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I answered someones question and got a one; i reported it and it was only changed to a 2.
just reading the question then my answer, why did i get such a low rating?
QUESTION:
Well my mom did some thing REALLY REALLY stupid she said when ever my cusin gets things pierced I can get them at that age she hers, and my cusin
got her belly button pierced at 13 and I just turned 13 a little bit ago so do you think I'll look like a little s*** but I really really wanna get it pierced and most of my friends have it done so i think I wanna get it
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In my opinion, you weren't really rude -- I think your advice wasn't as helpful as she had wanted. I think the "skanky" part of your answer is what caught her attention, I would say that's most of the reason she rated you low, of course, this is only my opinion.
Most generally, L2 mods will leave a little feeback in your abuse reports, which may tell you why you received such a low rating. http://www.advicenators.com/abuse.php?mode=list&view=mine
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one of my friends ( a girl ) cheated on her boyfriend who is also my friend. she told me not to tell him but i feel like he needs to know. but i dont want her getting mad at me. what should i do? answer tonight would be great (link)
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Hi! I know, just exactly how you're feeling, I've been there. Honestly, I wish I could tell you different, but by telling her boyfriend -- more than likely she's going to be mad at you. There's no escaping that, however, I do think you owe him that much to tell him he's being cheated on. It isn't the most pleasant thing to hear, but I'm sure he would want to know.
I really think you should talk to him, and tell him he's being cheated on. If it will make you feel a little better, you could tell your friend that if she doesn't go and tell him, then you're definitely going to because it isn't fair to him.
Good luck!
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my friends are really busy so thay cant hang out and yesterday in meterology josh looked at me and i said what you looking at was that i write thing because he should not be looking at me when he has a girlfreind. (link)
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Well, as I mentioned before, looking isn't necessarily a crime, however, if you don't like it -- I think the best thing you can do is actually have a serious talk with him, and let him know how you're feeling. In a calm manor, rather than screaming or something of that effect. Good luck!
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but it is nasty touching guys butts and he even said one time youre just a straight juy he said it to a friend of his. (link)
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Oh, I missunderstood, I'm sorry -- I thought you said the guy touched his arm, not his butt. Sorry about that, and my opinion has changed. He just might be bisexual, or just gay and not coming out of the closet. But of course, that's only my opinion.
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which on do you like better. (just so i know) list them in order .. the first being the one you like the most
-thongs
-bikini underwear
-boy shorts (link)
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1. Boy Shorts (They're much more comfortable than the others.)
2. Bikini Underwear (The next step to comfort.)
3. Thongs (Not very comfortable, or healthy to wear. I prefer butterfly thongs, they're not as bad for you to wear.)
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ok well i see him today at 11:10 and we are actually playing a game in there that means we can sit anywere we want to so if he sits really close to me should i say hi or wait intill he does because yeah which so any advice on josh the sophmore i used to like di you think he is biosexual or no. (link)
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No, don't wait, go ahead and say hi to him. That will show him that you have an interest in him.
And about the sophmore, I wouldn't call him bisexual just from what you told me. I know, straight guys who have done that to other guys, just playing around -- nothing serious.
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no i dont but yeah in seminary today he found out that i am not a senior oh yeah hes not going to prom with anyone but it is to late to ask him because tickets are sold out well this saturday is going to be horrable because thats the night if prom. (link)
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Well, hey, who says you need a guy to have a good time? Nobody. You can still have lots of fun with your friends. :)
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hello he is graduating in may i have 2 months to get him to ask me out but he might not because i am a sophmore and live 30 minutes away form were he lives and the sophmore i used to like i found out that he might be biosexual because on friday in biology he kept toching his guy friend on the chest and he has a girlfriend yeah he must be any advice on the senior neal i like. (link)
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Well, now is the time to start. You'll have to get to know him first, that's the first step. As I mentioned before, talk to him often. I know you think it's embarrassing, but after talking to him for a while (not in minutes, in days), I would ask him to go somewhere with you. Because soon enough, it will be too late to do anything. Unless you know what or where he's going after he graduates.
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I am 4'11. and wish I was 5.2 how I get taller (link)
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I'm afraid that you can't make yourself any taller, however, you can make yourself appear taller. Such as wearing high heels, etc.
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yes it would tell him i am not interested which wdould be reaally weard. (link)
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Yeah, it would. So maybe, you should just start out talking to him often and see how things progress. You never know, you two may hit it off and he actually does ask you out on a date?!
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I'm 14 and wear I 34A...I will consider it small for my age, but I'm curious, am I done growing? What can I do to see that I am done? Someone said you rub them and see if they are around? Thanks! (link)
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No, you aren't done growing. In fact, some people don't finish growing until they're in their twenties.
And rubbing them will not help them grow, or do anything to benefit them growing. The only thing that will make them grow is time, really. I'm the same age as you are, and one size bigger. I'm sure you aren't growing yet, so I wouldn't be self-consious about it. :)
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http://www.abercrombiekids.com/kids/onlinestore/collection/13161_02_l.jpg
i really dont know. on one hand, i think theyre really cute. but i can't be sure.
be as harsh as you want, please. be honest. (link)
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I love these, they're extremely cute!
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I recently bought a puppy, a male teacup yorkshire terrier. What are some good names. He's dark brownish/black with alittle cream and white on his face. and he only weighs 1 pound if that helps. (link)
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Here are a couple of my suggestions: Snowball and Chance.
Here's a bunch more names -- http://www.nextdaypets.com/directory/dogs/names/
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i hate this... i had an advice column a couple of years ago, but i forgot my password, so i made a new one. that one ended up just not working. now i got another one last night, and now the stupid thing won't let me log on! i got my correct username, correct password, but i sitll can't. ok, so i click on this thing tha says "frgot your password?" and type in my email, but it says there isn't an email like that in the database or something like that... whatthe heck is going on?? why can't i log on? anything i can try that will work? will i be able to log on AT ALL anymore? i don't wanna start over! (link)
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There's only one person who can be of help to you with this problem -- DN (DangerNerd) at dangernerd@gmail.com
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if i tried to get abs, and there's like, some fat on the sides of my stomach, will they make bumps on the front of the stomach? like, will it kinda pop out or will it be gone because of the abs exercise? (link)
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More than likely, it will be gone after a while from exercising. If not, you should still be fit and have abs just as any other girl. :)
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I'm 13 and female my boyfriend is 14 or so he says. My boyfriend says he L O V E S me, but I don't! i might L U V him but i don't know. He has a tongue peircing and is going to get a tatoo! He's only 13! I severely disapprove of this. Should I break up with him? I think he lies to me too....I asked the advice of my best friend and she is very modest, so she doesn't know. But I really think I should, he is incredibly sweet but he makes incredibly stupid choices! Should I wait until he moves and just endure it or break up now? I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!
-~-~the IcedOver heart-~-~ (link)
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Well, I don't think it's right to only break up with him because of tongue peircings and tatoos, however, I do think you should break up with him if he's lying to you. It's always a good thing to be 100% honest with someone you're in a relationship with. And if he isn't, I would say break up with him for that reason.
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I'm writing a story and I cant think of any good names that I can use. It is an adventure story with a boy and a girl and they're both really powerful beings in the story. They both own dragons if that helps. I already have the dragon names, but now I need something for the main characters. Is there anything that you would recommend? (link)
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This should be of help to you -- http://www.girlnames.com/
http://123-baby-names.com/map2/boy_names.html
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so tyrie gets arrested for peeing on the street, uh why? thats pretty weird (link)
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It is considered misconduct, public intoxication and he was screaming in the middle of the street at his girlfriend, and even grabbed her a few times. So in combination, they arrested him.
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My mom's calling me fat and I`m 5'8 and I`m 134. is that bad? =[ it gets me down. please help. I didn't think i was that bad. (link)
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I'm almost your weight, and I'm the same height. It's a very healthy weight, and you definitely aren't fat. So please, don't worry about that. What makes me concerned, is that your mother is calling you fat.
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does taylor swift only have one music video (for tear drops on my gutair)? or does she haev other ones? if she ahs other ones, to what song? could you send me a youtube link? thanks (link)
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Yes, she has one more music video "Tim McGraw."
http://youtube.com/watch?v=TRR8unmfxGc
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