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I am twenty-one, soon to be twenty-two, and currently work in a loan servicing department. I truly enjoy my job, as well as college, in which I am reaching my last year to receive my degree. I am an outgoing person whom loves to have fun, be with my best friends and family, go shopping and most importantly, helping others.
Helping others has always been my passionate, from a young age I knew that I wanted to help other people and be a great influence in making someone's life turn for the better. My main goal in life is to help others, and in addition to helping all of you on Advicenators -- you all are important to me, and look forward to helping you all that I can.
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what is a mothers helper and what dose it do??
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Here is the definition: http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/mother's%20helper
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i ad sex yesterday and we did use a condom. im not on birth control or anything though. so, when my bf cummed(sp?)it like filled the condom and like got on him and i think some of it got like on the outside of my vagina but i know none was actually inside of me, so is there a chance of pregnancy? (link)
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There's always that small chance, so I suggest taking a pregnancy test soon.
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Right now i started to get Lots of brown liquid stuff on my panties I asked my sister what it means she said that Its bad and should go to doctor. Does it mean Im sick or My period is starting. (link)
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I'm 99.9% positive that this is your period, we all usually get this sign before we start. You have nothing to worry about, however, if it's making you uncomfortable -- you can buy panty liners and those will help you out.
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Ok. Thank you for letting me know..I am wanting my hair to grow and I was hoping that straightening it would not make it stop growing. Thank you very much for your time and information on my questions. I was freaking out that I had ruined my hair but you seemed to have made things better. Will curling your hair with hot sticks do any damage to it? (link)
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You're welcome, it's no problem at all. I'm glad I could be a big help to you. It's people like you, who make my little job (as I like to call it) here worthwhile.
I've never used hot sticks, but I'm guessing that it could damage your hair. Being as any kind of heat, can damage your hair. It probably wouldn't cause as much damage, as straighteners though.
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when i was little i was dumb and shaved my legs...now my hair is darker and its more full...it looks like i have man arms...is their anything i can do?
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Yes, there is. You can go buy Sally Hansen Spray-On Shower-Off Hair Remover. It's absolutely painless, and it's self-explainitory. I works wonders, you won't be sorry if you buy it.
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There's this guy who I really like, but I'm not sure if he feels the same. What are some signs of him liking me? How can I tell?
(Female, 14 and up)
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So this is a question that we get a lot, here on Advicenators. Without a doubt, I had to put this in my FAQ.
First off, there are various signs that a guy likes you. He may act differently around you, than he does around other girls. He'll find any excuse on earth, to touch you or make you laugh. Among many other things, so I puter a list of websites together for you.
http://www.cosmogirl.com/guys/guide-to-guys/5-signs-guy-feb07 Five Signs
http://www.wikihow.com/Know-if-a-Guy-Likes-You Know if he likes YOU!
http://www.links2love.com/quizzes/does_he_like_you_quiz.htm Quiz to find out if he likes YOU!
Here are some tips for you, as well.
*Talk to him on a daily basis, or at least every other day. Even if it's only a "Hi!" or something of that sort. The point is that you're talking to him, and communication is very important in any relationship. Without it, you simply have nothing. But also, you have to remember to let him talk too. You don't want to be a chatter box. :)
*Try flirting with him, subtle flirting at the beginning. And if everything is going good, move on to more advanced flirting. Here is a website I found to help you out.
http://www.myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm The flirting guide!
Conversation Starters - http://www.myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/convo.htm
http://searchwarp.com/swa45156.htm
http://dating.suite101.com/article.cfm/unique_conversation_starters
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/dating/30-conversation-starters
NOTE: This advice is recommended to girls fourteen-years-old and up, and is not meant to use on guys who have girlfriends. Only giving this advice for those, who are single.
EXTRA ADDITIONAL INFO ANSWER - HOW TO GET A BOYFRIEND -> http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/getabf.htm
QUESTION 2...
The following links should help you out, TONS!
http://becomeaplayer.com/bodylanguage.htm
http://wrapper.askmen.com/s?from=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.askmen.com%2Fdating%2Fdating_top_ten%2F50_dating_list.html&siteId=9549&size=entryinterstitial&cKey=4619337-13323776551194222592989&docTitle=AskMen.com%20-%20Signs%20a%20girl%20likes%20you
http://en.allexperts.com/q/Know-Really-Likes-1835/signs-1.htm
http://www.indobase.com/holidays/valentines-day/valentine-day-tips/she-loves-me-or-not.html
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its going to damage my hair?? i dont want it to ruin my hair!
i love it
will it also make my hair stop growing too (link)
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I'm going to assume that you are the one who asked if straightening your hair would damage it. And yes, it will damage it because of heat.
No, it won't make it stop growing.
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actually no it has not at all..
because my hair has split ends because i dont cut it...
and it is not dry at all
it is only thin
so i dont think your advice is that great... (link)
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I'm sorry you don't think I gave you very good advice. You haven't supplied any information though, such as your username or just the question that I answered of yours. But again, I'm sorry that you don't think I gave good advice. Hopefully, you find the answer you're looking for, from another columnist.
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if you delete something & press empty recycling bin, is there any way you can get it back? (link)
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Yes, all you need to go is go into your System Tools, and click on System Restore -- and it'll all come back.
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I love my boyfriend and he loves me too, but I'm underage. Is it legal for me to have sex with him, in my state? (link)
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Hey, you! I've noticed this question tends to get asked occasionally. So I thought it would be great to be put in my FAQ.
It all depends on what the age of consent is in your state, so I decided to post this right here. It is credited by Razhie, not me. So please, thank her for this link. =]
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if someone could seriously get me the code for the little tm i will rate high.I've looked everywhere and just no luck. (link)
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Hi, just use this code ™
Also, you can copy and paste the it as well.
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if youre being fingered can the guy tell if you're a virgin or not? what about if you're having sex with him? can he tell?
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No, not really, because what most people forget is that your hymen can break doing other things, than sex. It could be using a tampon, playing sports, etc. That's how they would usually tell, however, it can be broken so many other ways.
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this sounds stupid but if you have sexual intercourse (like the penis going into the vagina even a little bit) but the guy doesn't finish, are you considered a virgin? like if you were one before. (link)
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Everybody has their own opinion of what losing their virginity means, with my opinion, I don't think you're a virgin now because you had intercourse, even though he may have not finished. Although, you could still be a virgin, mentally. Like I mentioned though, it's all about personal opinions of what you really think losing your virginity means. And your opinion is the only one that counts.
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ok so i like this guy and i"m invited to this bonfire party and he"ll be there and i really want to talk to him and get to know him better but im well chicken! i really like him! the closest i ever talked to him was aim so i dont know what to do (link)
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I'm assuming you do know who he is in real life, and not just someone you met on the internet. But if he is, I don't suggest doing it. I think you should go otherwise, and just try and chat up a conversation. I'm sure everything will work out great, just try not to act awkward. That will make him awkward, etc. So play it cool, maybe talk about some things that you've talked about on aim, things you have in common...and I think you'll be just fine.
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i need to get a new straightener. does anybody know of a good straightener that i can get for around $40.. or less at sally beauty supply? even at walmart. i want one that works really good. price & name would be great. i know that chi's work really good, but they're too pricey & i have to spend my own money i don't really wanna spend that much. thanks! (link)
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I recommend Conair straighteners, such as this one -- http://www.conair.com/satin-finish-three-quarters-inch-ultra-slim-ceramic-straightener-p-60.html
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ok..so if you straighten your hair like evreyday..or almost everyday..will your hair be like gross and damaged? and if it does happen how long does it take? because i straightened my hair for a whole semester like everday! and this week i straightened it everyday! so what happens? (link)
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I'm afraid this is going or may have already damaged your hair, a great deal. I recommend using heat styling products, by Tresemme, to prevent your hair from being damaged.
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ok i used the last login code from whateverlife.com and it didn't work. is there another one i can use. or how can i fix the one i have.please and thank you. :] (link)
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Here you go -- http://www.myspaceisbetterthanyours.com/myspace-codes-hide-last-login/
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I can't remember what this quote is from, but it's been bugging me all day.
"You can't love him if you fear him"
Does anyone know where that's from, or a similar quote. Maybe I got it jumbled up...
Thanks to anyone who answers.
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I'm afraid this is the only thing I could find, but I hope it helps you out.
http://www.mbeinstitute.org/Quotes/weekly05-23-05.pdf
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okay i am 14/f and i weigh like 110. i no that's not alot but i really want to get skinnier. i no it's really bad for you and all but i really want to be annerexic, because i no it works! but it's hard for me to discipline myself not to eat! i have been riding my bike 4 miles like everyother day. that's really easy because im very athletic and i play soccer 2 times a week also. and i have been trying to cut down on food and also eat more fruit. it's so hard because when i'm bored i want to eat even though im not hungry. i also do 500 situps every day. i am skinny i just want to be skinnier. i am trying to be annorexic but maybe eat like a banana a day or something but it is so hard not to eat! please help me and give me ways to stop me from eating when im broed and stuff like that! im desperate! thanks in advance! (link)
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Please, at least consider my answer even though it isn't really what you're looking for. I want you to be healthy, and being anorexic is definitely not healthy. You're already thin, I weigh a little more than you do and I'm fifteen, so you're in good shape and at a healthy weight. Why not try eating things in moderation, and small portions (if it makes you feel better to do so). These are good tips for you, as far as eating out of boredom.
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how do you erase things that are saved in the things you write in like the search things.
like on google, where you type in the search box and you type one letter and other things that start with that letter that youve searched for pops up. how do you delete that? (link)
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If you have Internet Explorer 7, you can go to "Tools" and click on "Delete Browsing History." Then, once you have clicked that, you click on "Delete All" and you're finished.
If you have the old version of Internet Explorer, you can go to "Tools," and clear history, cookies and files (online and off).
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