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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
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whats a good new change for me ... i wanna change my look .. my pics are on www.fallingtears.piczo.com ..
What are you trying to change? Lord you're gorgeous! Maybe just go with a new hair cut. Get it cut to your shoulders with layers and dye it a different color like a dark brown or a light brown with blonde and light brown highlights in it. I think you're gorgeous and you don't really need to change anything. Hope this helped.
oo..this grl told me its right under her boobs not like the farthest part of them...so if they r skinny but have rele rele big boobs that number is bigger?
Yep, exactly. It's not the part under your breasts. It's the farthest part out. Hope this helped.
what do you girls use to get rid of pimples/acne, to wash ur face, lotion, what kind of foundation/cover-up/concealer? ps ... i dont have to much money and i would love to have clear skin by halloween! thanks gurlies!
I reccomend you use Clearisil products. I've tried proactive and it's a piece of shit so don't even waste 50 bucks on it. Clearisil products have worked the best on everyone I know. Try that. Hope this helped.
hey u kno how some people talk about a grl like having numbers sumthin like 36/25/34 or suntin like that?? what do those numbers mean?????
They are your measurments. The "perfect measurements are 36/24/36 it goes from bust, waist to hips. That is always the order. Hope this helped.
does anyone know how to sterilize ( i think thas how its spelled) a needle at home? bcuz im piercing my tongue n i needa know how to do it...
Wash it in dish soap and then burn it. Hope this helped.
hey well i hear people calling people dooshbags. like theyll be like omg you dooshbag! well... wats a dooshbag?
Well it's spelt douche... but like the person before me said, it's something that you clean your vagina with. Hope this helped.
could any of you tell me what the different colored ribbons mean?
thanks.
ill rate.
Well the pink ones are breast cancer, the yellow, red, white and blue ones are for the troops and there are plain red ones that are for the make a wish foundation. Hope this helped.
Hi ! Well i was wondering what would be a good hair color for me to go with this fall/wonter i want to go darker but i don't want it to wash out my face ya know ?? So like my skin is like a creamy natural color not to light not to dark..and my eyes are greyish/hazel !! Yeah..right now my hair is Light Ash Blonde !! Thanks !!!!
Go with a dark blonde to a light brown. Get blonde highlights and dark brown low lights. Hope this helped.
What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her?
Well, when I had my first boyfriend I was 11 and he was 14. Yes it was quite weird. I knew I was way too young to be dating. Girls and guys are just dating younger and younger these days. I know 4th grade girls that are already making out with their boyfriends. I'm 14 right now and I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. When I ever have a son or a daughter I'd let them date around 13. They're kids, you have to let them experience things for themselves. You just really need to make sure things don't get too serious. There are even as young as 12 year olds getting pregnant these days. Hope this helped.
hey,
does any one know a place where i can get those livestong things? i know they come in purple, yellow and pink, do u know any others???? ( i rate high)
I've seen a green one and a blue one. You can get them at any sports place or a place where they sell athletic shoes or sports athority. Hope this helped.
everyone tells me im a slut...even tho im not at all just because i wear slutty clothes...how can i make them stop
Well, if you wear slutty clothes, try to cover up a little. That's why their calling you a slut. There is really nothing you can say to them. Even if you tell them to stop or to shut up they aren't going to do it unless you change how you dress.
Is it ok to flush a pad down the toilet?
No because the toilet will get clogged and it will overflow and everything that got suck trying to go down because of the pad will come back up with it. It's pretty nast, you shouldn't do that with tampons either. Hope this helped.
Why do people answer questions, just to say they don't know, or to ask somebody else?
Why do people answer questions they obviously, from their answers, don't have a clue about?
Because in the words of my father, people in general are idiots. So basically to answer your qwuestion, they are idiots. Hope this helped.
I am 13/f. Ever since I have been dating my boyfriend, I have been thinking things I really shouldn't be thinking. I keep getting all these...desires to do things to him. I shouldn't be thinking things like that, I'm only 13!!! How do I stop?
Well, you really can't. When you're 13 your hormones start racing and you have like all these fantasies about someone. Everyone feels that way no matter what. For some people that are extreamly religeous it's a sin to think that way but it's your body that is changing and that's just how you act and how you think when you start to grow and develop. Hope this helped.
ok jus like 20 minutes ago me n my sister were play fighting...well she pinched me realli hard on my hand and now my vein is purple n sticking out is that ok or should i go see the doctor??
Put ice on it and if it isn't better by tomorrow go to the doctor. Hope this helped.
Ok, my friend thniks shes pregnant! Shes only 13 and she told me that she had sex. well today at school she was asking people to feel her stomach because it was wierdly warm. I mean nobody elses stomach felt that way and she felt sick when she smelt food. But shes hungry all the time! And the thing that worries me most is that she hasn't ahd her period and it was supposed to start at the beginning of this month! She told me that when she first started having sex they didn't use a condom then he pulled out, put on a condom, and started having it again. Please help me and my friend!!
Well, odds are she is pregnant. It was her own choice to start having sex unprotected even though they put a condom on after and then went at it again. Another thing is she could also be doing it for attention. Girls do that sometimes. But if she's not then she's pregnant. I'm not trying to insult your friend or anything but she really needs to think about what she's doing. She's 13 years old for God's sake. What is she thinking? Hope this helped.
One of my closest guy friends just told me he fancies me. I don't know what to do, I really like him as a friend but now I don't know how I can carry on as normal with him. And what makes it worse is my boyfriend is his best friend.
Unless you want there to be, you have to tell him that you can be nothing more than friends. Tell him that you both would end up hurting your boyfriend if anything was to ever happen between you two. Try to avoid him for a little while and if your boyfriend asks you why just let him know. Hope this helped.
Sorry it's so long, but I think I might to need to tell a teacher or somebody, can you help me?
A friend told me earlier today, she made me pinky swear that I wouldn't tell a guidence counciler or anything... well she told me she's cutting, or like that she wants to start.
Then by 3rd period... 3rd block, whatever you call it, she said she talked to a friend and said that she decided she doesn't want to cut... I don't think she started, just she talked about wanting to cut, and she said she was suicidal, because she couldn't stand living with her mom, her parents are divorced, and he mom won't let her live with her dad, and her mom won't go to court & let her choose what she wants to do.
Can she change her mind from being suicidal, to having talked to somebody that fast, or should I tell one of my teachers... I have a teacher that I know I can tell anything to. What she made me promise is not to tell anyone, like from guidence or anything.
So what I'm asking is
1.)Is she really over it?
2.)Would I be breaking the promise (I don't care if I am or not, I just want to know if I'm breaking it. if I tell the teacher I mean.)
3.)And Should I tell the teacher?
(she told me around 7am, then around 12ish she told me she talked to a friend and won't cut, and doesn't think she's suicidal. She seemed happy when she told me.)
Thanks for all the help in advance, I appreciate all answers, even if they're rude.
Okay, you really need to help this girl out even if she said she wasn't going to do it. I was a cutter, every day for a year and a half. Trying to hide that is really hard. You really need to sit down and talk to her and have a heart to heart with her about it. I don't give a rats ass if you're breaking a promise by telling a guidance counselor. She NEEDS to get help. Cutting will lead to suicide. You need to tell someone about it. If you really care about your friend you will say something about it. She needs to go to therapy. She's depressed and depressed people can't really try to act normal when put under pressure. When someone that is depressed get's pressured for ANY reason, they do stupid shit, they cut, the drink, they do drugs and in the worst case, they will try to commit suicide. You need to help your friend. I'm tired of hearing that young teens found a permenant solution to a temorary problem. Please, do your friend a favor and TELL SOMEONE. She will thank you in the end. Even if you're scared about breakin a promise, would you rather see her dead or upset for a while because you told on her about cutting? Think about it. I hope you make the right decision. Hope this helped.
well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris hes a sophmore and im a frshman.. and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say sumthin to chris but we like dont know eachother.. and i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to soudns weird.. id take my friends bus and what should i say when i first talk to him, should i sit near him and smile and say hi or sumhin or ask him if hed wanna hangout? i dunno:-\thankss
If he's going to be shy and not say anything to you and you seem to have the guts to say something to him then definately do it. Next time when he passes you in the hallway say hey to him. The next time you take your friends bus, as him to come and sit with you guys or to sit near you and just talk about your interests like sports and music. After maybe a week or so, ask him if he'd like to go to see a movie with you or hang out somewhere (I profer to go to the skate park but it's your prefrance) But when you see him, just smile at him. All guys like it when girls smile. Hope this helped.
I sometimes feel the need to have a relationship, like my self-esteem is really low because I believe I need one (like a serious one)... is this normal? what should I do?
Yes, it is normal to feel that way. For a while I'd feel that the ONLY way I'd ever be able to be happy is if I was in a relationship. That's how alot of people are, not just girls but guys too. We need that extra support to help us through things. We need that special someone to be there for a shoulder to cry on. We just need SOMEONE who we know is going to be there for us and it's a great comfort. There is really nothing you can do about it. It just means that you are dependent. For some people it is okay to feel that way but you really shouldn't be dependent on a relationship to raise your self esteem. Try telling people how you feel and you might feel better. Hope this helped.