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he fancies me


Question Posted Thursday October 21 2004, 3:43 pm

One of my closest guy friends just told me he fancies me. I don't know what to do, I really like him as a friend but now I don't know how I can carry on as normal with him. And what makes it worse is my boyfriend is his best friend.

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candigirl08 answered Thursday October 21 2004, 4:23 pm:
well u can just let him there is nuttin u could do but i mean u don't have feelings for him do u maybe it was only a one time deal u never know but i would ask him why he is doin that and talk things threw b.c u wound't want u and ur b/f realtionship to be messed up so i would talk it over with him..

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MissEmmyBoo answered Thursday October 21 2004, 4:16 pm:
Well, you have to tell this guy that you like him as just a friend and make it clear that that is the only way you like him! I wouldn't say anything about it to my boyfriend unless your friend keeps on telling you stuff like this. Hope I helped!-
*Emily*

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xokaylanicoleox answered Thursday October 21 2004, 4:12 pm:
Well, I know it's hard, I know how it to have one of your good friends like you as more than a friend and it's hard for you to act normal but just do it. Act like you were before you knew he liked you. It'll be good in the end. He won't like you like that, but you'll still be his friend. Hope I helped! -Kayla

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Thursday October 21 2004, 4:08 pm:
Unless you want there to be, you have to tell him that you can be nothing more than friends. Tell him that you both would end up hurting your boyfriend if anything was to ever happen between you two. Try to avoid him for a little while and if your boyfriend asks you why just let him know. Hope this helped.

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K3587 answered Thursday October 21 2004, 4:04 pm:
Oh, that's no big deal. So he said he likes you. Why should anything change? Nothing is different. He used to like you, and he still does. The only difference now is that you know about it.

I doubt anything will get out of hand. Nothing new will go between you two. He got out his emotion and that's all he needed.

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liddylflirtx3 answered Thursday October 21 2004, 4:02 pm:
Wow. You should tell him that you know he wanted to get his feelings off of his shoulders and tell you how he feels, but he really shouldn't have. Tell him that you feel your relationship with him is probably going to change now, and you're not really sure what to do. It's pretty stupid that he told you that, since he knows that you have a boyfriend - his best friend! Tell him that you and him really can't be together (atleast not now...) and you just want him to think of you as a friend because you value your simple friendship =)

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