about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

Is it okay for me to go on my dad's motorcycle (or Harley) with contacts in w/ bug eye sunglasses? Like, am I good to go?
Thanks.

That would be fine.. I'm sure it wouldn't bother you but the sunglasses, well just hope they don't fall of.

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Omg does anyone know any sites where i could get song URL codes for my xanga playlist except for musicgalore.. cause it won't let me use that one and its confuseing but does anyone know any other good sites with music URL codes..?? i really want a playlist but i need a site first ! i will rate really high.. just please help me ! && tell me how to do it too .

x ME

http://www.xanga.com/musicURL is the best one. IM me and I will send you the code for the playlist and explain how to do it. It won't let me paste it on here.


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about 3-4 months ago my boyfriend and I split. I was so upset that he wouldn't let me explain my reasons for what had happened that I wrote him a long letter. I really did love him and I still do.I just didn't like what he said and did to me. In that letter I said some pretty nasty things. I have been thinking about him alot lately, and would reallylike to call him. should I? I mean after the letter that I wrote I'm afraid he won't talk to me, or if he does it will be to say some more mean things to me. What should I do? and If I should call him what should I say?

Break ups are always hard and once the relationship is over people think that they shouldn't even be friends. I think that you should call him or just wait for him responce to your letter. See what he says and just tell him you still want to be friends. You really need to move on to other guys. The more you're stuck on him, the more you will keep getting hurt. Go out with other guys and just have fun and keep your mind of your ex. You deserve better but for now just try to be friends with him.

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I'm 13 and I'd like to know, how much makeup is too much? On a usual day, I wear eyeliner on the bottom lid, and an opaque, frosty lilac lip gloss. Is this ok? I don't want to look like a clown

The whole point of make up is to make it not look like you have much and to bring out your natrual beauty. You're not wearing much at all and that's perfect. I know some girls that wear soo much make up and it's just so sad. They put tons of foundation to cover up their bad spots.. what I mean by tons is that their faces really look like they have mud on them. Tons of eyeliner, masacra that it actually stands out.. wow. Anyways, just make sure you always stay natrual because I'm sure you're already really pretty and you don't need much make up anyways.

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Is it possible for someone to stop growing breasts at 13? i started when I was 8, and I'm 32A

No. You stop growing when you're about 18 years old. Some people just develop faster then others but you'll grow.

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heyy. oh my god this is getting really annoying and im sick of it. why does everyone always think that preps are mean stuck up bitches that are like soo serious and everything. well not everyone thinks that much but most people think that preps are mean..i dont get it. me and my friends are labeled as preps and we are..but were like the craziest people and were not mean at all ! this one kid in my school who doenst even know me and my friends just hates us and we asked him why and he said cause we are preps and he hates preps ! he doesnt even freaking no us its sooo annoying. okay so i guess my question is.. why does everyone think preps are soo mean even if they dont even know them??

The thing with people is that no one knows why they are the way they are.. so I also don't know. I'm always labeled and yeah I'm sick of it but I just don't care anymore. People have the right to say anything they want about everyone and everything, but that doesn't make it right. I know what you mean about the whole prep thing. Some girls take it WAY to seriously and they feel like they need to be bitchy just because they're "preps".. hard to understand but it's true. Some girls feel like they are better then anyone else because they can afford Hollister and Abercrombie and they are just stuck up their own asses but that doesn't mean every "prep" is that way. Anways, people say I'm a bitch, mean, this & that but I don't care because I know I can be and if I don't like someone I'll let them know right away so they automaticly say I'm a stuck up brat. It used to bother me a lot but you just have to learn not to care. Everyone has different opinions and let people think what they want. They're losers.

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ok....so im a girl and i have trouble with guys...i like get all nervous/shy a/r guys i like and cant open up or get the guts to tell them how i feel....and i think a/b if i did how would i act a/r them if we started going out and what would we talk a/b and then omg i have to meet their parents and stuff like that! help!

-ShyGirl

Your grammar makes me not even want to read your question.

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is it odd to date somebody a year younger then you, and he's a little bit shorter then you?
Im a female.

No it's not wrong. If you like the guy then you shouldn't worry about what other people think about it but there is really nothing wrong with it.

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my friend trina keeps borrowing money from me and my other friends all the time and i've tried telling her I can't keep loanining her money all the time if she dosn't pay me back,but she won't listen to me.How can I get her to listen to me?

What does she need all the money for? Anyways, just talk to her and tell her that you will help her out with whatever she needs but you're not made out of money and you can't loan her anymore. Tell your friends not to give her any unless she pays you guys back and if she won't listen still don't give her any money. She's being greedy and selfish.

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What are websites to places similar to Myspace? Like places where you can make a site and have people look at it and have their own?

Tagged
Facebook
Xanga

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I gave up gossiping because apparently everyone thinks I have a problem with it and when I hear something, it's the hardest thing to keep my mouth shut! I haven't broken my vow yet, and I don't plan on it, as hard as it is. I have broken it past years with things like candy and complaining last year. I was just wondering, how many teens and young adults here find it hard to keep your vows for lent? Even if it's something simple like, sodas. Have y'all been able to keep your vows completely so far?

One year I gave up ice cream because that was my favorite and it was hard .. but I did it. I know that it's for a good reason and as hard as it was I still did it. It's not for a very long time so you can make it last. Gossiping would be really hard for me too. I mean, I don't gossip but if someone says something bad about my friends, of course they have the right to know. Good luck with it though. :]

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On March 20th I am moving all the way across the country to Arizona! I am excited because i love meeting new people and i really want to start over with everything. Alot of my friends are mad that I'm moving but I just want to be happy and they just cant except it. They also find the whole thing as a joke and laugh and talk about it all the time. My friend (call her c) thought it would be funny and make a calender in her locker with a countdown till I move! It pisses me off so much, and my best friend laughs along and everything. So last weekend was my friend C`s birthday and she invited some of her friends to hang out and knew i was trying to hint to her that I wanted to hang out and she knew then I only had 3 weeks left to hang out with my best friend and she didnt end up inviting me and took my best firend all weekend. Am i being selfish just asking to hang out with my best friend before I move? It hurts me alot because my best friend doesnt seem to care or even bother her im moving. =/ What I wanted to ask was what should i say to my best friend and other friend? Sorry it`s so long.. thanks

They're doing this because they can't and won't accept the fact that you're moving. They are upset and just don't want to show that infrot of you. You're not beaing selfish for wanting to be with your best friend at all. They are the ones that are beaing unfair and talk to them as soon as possible. Get both of them together or invite them over and just hang out. Tell them exactly what you told me and how you're going to miss them and it's not fair how they've been treating you. I'm sure you guys will be friends after you move, but just spend the time you have with them and make it fun.

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ok i keep losing weight but the area around my stomach seems to be getting bigger. WHATS THE PROBLEM HERE. and how can i loose weight and inches around my stomach. (and please dont suggest teentone.com) thanks

It's not getting bigger but it's probablly just turning into muscle. You should do crunches and sit ups because that's how you tone the stomach.

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My mom will NOT let me go out anywhere. Im 14 years old and i still have yet to go out to the mall with my friends. Shes way too over protective. Im not even aloud to walk down my street to mcdonalds which is not even two minutes away. I have tried numerous times to talk to her about this situation and she still sticks with the same awnser of "no your too young!" She bearly lets me go to school events, and mi grandmother pushes her into the no awnser even farther.
Thanks Rebecca ♥

Oh wow.. seems like you have no way out. My parent's were sort of like that but they still let me go places. I'm 14 now and they still won't let me go to some places and it's just crazy .. I hate it. They don't really understand that when you're young you have to have some freedom and go out and have fun because life is too short for that. Put yourself in your moms shoes. Think about how she feels. She says no because she wants to protect you from getting hurt or from anyhing happening to you. Just wait a little bit longer and try to have a real conversation with her without arguing. Let her know how you feel and both of you should try to understand each point of view.

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Are there any laws about teachers and schools getting into your personal life? Or things you do outside of school?

Not like drugs or anything.. just getting into your personal life.

If there are can you please tell me what they are and what states they apply to?

Thank you sooo much if you can help me with this.

I don't think that there are any laws about that. All teachers get into everyones personal life and one point or another. If there is abuse going on it's their job to report it. In my school, xanga and peoples blogs was a big deal. All the teachers got involved and they were making it a big deal because some people had threats on there and such and they all said it was for our protection. They are very nosy and if something doesn't seem right they will probablly report that news to someone. I'm not really sure about what states and such but I don't think it's a law though.

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Ok to put it straightfoward.. my boyfriend won't make out with me. We've talked about. And I mean we've been going out for a few months so I think we should.

How can I just like getting it stated with him. I'm used to the guys starting it with me.

Help!!

Why won't he kiss you? Most guys are usually nervous and if it's his first kiss, then of course he is nervous. Guys don't like to admit that they never kissed someone before so just don't pressure him into it because it will make him feel bad. Anyways, give it some time and let him feel comftrable around you and then see if he will make the first move and if not then you should defenetly go for it.

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is kelly and her twin sister from "8th & Ocean" the girls from that contact commercial a little while ago? they both are like, "we're twins. which one has the contacts in?" or something like that.

When I watched the show and saw them it really did remind me of the comercial. I really don't remember the name Kelly but I do remember Sabrina though and they look and sound exactly alike so I think it's them. Hm.. odd lol.

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what is autostic.. im not sure if that is the correct spelling but i was wondering what it was. thank you.

Hm, acoustic? That's a guitar but I'm not really sure what you mean so I'm sorry. :[

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just gonna come out wit the question i wanna kno. when using a tampon do you use the first whole or 2nd whole? sorry im a moron :-( but im going to FL and i dont wanna wear pads the whole time im 15 so yah know i think im old enough haha.

but please answer..

The second hole. Well, that's the only hole that the tampon will fit in but when you get the tampons read the instructions and it will show pictures of each step.

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What are some websites that you get your xanga music from?

Do you know any?

Thank you. :]

http://www.xanga.com/musicURL

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