.♥ I'm 15 years old turning 16 in April. And I live in Springfield, Illinois. It's pretty boring and theres not much to do. That is why I am so thankful for all my friends, they keep me busy and give me things to do! :) We like to go shopping,♥ some times go see a movie, but we like to rent them better, hang out at each others houses, and party! I love to party!!♥ Some people say I am wasting my life by just partying all the time, but my theory is that you only live once, so live it how you want!! And this is how I want it, so don't tell me to change it! :)
♥ I am not single anymore! I have been dating my boyfriend, Derek Betzer, he is also 15. We both go to Pleasant Plains High School.♥ And we have been together for 3 years. He has brown hair and blue eyes.
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♥ My family is not so great though. Both of my parents are alcoholics, I have an older sister [20 in February] I talk to her about some of it but I don't think she fully understands because she is not hardly ever home to know what I have to go through.♥ Their drinking problems really bother me. There's not much else to say about them.
♥ I have a lot of different sites. Here they are.
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♥ Also, I can help you with any questions that you have! That's why I made this column. I hope you enjoy it, I try to get around to it every day! I have some other sites as well..If you want them, then you're gonna have to ask for them! =p.♥
♥ Hollister, Abercrombie, and American Eagle♥ are my life. I love pearls, and long necklaces.♥ Rings are a must. I'm a really nice person, unless you piss me off, I can be a total bitch! I speak what's on my mind. Some people don't like me for that, but whatever get over it. Don't be fake around me, cuz thats annoying. I hate bitches, but I love mine. I love glitter, ♥ and bracelets. Many other things as well. As long as your nice to me, I'll be nice back. Please don't ask me stupid questions. && we'll be okay. ♥
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hey, i was wondering if weed will show up in a blood test. I'm probably going to have one for something completely un-related to drugs. i mean like, they aren't looking for weed or anything. So, i guess i'm wondering if it will show up at all and if they have to be specifically looking for it to find it. How long does it stay in your system? I've heard 38 days, but i've only smoked twice (yesterday and three days ago) and i didn't smoke very much at all. Between both days, i probably didn't even have a bowl. Thanks
Alrighty, if they are not drug testing you, they won't find it. And in your case it should be out within a few days, if you smoke a lot it can take up to a year, if you don't smoke that much it only takes about a month to get outta your system..If you sweat a lot then it gets out faster..and drink a lot of water so you pee a lot! Hope that helps! Good Luck, x0x Allie x3
This guy likes me and is gonna ask me out! I dont like him i like his best friend but his best friend i dont think likes me but i wanna know if he does. What do i do?
Well, it won't be easy, but you have to tell him. If you don't like him he's gonna find out sooner or later. So let him know, alone sometime, not in front of a whole bunch of people that you don't like him like that and you would rather just be friends. First get that off your chest. Then your gonna have to get all the nerves and go talk to his best friend and talk to him about you liking him and ask him if he likes you back. Good Luck. It's tough, I know.
So i'm having boy problems to the max. I'm 14/female and i've never had a boyfriend, but that's not the part that makes me upset. Every single time I've liked a guy they have completely rejected me. One guy told me he'd rather die than go out with me. The guy i liked most recently would sit there and talk about me right in front of everyone and say how much they hate me. Guys are always mean to me, and i don't mean to sound conceited but i'm really not bad. I mean people are always telling me that I'm pretty, but guys never seem to think so. I'm loud and talkative but all the other girls i know like that have had plenty of boyfriends. Most of my friends tell me to get over it, and that some day i'll have a boyfriend, but it doesn't help. It just really hurts to know that the guys i like always end up hating me. Nobody understands how upset this makes me. I just want a guy too like me back for once, instead of deciding to hate me. I really don't know what to do about this problem, and i know it's not that bad, but after at least 8 years of experiencing the same thing over and over again with boys it's just really getting frustrating. Could you please give me some advice?
Well, honestly I don't really no what to tell you. I don't think you should change yourself just for a guy though. In a way your friends are right you just have to wait for that one guy thats gonna love you for you! I don't really no what else to tell you. Just stay patient, I know its hard but you can do it!! Good Luck.
hey i have a boyfriend and he cheated on me 4 time i been with him for like a year and a half but i love him to death and the poeple he cheated on me with was my best friends and they dont talk to me anymore and yea they write whore and slut on my locker in school and they wanna jump me cause i am mad at them cause i though they were my friends but they are not anymore now they are getiing all my other friend not to like me and i think that is not good cause now i walk through school with no one to talk to i just wanna leave this LIBERTY HIGH SCHOOL... it sucks....PLEASE HELP ME WHAT SHOULD I DO..
I would say, first. Break up with that bastard! If he has cheated on you 4 TIMES! that's way too much. and try talking to your "friends" after you break up with him. No one should treat you that way. Good Luck.
Hey! Well my name's Nicole, and I'm 15. Well I'm having problems with sex and my boyfriend. Well, he said that he had something "special" to show me at his house this Friday night, because his parents are gone that night. I really love him, and I really think he's "the one." But I just want to know if I should say yes or not. Like should I shave or what? Please help.
Nicole
Hey, That's awesome!! This question can really only be answered by yourself!! If you want to have sex with him and you think you are ready, then go for it. But if you're not comfortable yet just let him know, he should be okay with your answer, and he's not, then he's not worth it. If I were you and you were going to, I would shave. Most guys like it clean. Good Luck!
ok this is my problem.whenever am about to haave a confrotation or fighting with anyone,my heart starts beating really first and its not like am afraid of the person its just i hate drama happening to me and i hate fights.i just want it to stop but i dont know what to do.anyone out there please help me i cant stand it no more.
girl in despair
Try breathing in and out deeply. and count to ten in your head. Sounds goofy but it should work! Good Luck && I'm sorry!
Hey guys,
I'm gonna be getting some money soon, and I was wanting to get my nose pierced. If any of you have it done, can you let me know how bad it hurt, and how much it was for yours to get done? If you can also can you please let me know what side of your nose your supposed to get pierced? Thank you so much! :-)
Hey! Oh my gosh!! Great idea. I have mine done too! Alright, well of course it hurts a little. But I thought it was going to hurt so much more than it did!! This sounds gross, but true : Put your index finger right on the inside of your nose and your thumb on the outside and squeeze hard. That hurts.. it doesn't even hurt that bad!! It was 30 dollars for me to get mine done. And get it on your left side! :) Hope that helps. Congrats!!
I recently asked a question about my ex boyfriend but ne'wayz. He likes this girl and i dont really want him to go out with her because i still have feelings for him! i dumped him tho so i shouldnt care but i do! I can't go back out with him cuz I need to obey my parents (at least for awhile) how can I stop loving him???
Thanks,
Missing him to death!
Alright, well maybe he has the same feeling that you do towards him and he is trying to get over that by dating another girl. You should let him know that you still like him. And explain why you had to break up. Hopefully he will understand. Ask him to wait a little while for you. If he truely cares, he will. Hope that helps. Good Luck
Ok I really want to make a layout site but I have a really BIG problem. I don't know how 2 make them. I've been to some sites that help w/ changing the colors but I want to know how to make my own! Could u give me an easy way to learn so I can make a site?!
Thank u soo much in advance!
Alright, first are you talking for xanga? second. it's easy!! you just need to find a code, you can IM me and ask me for that and i will give you one ... and then u fill in colors, your first ones will not be good. but IM me and i will be able to explain it a lot more!! my screen name is .. GLiiTT3R X GLAM! i hope that helps!
okay i need help. there's this guy and i reallllyy like him. he's perfect, awesome personality, beautiful eyes, funny, gorgeous smile/dimples.. what more can you ask for? but anyways, we've known each other for like 1 1/2 months, and we text and call everry night. but then when we see each other at school we barely talk?! when we're on the phone we can carry on a convo. forever. do yall think he likes me? cause i wanna go out with him. but i don't know if he likes me and i don't wanna ask him b/c i'm scared to know his reaction. so what are some ways for him to liikee me? i've never really felt this wayy for a guy before. please help. i rate=) thxx!
Hey, yah i think he likes you. You guys probably have the same feelings for eachother. It sounds like you are both nervous to talk face to face. Sometime when he is alone, break the ice and go up and talk to him. That will really let him no you like him. Go for it Girl! :)
My guy friend sat down next to me an put his hand on my knee and said let's play "Are you nervous". I have no clue what that is so i didn't do anything. What is it and how do you play?
Thanx
They are asking to do something with you sexually. Maybe just kissing or maybe something more. If you're not comfortable with that then let them no. Do not let anyone pressure you into something that you do not want to do. Good Luck, I'm sorry. p.s. if it gets too out of hand I would tell someone because they can get in trouble for sexual abuse!
Ok so my bff is like my sister and i love her to death! So know she is bffs with my x and now she is turning into a brat saying yea I hate your hair like she cant keep her rude comments to her slef i wanna know is this normal or should i br conserned??
dude. talk to her about it. no one should treat you like that especially your "best friend" let hew know how you feel and if she continues she's not a true friend anyways and you can do better. good luck!
hey guys.. well pretty soon my friend is having a keg party(drinking) and inviting everyone because her moms going to be out of town that night.. and i want to go but im scared that the cops will come and we all will get busted.. shes done a lot before and never gotten caught by her mom or anything but since its this big of a party im not sure if i should go or not it would be a ton of fun but i dont want to get totally screwed.. so let me know what i should do, thanks...
wow. this is tough! Honestly, you shouldn't go. Buttt....it's really up to you, I can't really help you out too much. I'm sorry. Good Luck. Be Safe!
can soccer improve your flexability? if it does how would it?
yes. any sport can improve your flexability. just stretching does it.
My name is Kate and i'm 13. theres this guy and i really like him, but he doesnt like me. i try to get his attention, but he doesn't even look my way. I want him to notice me, so i do my hair really cool. i want to dress cool, but i have a problem with my weight. i'm trying to loose some wieght but it's not working. do you think he would like me if i lost weight? what should i do to get him to notice me without totally embarassing myself??? please help me!!!
Alright, if a guy is only liking you for your looks you shouldn't be with him anyways!! Any good guy will love you for who you are. Don't feel like you have to lose weight for him, unless you want to for yourself. Just be yourself, maybe go up and talk to him some day or get his screen name and talk to him online or something. Don't be shy! Just go for it! Good Luck with him.
Okay. I just got the nerve to try out a tampon. I was all relaxed and read directions and I finally got it. So, I was excited I did cause I wimpped out before. and my mom got all mad at me cause she said i could get toxic shock syndrom and like something in my vagina broke? What the heck is she talking about? Im scared to use another one cause she freaked out. So help me please!!!!!!!!
Alright, don't worry. my mom said this to me too. It's very very very rare to get toxic shock syndrom, but it can happen. But not usually. Just don't leave a tampon in for too long. And She was just talking about..well if you have ever heard the expression "popped the cherry" it's not anything bad. The first time you use a tampon this will happen. you just bleed a little bit more for a day or so. Nothing bad happened. it happens to every girl so chill out. It's alright. just talk to your mom and let her no that you like tampons better and hopefully she'll understand.! Good Luck
k for halloween i'm being a cowgirl. i have a cowboy hat and stuff but i'm just not sure how i should wear my hair. it's not very long.. it just touches the top of my shoulders when it's straight. i was wondering if i should put it in pigtails or if i should just leave it down? what would go with the 'cowgirl' theme more? thanks
my hair is about that length maybe a little longer, and i suggest braided pigtails..cuz i think thats really cute!! try it and see what you think! also you can use a lot of bobby pins for the hair that falls out! :)
Hi, I have this friend, lets call her Taylor. Well, Taylor is really annoying. Taylor got really mad. I don't really know why though. Well, I try to cheer people up when the get mad at me telling jokes, buying them junk, ect. She even got mad at me for trying to make her happy!!!! Well we have had many fights. I don't really like Taylor that much anymore. I am trying to break away from he but whenever I try she pulls me in closer. I am getting tired of this. It is like she is living off me. Also she has zero respect for anybody, her mom, me, rules, friends, even little chilren. I don't know what to do anymore. I think my PMS is getting to me. I don't really know.
- Breaking Away
Sounds like you need to talk to her about everything. If she really cares she will understand and back up. Or she'll get really mad and not wanna ever talk to you again...which is kinda what you want.. but it's up to you. I just say talk to her about it. I hope that helps! good luck
hey guys ive had my iTunes for a while and today when ive started playing a song it doesnt work!
well actually, the song plays, but the lyrics sung are all blurred and you can barely hear them! only the guitar bass and drums. its acting so weird! how can i fix this?! xO
it doesn't sound like it is your iTunes..it sounds like it is the sound you are downloading.. try downloading a different song. Hope that helps.
Lately ive been so stressed , its not even funny... my best(guy)friend who i kinda like, I dont even know whether or not anymore got a new gf and shes like my friend and she told me that if i wasnt ok with it that she wouldnt go out with him but what am i supposed to do be like no you cant when i know how much my friend likes her... i couldnt do that to him now i dunno i dunno whether i feel like i want to cry or what, im thinking if i try to like a guy and get a boyfriend i wont be stressed about it anymore and crap like that but i dunno i do like him but im so happy for him at the same time cuase he likes her so much and i cant find anyone to like or who i thinks cute, and i cant stop thinking about it, and today i saw him kiss her, whats my problem why i cant i just be like no i dont like you you have agf whos my friend and now who likes you... ugh something inside of me just wants to break... :( anyhelp...
Hey, yes. I know how your feeling. It's hard to be happy for them. But I think you need to talk to both of them seperately and just let them no how you feel. Everything will work out for the best. Good Luck! x0x Allie